My boyfriend wants to marry me, and I think it s incredible

Since he wants to marry you and wants children, it means that this man really loves you and wants to live with you for a lifetime, so you should be his partner in the future, the mother of the child, you should feel happy, love has nothing to do with the length of time, many people talk about it for a few years or break up, and many people know each other for a short time and get married and have children but live very happily. If you love him too, be brave.

Damn, it's ** at every turn, it's too disrespectful of life!

I'm not a child anymore, so I have to be more stable in my work.

One additional sentence: In the past, love that was not aimed at marriage was a hooligan! Now love for the purpose of marriage is whimsical!

Don't you want to marry him Then what kind of person he is in your heart You know better than anyone else Your place in his heart You can also know openly and secretly whether you want to get married or not Recognizing the level of trust between each other is the most important thing.

Grandpa Mao said that love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan! Sooner or later, you're going to get married.,The landlord may not have had enough.,You can both make it clear.,Hehe!

Boyfriend, if you can trust it, you can consider getting married, but if you don't want to, just tell him, you can't put off such a thing, in case you have a child, growing up is very fast.

Are you ready to get married and raise children? Why don't you get married and have children first, it has nothing to do with the length of acquaintance, it depends on whether you know him and whether he is worth relying on.

You deserve to be happy. Since a man can say these things and do these things, it means that he has decided that you are his companion in this life.

It's okay to be short, as long as he's serious about you. In these years, such a man is rare.

Maybe he has a secret affair, and getting married doesn't mean he loves you.

Don't you want to marry him? Do you want to have fun?

This man wants to possess you for the rest of your life.

Maybe it's because he really loves you.

Some men think about marriage very complicated, and feel that they must make a name for themselves before considering marriage, otherwise they are irresponsible for marriage. When the current financial strength has not yet reached his expectations, the idea of delaying the marriage will arise. No matter what the reason for a man, as a woman, the first thing to figure out is whether the man still has love for him.

On the premise of love, you are considering whether to continue the relationship, and you can make it clear to the man that you want to get married, if the man insists on maintaining the status quo and does not consider the woman's feelings, he can quit. A woman's youth is only a few years, and it is undoubtedly not worth wasting her youth for someone who cannot give herself a clear future!

Some people say that from falling in love to getting married, it is best to be within a year or two, otherwise the freshness period will pass, and the chance of marriage will decrease. I think there's some truth to that. In three years you got to know each other and got to know each other.

Maybe he's slowly discovering that you're not the ideal partner he wants, or that you're not the right fit for him. It's just that because I have been in love for three years, I don't want to bear the infamy of a negative man, so I don't open my mouth, waiting for you to say it. Put the problem on the table and communicate it well.

If you have the idea of getting married, what are you worried about? Can it be solved? If you don't have the idea of getting married, pull it as soon as possible, don't delay each other, and live this kind of dewy couple's holiday.

A man who is with you and never leaves you will love you. If you want to say why you don't mention marriage, it is estimated that he feels that he does not have a good financial ability to marry you, and if he is really married, you will be the one who suffers, so he dare not mention it! Secondly, I must feel that after getting married, there will be less and less of this kind of love between each other, and I will always be bothered by the trivial things of life, and the life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea will be disrupted!

Therefore, whether a man loves you or not is not what he says, it depends on his actions, whether he gets married or not does not necessarily mean that he loves you or not, whether he loves you or not, you must have the answer in your heart!

No, he probably wants to start a business first and then start a family. After all, his career has not made some progress, and he may be afraid that he will not be able to give you a better life.

If that's the case, I'd suggest you'd better talk to him and advise you to leave as soon as possible if he has no idea of getting married.

In fact, it is best to keep a distance if you are not married, once you break up, it will hurt the woman a lot, and it will also have an impact on the future marriage.

Make sure it's too young now, you also think about it, if you are engaged, you don't necessarily break up, and you don't necessarily have to get married, because things are changeable, anything can happen, don't get pregnant and tie up a person, this is a big mistake, if you don't want to beat the child, it hurts your own body, and you must first be responsible for yourself.

