I m 17 and I ve never been in love and it s particularly humiliating mainly because I don t have the

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
62 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I was the same as you back then, and the way was not to think of a girl's gender as soon as I approached her, so that I could get along like ordinary classmates and friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't feel ashamed of not being in love.

    I think you have to be proactive to have a chance.

    It's better to try to take the initiative to talk, be friends, and develop further than to take no action at all.

    Remember: it's better to act than to move

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, I feel that there is no shame in not talking about it, which shows that we are stable. It's not difficult to get in touch with girls, and you can develop your own personality charm. You don't have to take the initiative to have a girl approach you.

    The fastest way is to get into the girls' pile, and within two days you will have contact with the opposite sex. (*Hee-hee.......) Everyone has your back.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    17 years old is too young, and it's normal to be stupid.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Learn to communicate with others. Learn to express yourself. In short, if you have someone you like, you have to be bold to chase it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're still very young, you don't know what love is, and doing what you are doing now is the most important thing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay, it's going to get better slowly. Just try to get in touch with the girl slowly

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I've never been in love with anything, this love of yours is just playing, it's not interesting.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Adjust your mentality, there is nothing to be ashamed of, fate can not be found, grasp it when you meet it, wait well when you don't meet it, don't blindly plan to choose a person to accompany you through the second half of your life because of the objective factors of the outside world, girls, be responsible for your own happiness

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not a shame.

    I'm not married.

    As big as you.

    I can only say that the time has not yet come.

    Who said that marriage is happiness?

    It's good to be alone.

    Freedom

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Lose someone, it's just your heart, more than 40 people are not married, and they are still very optimistic.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then you should be a post-80s generation. It's a little bit. But depending on who it is, it may be that you care more about your career.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, there are a lot of leftover women now, so you don't have to feel ashamed.

    Maybe I didn't find the right one, but I will always find it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There will be no shame, what is there to lose hungry.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You are still young, don't put your mind on this, you will be admitted to university in the future, have a good career, and there will definitely be good girls who like you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Well, I haven't been in love since college, what's the matter, it's just that I haven't met that person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not a shame, and some people haven't been in love at the age of twenty, so this is not a shame. Some people believe that the third year of high school is to study, and then sprint for the college entrance examination, and there is no time to fall in love. So there's no shame in that.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What a shame is it, 17-year-old people who haven't liked talents!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You're only 17 now, don't think too much. Focus on learning.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There's nothing to be ashamed of =w=

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, there are many people who start falling in love after college, don't be in a hurry, study hard first.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is no shame, it depends on what kind of mentality you have and what kind of girlfriend you want.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Normally, there are still people who will believe that you should have a good relationship in college.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    How can it be ashamed, there is no age limit for love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't be ashamed, when you go to college, you will find that your kind is definitely a hot item.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is no shame. This shows that you are focused on reading.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's not a shame, it's normal, I still haven't been in love after graduating from college.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is no shame. This kind of problem cannot be said to be shameful or not.

    Everyone has their own way of life.

    I'm 21 years old. Still single. Don't care what others think of you. Just be your own.

    I was also often ridiculed.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I may be a little behind. But I don't think it's better to fall in love as soon as possible.

    Love is a kind of emotional giving, a kind of accumulation of experience, but it is not a competition. You don't have to compare yourself to others. Human feelings, especially love, should be the most precious wealth in a person's life.

    Even if you are willing to "consume" some, don't let your emotions flow out as easily as you turn on the tap of tap water.

    Seventeen? Then you're really still young! Please cherish your emotional cellar and don't let it open too early.

    When your heart is truly mature and blooming, you will find that the "daughter red" you have stored is definitely better than "1573", even if it is not as good as "1573".

    I don't know if you understand this, but what I'm trying to tell you is that even if you're forty years old and haven't been in love, you're not ashamed.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There's nothing to be ashamed of, but it seems that youth is missing something. In fact, when you mature, you will find that the so-called love in the past has become a good memory. Isn't there such a saying: "A good meal is not afraid of being late." "Come on!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I didn't fall in a relationship before I was 24 years old, so do you think I'm more ashamed?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Strange, is there a rule that you must have a puppy love to not be ashamed?! I think that's an advantage...

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    There is no shame in it, because Lao Tzu is also 20 years old, and girls hold hands and fall in love, so don't be discouraged and take your time.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    No shame, let me tell you, we don't have a dormitory. And we're almost out of college, so we think that's pretty good!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's not a shame, this is fashion, long live being single, I plan to be the first in my studies.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    What's there to be ashamed of. It's just that you haven't talked about it -- people may still say you're pure.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Yes! I'm 17 years old, but I'm going to college.

    My thoughts may be simple, my current state is dropping likes among friends. Someone said to me: You don't call it falling in love, I think girls must not do things that are sorry for themselves!

    It's like not love

    Satisfied?

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Why can't love be stopped by no one If you can talk about it, but you have to have a degree, you can't go too far, because you're a girl, and the last thing that hurts is you, you know a little more, in fact, at this time, even if you can't be together in the future, that's a good memory for you.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you want to talk about it, but if you regret it, then it's no wonder to others, it's better to focus on studying, everything else is secondary, and it's never too late to talk about it when you go to college.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Yes, yes, but it's better not to talk about it, if you don't grasp it well, you will regret it for the rest of your life, so it's better to focus on your studies.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Yes, yes

    But beware of being fooled

    It is recommended to talk about it a little bigger

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    As long as you find a sincere boy, I think you can, but be cautious, after all, the relationship at this time is really not very strong, and even 17 years old.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Yes, as long as you want to talk, you can talk about it at any age.

