I talked about a boyfriend, and my friends around me didn t like him, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-02-13
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Take a closer look at your relationship and see if you really like it in your heart.

    There are always too many reasons to like someone, and it's an unexplainable condition. But sometimes, the so-called liking is just an illusion, a disguise that you want to get out of your lonely life.

    You talk about a boyfriend, and the friends around you think he is unreliable, whether you accept this statement or not, whether you accept this statement, this is the general impression of your friends around him.

    And this impression often comes from the practices of his daily life, which shows that he must have done a lot of very excessive things in his life. You are from a couple's point of view, and you will always give yourself too many reasons to forgive him.

    But from an outsider's point of view, his judgment is often objective and natural. No one wants to offend people, everyone actually wants you to be happy, and giving such an evaluation shows that this boy is really not good.

    The beauty of a relationship, the blessings of relatives and friends are important。We may be able to give everything for love, but often those who only have love left in life will not be very happy.

    We always have to live in this group and always communicate with our relatives and friends. Although sometimes they don't need to care about their opinions, it is still necessary to think carefully about the choices they make in their lives.

    For the major event of marriage, it is impossible to be too cautious. Since the friends around you have the same feeling, I think you should also take a good look at this relationship to see if there is real love between two people.

    Every relationship is worth cherishing, but I don't think it's necessary to insist on love that is destined to be hurt. The choice is yours, and you don't regret it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your friends around you are not optimistic, then you really need to pay attention, after all, everyone's eyes are bright.

    Now that you are caught up in love, it is easier to lose your way, and you can only see the good side of your boyfriend, and you will not see the other bad aspects of him for a while. But others are different, others are not carried away by love, so their observations may be more objective and more complex facts.

    Therefore, it is recommended that you calm down, observe your boyfriend objectively, find some of his problems, and then see if I can tolerate these problems.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. Listen to the evaluation of the people around him, there is always a reason for the bad evaluation, and then observe the bad aspects, and don't force yourself if you can't stand it.

    2. Take him to meet familiar and experienced elders and listen to their opinions.

    3. Give full play to the sixth sense, the sixth sense of girls is very strong.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think if you talk about a boyfriend and the people around you don't like him, break up, after all, the authorities are obsessed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you should reconsider whether you want to be with this person, if your friends don't like him, there is a high probability that you are blinded by momentary love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You still have to consider the suggestions of the people around you, but they don't know him as well, so you make the right judgment yourself, why are the people around you not optimistic about him? Then you think about it yourself and make a decision.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm thinking about it myself, asking my friends what he doesn't think about it, and then thinking about it for myself. After all, like a person drinking water, he knows his own warmth and coldness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You yourself feel that you really know him, and you really think that it is appropriate to come together, and you don't care about other people's opinions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In my opinion, I know best what my boyfriend is like, but it shouldn't be the turn of others to say anything. Why do you like each other and use others to point it out?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If everyone is not optimistic about him, you should reflect on it and think about whether what your friends are saying is right.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's my business to talk about my boyfriend, and my friends around me don't think well of him. It doesn't make much sense.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    <>I believe that many people will have some opinions and opinions on this issue, that is, they are in love with their boyfriends, and everyone around them is not optimistic, so what should I do?

    In fact, when the relationship between you arises, I think the most important thing is that we should think accordingly, if there are some people around us who do not particularly agree with your feelings, we can understand this. After all, everyone has their own opinions on things, but if everyone around you is not optimistic about your boyfriend, then in a certain situation, you need to seriously think about the possible problems of your boyfriend. After all, as our friends, I believe that they must hope that we can reap the sweet love, and also hope that we can find a reliable person to accompany us through the rest of our lives.

    So we don't need to suspect the bad intentions of our friends, especially those who have rich emotional experience themselves, they often have a high level of disadvantages, so if they don't agree, then, to a certain extent, there must be a certain reason for collapse.

    Therefore, we must not be overly in love, and we must seriously think about the suggestions made by our friends, so that we can have a corresponding grasp of this relationship, otherwise it will easily lead to ourselves being hurt.

    Therefore, girls must not choose to be emotional in their relationships, but to look at things with an objective perspective, so as to protect ourselves and avoid ourselves from being hurt. So sometimes when others ask questions about the people around us, they are also indirectly showing us some problems that exist in this person, hoping to guide our attention. In the same way, we should also thank these friends who can give us advice, after all, they are at risk of breaking up the relationship and explaining the situation to us, and it can further verify the depth of our relationship, right?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    At this time, you should think about it, whether your boyfriend is worth it for him, and you should also think about whether your boyfriend is good to you, and everyone can guess that Oak is optimistic, maybe there are some problems in the relationship between the two of you, if your boyfriend is very good to you or your boyfriend has been paying for you, you can insist on falling in love with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, according to one's own feelings of ruin, the so-called self-knowledge of drinking water and warmth and coldness. Secondly, other people's opinions should also be taken into account, and they cannot be blindly capricious. Finally, don't get married impulsively, the so-called see people's hearts over time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't be funny, you have to care too much about the opinions of the people around you, it's the two of you who are in love, Shan Xinling should not be affected by other factors, as long as the two of you are honest enough to love each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't pay too much attention to the opinions of the people around you, two people are in love, don't be affected by other ingredients, just the two of you can love each other abundantly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    At this time, you must stick to your own heart, because it is the boyfriend you choose, and you don't need to listen to other people's opinions.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No one around me is optimistic about my boyfriend, only I like him, what should I do? Should we break up?

