I asked, Why did I live in the past?

Because there are things that you are more nostalgic for in the past, you are reluctant to forget everything in the past, the reality is cruel to you, and the past is beautiful, because a little bit of the past has warmed you, maybe so.

Because you are nostalgic, you belong to the kind of people who miss the old things, so you like the good things of the past, and you don't want to forget, but you have thought about it, you don't live in the past, it is equivalent to returning to the starting point, people have to keep learning new things, keep moving forward, and it is difficult for you to move forward with nostalgia like this.

I don't think it's interesting, the past is the past, I can't go back, I've been in a long-distance online relationship for two years, and I think that's love. But now when I see it, I don't feel it at all, I feel very strange, love is really, it's over, it won't come back, the new love is beautiful, it's important to grasp the present and cherish the present.

There are more things to remember in your past life than in your life, or more beautiful things in your heart. But I would like to advise you that you must give up what you should give up, so that you will get a happier life, and choosing to give up at the right time is also a kind of beauty, isn't it? Friend.

People who live in the past are often unhappy now, and it's good to want to open up!

The present life makes you unsatisfied, and the past life has a good life that you don't want to give up. You lack courage ...

That's because you can't forget something, maybe it will hit you hard, and because you are nostalgic for the past, you don't want to forget, and you want to stay in that time.

Because you're nostalgic for the past, escaping reality.

Because there are memories of the past that you cannot forget ...

Because things from the past are beautiful,

Dear, hello, it's a pleasure to serve you, in your memory, I have always been ruined is living in the past of the person means in a person's psychology, she has been concerned about this person, so living in the past is the meaning of excessive nostalgia for the past. With such a mentality, I always feel that the current life or work is unsatisfactory, mentally muddy, and complaining about the world, as if the past is always good, so I keep complaining about the present world and remembering the past. In fact, every "now" is the "past" of the future, but you ignore the beauty of the present because of your disappointment.

This kind of person seems to be nostalgic for the past, but in fact, he is escaping from the world and seeking spiritual sustenance through the remembrance of the past. Personally, I think that such a person needs to take a good look at himself, find the reason for his unsatisfactory, face it correctly, adjust his state rationally, and seek improvement strategies, which is a wise move.

Hello, dear. Your question: What does it mean that in your memory, I have always lived in the past? , the following to make your life busier and more fulfilling, and all the rest of the time will help you smooth out.

You are just in the past tense, the other person doesn't care about you so much now, life will always go through a lot of past, and if we are immersed in the past, we will never be able to embrace the future. If you always live in memories of the past, then maybe you should keep yourself busy, make your life more fulfilling, and some things don't stay in your memory for long. When I'm so tired that I want to vomit every day, I really don't think about burying the rough spring so much.

After that, I slowly got used to the lost days and slowly got used to a person's life. The more you are idle, the more you will think about a lot of messy things, and when you are busy, you will find that everything is not as important as you think. Memories that you thought would last a lifetime don't stay in your life for long when you don't have time to think about them.

When you happen to remember in your busy leisure time, you will find that everything has become a blur. In fact, in a period of sadness, you don't need to deliberately want to go out, you just need to make your life more fulfilling, and leave the rest to time. Get busy, you will forget the past faster than you think, and you will laugh faster than you think.

What do people live for? Succeed? Happy? Value? Happiness? It's worth food for thought.

What does a person live in this world for? I'm telling you, it's about going to experience and enjoy. You have to do what you haven't done, you have to work hard if you don't have it, and you have fun if you don't have it.

Man lives and dies for the better. When recalling the past, I will not regret that I wasted my time, nor will I be ashamed of doing nothing; When I was dying, I was able to say that my life was not in vain. Although life is very short, as soon as we come to this world, we are destined to go not easy, destined to experience some hardships, destined to endure some hardships, and destined to bear a lot of pressure.

It's not easy to be alive. We must not live only for ourselves, but in that case, when we look back, we will regret our inaction, we will regret that we wasted our time. Living is not just for yourself, living should be pursued, living is good to live, and living is good to cherish.

Life will not change because you complain, life will not change because you are melancholy, you complain or not, life is the same, you are sad or not, life remains the same. complains a lot, but it is I who is worried; I feel a lot of melancholy, but it's still myself who suffers.

Everyone has hardships, everything has helplessness, don't envy the brilliance of others, don't laugh at the misfortune of others. In this life, the opportunities are difficult to share, the marriage is different, fortunately or unfortunately, it is all their own life, do their best to do things, do their best to do their best, and their lives are complete. To live is to try the ups and downs of the world, joys and sorrows, to experience a process from a baby to an old man, in short, life is better than anything else, we can not choose our own origin, but we can choose our own path.