    But be careful.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Yes! I felt that I was a little late in falling in love, and I regretted it, and I thought that the good ones might have been missed. Don't let go of someone you like.,Be sure to remember to confess.。。

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Let's talk about it, it's too late to get to college, talk about experience.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's better not to get hurt!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Do something that is helpful to you.

    For example, if you're hungry and don't want to work, eat it. The same thing.

    But then again, you can't get by anything, like eating too much, and don't forget what is the most important thing.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    You think your mother is annoying because you are in a rebellious period, and you feel that you can understand everything, you can do anything, you can do anything, and you should understand the mind of being a mother. Secondly, for love, I have always felt that as long as you walk by feeling, you can control yourself in the process, don't go overboard, otherwise you will burn yourself.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Falling in love at the age of 17 doesn't mean you can't do it.

    But it's very naïve to fall in love at the age of 17.

    Because of you at the age of 17.

    It has not yet come out of society.

    You're going to think I'm taking a guy right now.

    After falling in love, they will really be together.

    Will get married, will live together forever.

    It's a naïve idea.

    Because when you get out of society.

    Your mind will slowly mature.

    You will think that it is really naïve and ridiculous to be in a relationship before.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    In fact, the key is whether you are willing to let go of yourself and communicate with others, exchange, some things are not as bad as you imagined, appearance is not very important, according to your thoughts, those who fall in love are beautiful women? Not necessarily, your autism leads you to this kind of thinking, the first thing to do is not **, but to develop in the direction of a good character

    Change now and believe that there will be people who appreciate you

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    If you want to open something, it's not difficult, just relax your mind.

    I feel like this society is too open, and there are no serious girls.

    I'm looking for a smart, introverted girl.

    Except for the boys who have the idea of "playing".

    People who really want to fall in love or get married like girls who do their part.

    Character and personality are the most important, don't care too much about appearance, figure or something, but it is also necessary to dress appropriately to enhance the temperament and taste, relatively, and don't be too attracted by the appearance Handsome cool may not be reliable, I hope you can find a suitable partner for you.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    It's a little too fat, a little less. In fact, self-confidence is a thing, as long as you think you are excellent, others will not think you are inferior. In fact, you don't have to be inferior or hungry at all.

    I'm a bit of a loner sometimes, but I have a lot of friends and I can go together. That is, everyone is making noise there, telling some jokes, in short, what they like to talk about. Mix quickly.。。

    Make more friends and stay with more friends, naturally there are more friends and more opportunities to talk. Although, people who really like you won't mind what they do. But this year.

    You'd better cut it off a little. I guess it's been a long time since you've been in love. When you have a boyfriend, you won't be so uncomfortable now.

    I'm sorry I didn't read it carefully. Also, it's hard to find a pure twin university now.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Some people continue their love in college until they get married and have children after work. Love sometimes has to be fought for, and it depends on luck, what is the way for some people to meet a good man?

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    It comes down to the question. Because of fatness, you don't have self-confidence anymore. Severe low self-esteem can affect your normal interactions with other people.

    If I just say that you don't**, it's hopeless, it can be cruel. But that's the fundamental problem. If you can lose less than 100 pounds, I guarantee that whatever you lose will be delivered to your door.

    As for how **. Don't rely on **tea**medicine. That thing didn't work. After eating, people are deformed. Stick to aerobic exercise and dietary control. Have a long-term plan. It's good that you still have this awareness. But you have to be resilient and persevere.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Don't be sad about this, I have a senior sister who is a little similar to you, and she is also chubby, she has no friends of the opposite sex, her social circle is very narrow, and she has always been with girls, including me, in fact, she has no friends of the opposite sex She confessed to the person she liked once in high school, and was rejected, and then collapsed, leaving a psychological shadow After entering college, she had an inexplicable online relationship, and it ended up without a problem, and she has not been in love, and she stepped into the work, and then because of work pressure, she lost a lot of weight, and showed a beautiful embryo Much more beautiful than before But she still hasn't been in love She also longs for love She lives a good and happy life without love I want to say that there is no shame in you like this Not everyone can have perfect love You are better than meeting someone who is unladylike and your soul is ravaged Some people fall in love and leave a lifetime of trauma At least you are happy now You live for yourself I believe that love will come when it should come.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    If you don't feel ashamed, how can you be fat? I'm sure you'll meet people who like you and who you like! Remember, you have to be confident at all times, keep a good attitude, and if you meet true love, don't give up and wish you happiness

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Lose someone, you can say loudly to your friends, you haven't loved, people who have been in love a lot will feel ashamed, because they have failed, hurt, hurt, and you haven't, you are the happiest, now there are very few girls like you in this society, and it is also the object of every man looking for a wife, maybe you haven't met true love, I wish you happiness to meet you as soon as possible, bless you.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    People have to be confident, and if you don't have self-confidence, even if you are as handsome as me, you still have to be 23 to have a girlfriend. Hehe.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    ...Halo 21 years old, what's there, I'm 25 years old, I haven't planned yet. 21 young years, don't be fooled by love, work hard, succeed in your career, and be afraid that no one will either.

    Seems a little masculine)...Then every day is lively and cute, happy Many men like cute and good wives and mothers Who said that fat people can't get married!!

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    Aunt Baiyun said, "Women, be ruthless with yourself." "Hold on first, do you think the physical suffering will be more painful than the psychological suffering?

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    As a man, if you have achievements, you will fall in love, and if you don't achieve something, don't go, otherwise you will hit a wall.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    In fact, there are many people who haven't fallen in love at the age of 21, and now people are in love all over the street, and few people take love seriously, in fact, many boys like simple, serious girls about love. So you don't have low self-esteem, confident girls are the most beautiful, but I think it is still necessary for you to be appropriate**, exercise more, eat less meat and more vegetables, and eat more fruits. Genuinely socialize with friends around you, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex.

    Finally, MR hopes that you will find the MR Right who loves you

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