I have a new girlfriend now and I can t let go of my ex girlfriend, what should I do!

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, I think this is a kind of nostalgia psychology, because the advantages between the new girlfriend and the old girlfriend are not the same, subconsciously compare the two, in a certain aspect feel that the old is better than the new, and in a certain aspect feel that the new is better than the old, so there will be a psychology of abandoning the old and choosing the new, thinking of the old and leaving the new, I personally think that this first requires you to correctly handle the relationship between the three people, forget the things and things you have with the old girlfriend, hide everything related to her, and not let yourself see, so that you will fall in love with the new girlfriend desperately, Gradually, the old girlfriend will slowly disappear in your mind. Or with a psychological feeling, make a choice between the two, and then the same is the above practice. Of course, I think it's the right thing to do, and I think you'll know sooner or later.

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can try to put her in a small corner of your heart, but be measured, don't let down your current girlfriend, you have to always think about being with your current girlfriend, you won't think about her anymore, there will always be people who can't let go of the past, people's hearts are flesh, you can try to slowly adapt to the current life without her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then go find your ex-girlfriend, let go of the current one, and don't delay others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think about the bad things about your ex-girlfriend and re-establish her image.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't hurt the current one, do whatever you want, and pay attention to human nature.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Give it to me, and I'll help you with your worries.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Letting go can make you more. Relaxed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is ex-girlfriend kung fu more profitable?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Go jump to the Haizhu Bridge to cool off.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I can't let go of my ex-girlfriend, why are you looking for your current girlfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't do what you did before, why don't you cherish the present.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Think for yourself which one you like.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A breakup is a breakup, even if the ex-girlfriend still can't let go of your feelings deep down, but in fact he already has a new boyfriend, so the best way to deal with it is to stay away from the ex-girlfriend, don't affect the ex-girlfriend to start a new relationship, the ex-girlfriend can't let go of the relationship between you is also temporary, it's good to live for a while, after all, people are flesh and blood will miss the old, since the ex-girlfriend has started a new relationship, then as an ex-boyfriend, you don't have to bother her anymore.

    Although you broke up, your ex-girlfriend still has feelings for you. Maybe you broke her heart when you broke up, but now the root cause hasn't been solved, so she still chose to break up with you. And the reason why she chose to be with her current boyfriend may be to forget you, or she may have been moved by this man.

    At that time, your ex-girlfriend was in a state of being heartbroken by you, and there was a kind of pursuit of others. Instead of finding someone you love, you should find someone who loves you, so that you can save worry and effort.

    However, after the ex-girlfriend was really with her current boyfriend, she realized that she really couldn't let go of loving someone. Even if she has a new boyfriend now, she still can't let go of you, and in this case, then think about the root cause of your breakup. If it is resolved, I think she will still be willing to accept you.

    If not, then I advise you to give her peace! After all, loving someone and hoping that the other person is happy is true love.

    And not all breakups are old and dead. If your ex-girlfriend says that you can be friends after a breakup, then she will contact you when she has a new boyfriend, and she is really going to treat you as a friend. In this case, it is obviously impossible, so don't get too entangled.

    Therefore, when your ex-girlfriend contacts you as a friend, you can decisively cut off your relationship, and you can reply to her: thank you for the pain you have given, thank you for the happiness you have given. Cherish the people in front of you.

    It doesn't matter what it means for an ex-girlfriend to contact me when she has a boyfriend, it's always inappropriate for her to come to you to chat or contact you without breaking up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Faced with such a situation, you should let go of your feelings and not think so much about your ex-girlfriend, since he already has a new boyfriend, you should not bother her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be sure to communicate with each other, two people should keep a safe distance, they should come out of such a relationship, and they should start a new life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    At this time, you should cut off contact with your ex-girlfriend, and since you can't let go of your relationship with yourself, don't start a new relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't disturb each other's lives, stay away from each other, let each other enjoy their current life, and it's best not to get back together after a breakup.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. Hello dear <>

    Understand that your heart must be very tangled and painful right now. Obviously it's your girlfriend, and all of a sudden her ex looks for her, and she goes. It's definitely a hard feeling.

    But you have to be clear about one thing now: is this girlfriend you like very much and want to go on forever? If not, then you don't have much to worry about.

    If yes, then you tell her what you really think. Because your girlfriend can't let go of you and wants to have a future with you.

    What to do if your girlfriend can't let go of her ex.

    Hello dear <>

    Understand that your heart must be very tangled and painful right now. Obviously it's your girlfriend, and all of a sudden her ex looks for her, and she goes. It's definitely a hard feeling.

    But you have to be clear about one thing now: is this girlfriend you like very much and want to go on forever? If not, then you don't have much to worry about.

    If yes, then you tell her what you really think. Because your girlfriend can't let go of you and wants to have a future with you.

    The smartest thing you can do at the moment is to quit. Since she and her ex-boyfriend are already ex, they must be inappropriate, so you have to be confident enough that they are definitely inappropriate, but everyone will always have some reluctance. You're leaving now to give her space to deal with this <>

    Hope it helps.

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