Life can't wait for others to arrange, you have to fight and struggle by yourself, if you want to get in shape, you can exercise, if you want to buy clothes, you can make money, don't accommodate your current bad situation to others, the only thing you can complain about is not working hard enough. What is the purpose of this life? Content, happy, healthy, happy, plain, we live simply, don't let our troubles occupy our hearts too much.

Live is not for others to see: present your heart, and it will save you; If not, it will destroy you! ”

Of course, there are two sides to everything, dead or alive? Why live? This is a very normal problem, when we are happy and happy, we often forget to think about this problem, in fact, when you are happy and happy, it indicates that you will become less happy in the next step, even very tired and tired, at this time you will think about how to save yourself, and even want to die, in fact, at this time you are trapped in a predicament, limited thinking, but this is also an opportunity, because only at this time will you have a deeper understanding of life.

You have to accept the impermanence of life, you have to accept that there is as much bitterness in life as there is in it. And you have to have ideals, this is not empty words, but the fire that your inner self slowly ignites, giving you the strength to get through the difficulties, making your life more meaningful, instead of starting to deny life as soon as you are tired and tired, I have also felt this way, and I only understand now that this is caused by no faith and no dreams.

Giving up your dreams thought that you would live a very happy life, yes, you dared to play, you dared to waste your life, but you didn't want to bear it when the pressure of life was on you, because you felt that I didn't have much dreams, and I didn't have rare power and money, why did you let me bear so much. In fact, this is the question of active and reactive. Whether you are living in the social system or not, you need to define your life and how to live meaningfully.

As long as you are not lazy, self-disciplined, have pursuits, are willing to help others, dedicate all the light and heat of life, and serve others, you will actually achieve yourself. Life naturally has a positive cycle. Of course, the process of transformation requires finding a way to communicate with more people, especially positive ones.

Read more books, see other stories, other people's thoughts. This will avoid the extremes caused by self-isolation and narrow-mindedness. And be sure to be self-disciplined and ensure good health.

If you can't bear it, go for a run and don't let yourself be immersed in depression for a long time. Learn various ways to regulate yourself, learn short-term emotion regulation and long-term thought management. Now you are a patient, a patient in mental anguish.

First of all, love and support are needed, which is the best medicine, because most people live for love.

To live is to have a better future for yourself, to let yourself see a more beautiful world, and to make it more meaningful for you to come to this beautiful world.

It used to be smooth sailing, the family conditions were also good, and the young master temper was raised, the high school was the international department, there was no pressure of the college entrance examination, only an endless pension life. The counterpart country I went to was Thailand, because Britain and the United States had to take the exam, and Thailand escorted me, and I met a girl who changed my life in this context. When I left for Thailand, I told her to break up and not delay each other, but she kept me and ended up staying with her.

Later, she flew to me abroad, with a small body and a big bag, and when she saw my bright smile, I thought that she was the only one in this life. I was still stubborn, although I wanted to study hard, but I didn't grow, and at the end of the semester, I was reprimanded by the teacher and told me to go home and think about it, and the result of my face was to drop out of school. Because the girl wanted to go to the beautiful country at that time, and later chose the UK for financial reasons, I also followed it wholeheartedly and dropped out of school for the exam.

The process of the exam was very rough, because I really am not a person who loves to learn, and finally got an offer, Durham University or Hogwarts (filming location)? But that year, my dad said that there was a financial problem in the family and let him slow down, and fortunately, the girl also had a year of relief because of the same problem. When I took the exam again next year, the girl left without looking back, without thinking about the pressure of money, and my offer that year was King's College London (KCL), which ranked 21st in the world that year and QS31 this year.

But before I got the offer, my dad told me that our family was bankrupt, and I always prayed that I would fall off the list, but I got the offer, and that day I called ** to my mother, cried bitterly in **, and finally told my mother: I won't go.

The next year, I started to work, enrollment, teaching English or something, and was repeatedly beaten by the society at the same time, because of the anxiety in a different place made me more and more insecure, and I was always angry with the woman, and then my girlfriend broke up with me, she met someone else, I broke down in heartache**, because I looked pretty good, so I wandered among all kinds of women, and I wanted to spend that period of life in the game, but she came back and I went to the airport to pick her up, all kinds of good treatment for her, delusional and her back together, but it was all in vain, I'm back to those decadent days: games, women, cigarettes, alcohol, and even big stuff are all things that numb me, but I still haven't pulled out after three years together.

Speaking of the economy, my dad is getting worse and worse, I have no choice but to start my own business to find a living to earn some money when I go to school in the UK, and at the end of last year, I partnered with a friend to open a board game club in a university town, because of the epidemic at the beginning of the year, I lost all my money.

Friends often ask me why I am still persistent, why I am still sunny, and I will be depressed if I change to others, I just know how to solve these things, I am just trying to live, I just want to live a better life.