What book do you think has influenced you the most?

It should be "Romance of the Three Kingdoms". I believe that the college entrance examination is the first turning point in life for many people, and if they don't get in, they may be the boss in advance if they mix well in society, or they will not mix well and have a dull life; If you are admitted, you may not be more successful in life, but you will go in a different direction. At that time, it was like this for me, ordinary families, they expected the reading test to bring changes, and the one I was most sure of and could give me the most confidence was Chinese, because I liked it, especially classical Chinese.

The reason why I like classical Chinese is that the semi-classical Chinese "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" brought me an imaginary world, and I read it many times in my spare time, obsessed with ranking the characters, so that I looked for "Three Kingdoms" and "Book of the Later Han" to find evidence, which provided help for the language at that time.

There are many good books, and the one I remember deeply is "Alive", which is a book worth reading many times in your life, every time you read it, you will be happy, you will be moved, you will be sad, you will cry, you will understand, you will understand. When we close the book, we will deeply understand what love is, what helplessness is, what life is, what death is, what fate is, what disaster is, what hunger is, and what hope is. At the end of the story, when the old man accompanies an old cow on the road at dusk, we will understand what the meaning of life is, when the helplessness and despair of relatives who leave one by one happen to a person, it takes more courage to live than to die.

Chai Jing's "Seeing". There are few books like "Seeing", without flowery rhetoric, like a glass of boiled water, but it can water people's hearts. As an autobiographical book, it allows readers to know more about other people, and really see the most real appearance of this society and this country, and see the world that we have never seen before.

Distant Savior Author, Doudou. During that time, I was quite confused, going to and from work every day, not knowing what I was suitable for, and I didn't have a hobby to take. This book covers a wide range of business thinking, philosophy, Buddhism, Taoism, after reading it, I feel very ignorant, and then it will stimulate the instinct of curiosity, and slowly, the impetuous heart has to rely on.

It's amazing power.

Half an Acre of Flower Fields: A Beautiful Girl's Life Swan Song" mainly tells the author Tian Wei's thinking, gratitude and perseverance about life and youth after suffering from a terminal illness. I read a little bit in high school, I really like it, it means a lot to me, I was under a lot of pressure in my junior year of high school, and I will read this book to relieve it, and now I am in college, and I went to the library to borrow this book, and now it is still on the desk, I can't put it down.

There comes a time when the Moon and Sixpence will set you free to live up to your ideals. "The Moon and Sixpence" tells the story of a middle-aged man who suddenly abandons his family and children to go to France to paint for the sake of his ideals. Strickland became an immortal painter after his death, but remained unknown during his lifetime.

This routine is so common that those who don't know think it's Van Gogh.

Alive", the protagonist Fugui changed from a high-ranking young master to a poor ghost in debt, and was dragged to the army, almost lost his life, and when he came back, he watched his wife, children, and grandchildren leave him one by one, and experienced the helplessness of the white-haired man sending the black-haired man. In the end, he was left to live with an old cow, and life was so hard, and we had nothing to complain about.

People with different personalities and different stages of growth of the same person read different books. The book that has influenced me the most so far is "Mr. Yang Ming's Collected Essentials".

1. Reverence for the ancients. First of all, I personally admire Mr. Wang Yangming very much, and I am impressed by his immortal achievements of meritorious service, virtue and speech. Reading traditional Chinese in vertical layout can shorten the distance with the learning and lifestyle of the ancients.

2. Mind Thought. The ideas of "unity of knowledge and action" and "conscience" in the study of mind have won the hearts of the people and set an ideological benchmark for our personal growth.

3. Legendary deeds. From "Young Gezhu" to "Dragon Field Enlightenment", from pacifying bandits to pacifying the rebellion of King Ning, his life is full of legends, and it also interprets the truth of "a gentleman is not a weapon".

Fourth, patriotism and love for the people. Again and again, the chaos has been quelled, and the letters have been folded, revealing loyalty to the country and love for the people.

5. Writing. Reading the memorabilia written by Wang Yangming himself, I also felt that the writing is brilliant, and the narrative and reasoning are all worthy of our reference and learning.

Reading this book can bring about the improvement of ideological cognition, the inspiration of personal growth, and the reference of literary writing, so by far, it is the book that has had the greatest impact on me.

So far, the book that has had the greatest impact on me should be "Back to the Ming Dynasty as a Prince". In fact, many people read this book as a stallion, but when I read it, what I saw was that it taught me some life lessons.