I think if a man is in a relationship with you and doesn't want to marry you, then this is a hooliganism, and then I think if you think he doesn't want to marry you, then you must consider this relationship with him.

Yes. This shows that your boyfriend has not thought about it and is not ready to marry you. But it is not ruled out that he is just having fun with you and does not really want to marry you.

I feel that your boyfriend is still very sensible, after all, you are too young, and your personality and work are not so mature, and now you have to have a child, how to raise it? After all, you are not married, if you reach this age, it is time to get married, it is okay to get pregnant, I feel that your boyfriend is still very good to you, you don't think too much, this matter is not in a hurry, you have to discuss more, after all, your age is too young.

Hello! You're already engaged, it's normal to have children, and with the age of the two of you, why can't you have children?

It's your man who is a little half-hearted, otherwise he wouldn't think so, and he said he wouldn't break up when you said he was breaking up, what is the problem?

If the two of you are true love, I suggest that you give birth to the child, and the affairs of the two of you should be considered carefully, and others will not interfere with you.

Girls often go out of their way for love.

First of all, you're only 20 years old, and you don't have a lot of protection. Personally, I will understand girls very well, and I think that boys do not think it is right for them to do this. Let's think about having children from a different perspective:

If you have a baby now, can you raise it? Where to live, how can you rely on your boyfriend's salary for milk powder and confinement money? So giving birth to a child now is an act that is irresponsible for the child.

About boyfriends who don't want to marry you. I would like to say. A real scumbag will ignore you after knowing that you are pregnant. He also cares about you giving you solutions. So it's not that I don't want to get married. He probably thinks that getting married now can't give you the best.

Personally, I recommend opening up and talking to him once, rather than holding it to heart.

Too young to be mentally immature.

Did you know that there is a mentality called fear of the unknown? That is, if you haven't experienced something, you will have a fear mentality. I read your words and think that you are too anxious, and he may not have feelings for you as much as you think, and he doesn't want to get married.

He just wasn't ready to be a father raising children, you also know how troublesome it is to raise children now, it's not that it's okay to feed him, you still have to play with him, and you have to tutor learning and writing homework (online tutoring homework is painful little ** to see too much really affects the mentality of unmarried people), he asked you not to tell others, it's not that he really doesn't want to make it public, but I'm afraid that his parents will know about it and let you give birth, I guess he still wants to be happy with you for a few years, and have a child so early, I'm afraid it's terrible for him (I guess he hasn't grown up himself, and his mentality is not mature, including yourself, because modern life is relatively good, and maturity is generally late). So what you're doing now is very subtle, if you don't handle it properly, it really affects your relationship, and if you handle it properly, your relationship really doesn't affect it. So you can give him appropriate pressure to make him more mature, but don't make too much trouble, let him have a rebellious mentality towards you, then even if your relationship is okay now, it will break up sooner or later in the future.

Honey, hug you first! This question depends on the situation:

Have you ever mentioned to your boyfriend that you want to get married?

1.His attitude is to avoid talking about it, and no matter what you say, it is clear that he really does not want to marry you;

2.He said that he wants to create better material conditions for you, but he needs you to wait for him for a few years, so it's not that he doesn't want to marry you, but you have to discuss the bottom line of waiting, girls can't afford to be young, of course, if you are willing to wait, you must also improve yourself during this period, don't sacrifice and dedicate yourself completely, otherwise it is not certain whether he will marry you after he succeeds;

3.He doesn't know you well enough (1 2 years in love), and wants to understand you better, so it's not that he doesn't want to marry you, but he is considering it carefully, and we can also take this opportunity to get to know him better.

This is the end of mine, I wish you happiness, hope!

You should communicate well.

Understand each other's thoughts.

If you don't know what the future holds.

If you don't know each other's marriage plans.

It was originally a failed love.

In that case, ask clearly, if it's not the outcome you want, end it as soon as possible.

Whether your boyfriend wants to marry you or not, you know best, if a man really loves you, then he can't wait to marry you.