Why do people live in the past? The character of a person who lives in the past

1. I like to do things alone.

2. People who like what they often reminisce, or regret what they have done.

3. Have pity on yourself and hope that someone likes you.

4. No self-confidence, fear of losing.

5. I don't like to have too many changes in my life, such as too many changes in my career or family or study.

6. I feel that the things and people in the past are better than the present, and I feel that I am still staring at the past environment and living in a more comfortable and open environment.

7. I don't like to be disturbed by others, and I live in this state of my own world.

8. I always hope to return to the original Kai and start over.

What are the characteristics of a person who lives in the past, I think the most important thing to save a person who lives in the past is to make him sober and let him recognize the reality, so that he can help him.

It's been two years since my last relationship, and half a year ago, I really let go of this relationship, after breaking up with Fang Yuan, I was immersed in the pain of losing him and couldn't extricate myself, in that year or so, my friends around me thought I was a soulless person, they tried their best to save me out, but at that time, I clung to the memories of me and him and didn't want to let go, and then they couldn't do anything.

Fang Yuan is my dream, a dream that I think about day and night, so losing him will become so painful. I met him in the summer of 15 years, when I was eighteen, because I like to paint, so my family sent me to art school, he was my guide at the time, older than me, just arrived at the art school, I am very introverted, and the people around me have little communication, I am used to being alone, I like to stay alone quietly and then hold a pen to draw their masterpieces, at that time I often go to the studio, so I met Fang Yuan by chance.

In this way, we became close friends who talked about everything, and my personality became cheerful because of him, and at that time we often met together to discuss art, dreams, and some unknown things, and I don't know when, he gradually stayed in my heart and could never come out again, it may be a certain evening when we meet in the studio, or it may be the moment when he looks back at me from time to time every time he goes on stage to perform a show...... moment

I can't say the reason for liking someone, and my liking for him is becoming more and more obvious, so that everyone around me knows that the confession was what I told him first, and he also promised to be with me, at first, we were very happy, and he was also very good to me, but then maybe because the freshness of love passed, he became impatient, and he was not so patient with me, I called him ** He didn't pick up most of the time or let his roommate perfunctory me, that feeling was really uncomfortable.

We were both very unhappy in this relationship, he broke up first, so I was very miserable, I also humbly went to him to make peace, he later got rid of me with other girls, since then, I have never seen him again, I chose to live in the past and fend for myself.

What you think is very different from what you actually do.