This book taught me how to pretend. Yang Ling, the protagonist, was equivalent to a waste who didn't know anything at the beginning, even if he was a traverser, but he didn't have a lot of gold fingers in **, he didn't have much knowledge, and he didn't know much about history at all, except for knowing the big guys, he didn't know anything about the other historical backgrounds. Such a person is mixed in officialdom, and he is almost nine deaths.

This is almost exactly the same as my part-time career, I don't know much, and my cultural knowledge is not high, all I can do is to slowly absorb the information that is useful to me, and then slowly digest it by myself, and take it out and pretend to be forced when I want to use it. And with Yang Ling, I learned to shut up in areas I didn't understand, and learned how to be tactful. Although this book is a **, it can be said that it inspired me when I was confused and didn't know the direction, although he was just a virtual character.

There is also Cheng Qiyun, this ruthless, can even be said to be a woman with broken shoes, after receiving her heart, she is only paving all kinds of roads for a man's ideals, such a mind makes me awe, and in some of my future ways of doing things, there is the shadow of Cheng Qiyun. She is an out-and-out bad woman, but she is only good to Yang Ling. I am the same for me who has suffered all kinds of hardships in life, and I will be kind to someone who deserves it, and it will be unconditional.

This ** book has given me a spiritual direction, which can be said to be of great help to my emotional outlook and work.

One book that broke through for me was "Thinking, Fast and Slow", which broke through our conventional perceptions and habitual ways of thinking about our own thought processes. In this book, author Daniel Kahneman introduces two modes of human thinking: fast thinking and slow thinking.

Fast thinking refers to the quick reactions and intuitions that we spontaneously form when confronted with information without much thought. Fast thinking is suitable for situations that require quick decision-making, but often leads to bad decisions due to overconfidence and bias.

Slow thinking, on the other hand, refers to making decisions through deep thinking and analysis, which requires a lot of time and effort, but is more accurate and reliable. Slow thinking is suitable for situations that require deep thinking and analysis, but it also has the disadvantage of inertia and time-consuming.

This book challenges our conventional ways of thinking and allows us to re-understand our own patterns and methods of thinking. Through in-depth ** and case studies, the authors show the impact of fast and slow thinking on our decision-making and thinking, and how to make better use of both modes of thinking to make better decisions.

In addition, the book also mentions various biases and misunderstandings of human thinking, such as "availability heuristics", "anchoring effect", "cognitive ease rule", etc., so that we can understand the blind spots and limitations of our thinking. By reading this book, we can have a more comprehensive understanding of our own way of thinking and decision-making process, improve the accuracy and reliability of decision-making, and at the same time, we can better understand the thinking style and behavior of others, and improve our communication and collaboration skills.

The first book that broke through my understanding of Duan Qiao should be "White Deer Plain". "White Deer Plain" is a very representative period drama in recent years, with Bailu Village, known as "Renyi Village" on the Guanzhong Plain of Shaanxi Province, as the background, telling the story of grievances and disputes between the three generations of the two families surnamed Bai Yinranfu and Lu surname. The two most important characters in the play are Bai Jiaxuan and Lu Zilin, who are also the souls of the Bai family and the Lu family respectively.

The personalities of the two people are completely different, Bai Jiaxuan is loyal and upright, but Lu Zilin is sleek and sophisticated. In this way, two characters who seem to be unable to get along in harmony work together to interpret the wonderful story of Bailuyuan.

There is such a sentence in the play, which runs through the whole play, "White does not leave the deer, the deer does not leave the white", the white deer plain is the white deer plain, with "white" and "deer" is the white deer plain. This is also Bai Jiaxuan's father's last entrustment to him before his death, "to tolerate the Lu family". Therefore, although Bai Jiaxuan and Lu Zilin disdain each other and have resentments, Bai Jiaxuan has never abandoned Lu Zilin at the critical moment.

No matter how Lu Zilin made a mistake, Bai Jiaxuan beat him, reminded him, made him suffer and remembered for a long time, but he never really gave up on him. At the end of "White Deer Plain", Feng and Lu Zilin** were imprisoned for three years, and in order to save him, Lu Zilin**'s wife sold her property, and even sold the old house where the Lu family had lived for generations. In order to rescue Lu Zilin, the deer wife would rather lose her shelter, and the one who bought the Lu family's compound was Bai Xiaowen, the eldest son of Bai Jiaxuan, who was bent on revenge.