    Think carefully about your feelings and make sure you really like them in your heart. There have always been many reasons to like someone, and it's an unexplainable situation. But sometimes, the so-called love is just an illusion, and it is also the hiding that you want to get rid of your lonely life.

    You talk about a good friend of men, and the people around you feel that he is unreliable, whether you accept this statement, accept this statement, it is the overall impression of the people around you and me on him. You and your boyfriend have just fallen in love, and the people around you are against it, so you should do these few things to solve it.

    This impression is usually done in her daily life, which shows that he has undoubtedly done many very excessive things in his daily life. From the perspective of lovers, you will always let yourself have too many reasons to forgive. But from the perspective of a smiling person, a good friend's evaluation of him is usually a scumbag, objective and natural.

    No one wants to offend people easily, and the Dazhi family actually wants you to be happy, and coming up with such a comment shows that this boy is indeed not very good.

    The beauty of a relationship life, the blessings of relatives and friends are crucial。We may be able to give everything for love, but usually the people who only love in our daily lives will not be very happy. We always have to live in this group, and we have to communicate with our family and friends from beginning to end.

    Although sometimes his views don't need to be cared about, it is still necessary to think carefully about the choice of his own life. It's not too much to be cautious when it comes to lifelong events. Even if the people around me have the same feeling, I feel that you also need to think about this relationship to see if there is real love between the two.

    Every relationship is a relationship that is worthy of everyone's cherishment, but will eventually be hurt, and I don't think there is any need to persevere. The decision is yours, so don't regret it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You'd better consider the opinions of the people around you. I also think there needs to be a breakup. Because of a trembling person, if many people don't like him, then he should indeed have a certain problem in the relationship without a hole model, we often say that the withered bystander is clear, so timely stop loss is the most important.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First of all, you have to understand why your friend is not optimistic about your boyfriend, in fact, this problem is very simple, let your boyfriend correct the bad things.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, many times, friends and family are not unreasonable, they can consider the character between the two of us more rationally, and they can also see whether the other person is really sincere to us. In a relationship, if only one or two people don't approve, it can't be the reason for these two people, but if all people don't approve, it may be that there is something inappropriate about the two of youIn the face of feelings, you can't be too idealistic, think more about other people's thoughts and opinions, and don't be too selfish, otherwise you will only be hurt in the end.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, not only should he be reconsidered, but he should also be re-examined, and he should be re-tested, if family and friends are not optimistic, it means that there must be something wrong with your boyfriend.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Personally, I think that the boyfriend who is not favored by family and friends should also reconsider him, because we can't follow the crowd and should have our own opinions and insights.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes. If your family and friends are not optimistic about your boyfriend, it means that there must be something wrong with this man's character.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes. Because family and friends will always be the ones who care about you the most. So their perception is important to you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Summary. Hello, dear, you yourself are in love with your boyfriend, but everyone around you is not optimistic, but you have to firmly believe in your heart, because this kind of thing is the relationship between the two of you, and others can't interfere, just follow your heart.

    I fell in love with my boyfriend, and everyone around me was not optimistic, what should I do?

    Dear, hello, you are in love with your boyfriend, but everyone around you is not optimistic, but you have to firmly believe in your heart, because it is the relationship between the two of you that you are jealous of this kind of thing, and others can't interfere, as long as you follow your heart.

    What should I do if everyone around me, including his friends, tells me that he loves to play?

    Don't care too much about what other people think. The more others don't like you being together, the happier you have to be together, let them see.

    What does his friend mean when he tells you that he loves to play? Does it mean that there is no real relationship between him and you, and he just wants to play with you?

    Yes, that's what it means.

    Then will he usually care about you, or some holidays, or the disadvantage is your birthday, he will buy you some gifts. When you get along with Lu Kuyuan, do you feel a sense of happiness or happiness disintegration?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, find out that these friends of yours usually move together, or are they scattered and don't know each other?

    If these friends don't know each other, and then they don't like your boyfriend, then your boyfriend probably has a real problem. It may include several aspects:

    1. Lack of character, or there is a shocking side, and others are not adaptable.

    2. Unpopular and unsociable.

    3. Poor communication skills. The level of communication is too low for others to agree with.

    If you marry such a person, your life will be monotonous in the future, and if something happens, you will have difficulties, and it will be easy to fall into a situation of isolation and helplessness. Because of the lack of help from friends.

    If the "friends" you are talking about in your question are a group of accomplices who usually work together, then the opinion of such a group of people is actually only the opinion of one person. It is recommended to solicit more opinions from more people. And then make plans.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's their business that they don't like it, and if you love him, don't care what other people look at or what they say, as long as you like it.

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