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This is not true. The daughter who marries out is actually equivalent to having one more family. Because I have a mother's family, and I have an in-law's family.
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Actually, I don't think this sentence is true, because if my daughter marries, she forms a new family with her husband.
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Many families will have this concept, in fact, it is wrong, marrying a daughter is not selling a daughter, their daughter still exists, and she can go back to her parents' home.
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That's not true. Whether it is a man or a woman, I was born and raised, and the place where I was raised will always be my home.
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A married woman often goes back to her parents' house, and she will also be hated by her sister-in-law! Married and serving in-laws, regardless of their parents, the daughter is not losing money, what is the goods? The daughter who has been raised for so many years will become someone else's family when she grows up, and the child born is still with an outsider's surname, and her own family is equivalent to the last.
It's no wonder that so many people dislike their daughters and don't want to have daughters, which makes sense. A grandson is a grandson, different from a grandson.
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<>Why do people say that girls don't have a home of their own after they get married? Why do some people always say that girls don't have a home when they get married? To sum up the sentence, "I am an outsider in my mother-in-law's house, and I am a guest in my mother's house".
Let's talk about the in-law's family first, if you marry into the past family, your mother-in-law treats you as a family member and a daughter, you may not feel it, because you have integrated into the new family, and your mother-in-law's family is your home. But if you don't have a sense of existence in your in-law's family after marrying, then it's a deep feeling to be a complete outsider who doesn't have a home. You don't have the right to speak in your in-law's house, and if something happens and you find that your husband may not be on your side, can you feel the warmth of home.
Let's talk about the mother's family, as the saying goes, "the daughter who marries out, spills the water", the mother's family hopes that she can live well in her mother-in-law's house for the daughter who marries, so they are generally persuaded and not persuaded to leave. After the daughter got married, she was wronged in her mother-in-law's house, and when she returned to her mother's house to complain, her mother's family generally comforted her, telling her not to worry about her mother-in-law's family and go back to get along with her mother-in-law. You will find that your mother's persuasion to you is mixed with "politeness".
This feeling of being out of reach on both sides will make people feel that they will have no home when they get married!
In fact, this phenomenon is slowly changing now, and a girl still has to polish her eyes before she gets married. If you live alone with your husband and have your own house, you won't feel this way. After all, if you live with your in-laws, you will inevitably be treated as an outsider.
After all, it is said that the daughter who marries out spills the water, many families think that the daughter is married to someone else's family, and after marrying someone, she feels less close, and what is worse is that some girls treat her as an outsider when they are in a small family, I have to say that such parents are really ignorant. Of course, now society is changing, and this is all influenced by education and the education level of the common people.
In the improvement, the social status is also slowly realizing the equality of men and women, so in the future, there will be a minority of people who are not people on both sides of the marriage, and it will no longer be the majority, and the most important thing is that the girls themselves will choose people with their eyes open, which is the key to the problem.
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Because after a girl marries into her mother-in-law's family, it is easy to have a conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if your husband is not particularly good to you, it is very likely that there will be a situation of pulling a bias, and after returning to her mother's house, her parents treat girls like outsiders, respectfully.
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Because after a girl gets married, it is equivalent to leaving her original family and going to another family, but going to another family is also equivalent to entering other people's lives, and the other family does not necessarily regard the girl as her own family, so the girl has no home of her own.
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Because after a girl gets married, she will communicate less with her family, and the relationship will gradually become estranged, and the man will still have close contact with his mother's family.
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This is because the water spilled by the married daughter cannot often go back to her parents' house after marriage, and the woman is not a family no matter how close she is to her in-laws, so there will be such a saying.
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Because the girl gets married, she will exchange with her family from then on, and the slow contact will be estranged, and the man will still have a close relationship with his mother's family.
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Isn't your idea a little too extreme, your daughter is also a piece of meat that fell from your body, you don't hurt who hurts, your idea is really incomprehensible.
I think you still have to communicate more with your mother-in-law, after all, she is your husband's real mother, and you can listen to what she says.
I think your thinking is really too extreme, your mother-in-law is also your husband's mother, can't you get along with her well? Isn't your mother-in-law good to you?
It's really strange that you are a person, why do you always like to think so badly of others? If you think like this, what will others think of you? People like you are really not worth associating.
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Only children generally don't, but girls who have a boy in the house usually really don't have a home, because in the future, there will be a new hostess in that house, and when you go back, you don't call it home, but say to be a guest.
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Personally, I think the reality is so cruel, many girls have no home after they get married, because both sides treat her as an outsider, which is really uncomfortable.
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After the girl got married, she really didn't have a home, and she was an outsider in her in-law's house. In her own family, she is a daughter who is married.
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