I still like him, but for various reasons, I know that it is impossible to get married in the future

Updated on society 2024-02-09
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Remember that there is a saying that who enters your life is determined by fate, and who stays in your life is determined by yourself. I think this sentence is very appropriate for the "possible and impossible" of feelings.

    Although I don't know how much the reasons you said seem to have a lot of resistance to your feelings, but you still have him in your heart, so I'm afraid that when the time comes, your heart will still be entrenched by that person, and you will be very painful. Although I can't guarantee that you will meet someone you like in the future, is this relationship really in a desperate situation? Some things can be solved by your joint efforts, I always feel that love will give people greater strength to overcome difficulties.

    You should communicate well, talk deeply about the reasons for your worries, and tell him what you think in your heart, so that everything is clear, even if your decision is to leave him, I am sure that you will not regret this relationship in the future. He loves you and will respect your decision.

    Falling in love is a rare fate, and I still hope that every pair of lovers can come together happily.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love has only remorse in your heart.

    How do you end a game that shouldn't have started?

    Only a quick knife cuts through the mess.

    I knew that the result was cut off early.

    There will be less remorse.

    Clearly refuse, refuse to say goodbye, and slowly become strangers.

    Harass you to the police!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Just say break up, say that you don't want to continue the fruitless love, and I hope you don't want to contact you in the future.

    In fact, the best way to forget one love is to start another.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How can there be no ending if you like each other, as long as you work hard for the future, I believe you can always overcome the problems that hinder you, love and marriage are managed by two people's hearts, and they should not give up easily! If there is indeed a certain reason why we can't be together, then break up decisively, and we must also get the consent of the two people, explain it clearly, and I believe he will understand.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello subject! I want the affection to be strong and intimate, to be able to read my anguish, to understand my unhappiness, to coax me when I need it, and to be able to drop everything and reply to me when I send a letter. We have endless topics to talk about, and he can ignite me, make me fall in love and worship.

    However, my current boyfriend can't meet my requirements, he doesn't understand me, and he doesn't let me worship, I am so accommodating, and he is not centered on me. I don't want to marry him, but he usually treats me well, and I can't bear it"Not bad"And when I broke up, I was afraid that I would never find someone who was good to me again.

    Is that so? In your description, the other party is obviously not your male god, but something similar"Donors"Exist in a tool-like manner. You don't love him much, it's just that there is someone who can treat you well, and you can't bear it.

    On the one hand, it may be because you lack love inside you and have relatively high expectations for emotional concentration, and ordinary boys like this can't satisfy you. On the one hand, it may be that the other party is indeed not the person who can ignite you, and is not the person you are ideal for.

    If you don't like the other person in your heart, break up and find someone who can give you a feeling of love. Kaizhao is only in this process, to learn to see their own inner lack, first love themselves, and appropriately reduce the needs of emotional concentration, so that it is possible to meet a lover. Because of the excessively high emotional demand, it is easy to meet a scumbag.

    If you still don't want to break up, then it is recommended that you adjust your mentality, see the truth of the other party, see the other party's contribution to you and the relationship, see the other party's advantages more, and manage the relationship well. The relationship is the most taboo, disgusted and reluctant, humble and overbearing, and it is you who may be hurt in the end.

    May you love yourself, and the right people love you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is a highly integrated, extremely deep and precious emotion, you and the other person love each other and you don't love each other, it is safe to say that the emotion you are confused has not evolved to the extent that it hurts into the bone marrow, it can't be called love, it can only be its shallow synonym like! Love is already a relatively scarce emotion in today's society, especially in this era of almost complete objectification! When faced with emotional choices, almost all people are heartbroken and not pure love or not, but the cost of marriage or divorce!

    True love is not easy to find, but emotions that come from liking abound, so when you look at what emotional stage you are in, make a new choice! Knowing that you don't love it is easy to save trouble, either you go or the other party goes, there is always someone who has to go first. The trouble is that I don't know if I'm still in love, sometimes I feel love and sometimes I don't feel love, and I'm tormented in this ambiguity, or I'm determined to find a good lover again, and the most painful part of my relationship is when I can't figure myself out and don't understand the other person's mind.

    But those tangled days are the most consuming, so if you don't love it, please cut it off as soon as possible, don't be afraid of long nights and dreams, I'm afraid that the other party has a trace of hope, as long as you are clear, and you are willing to bear the consequences.

    When you fall in love, you can love vigorously, and after getting along for a long time, the character shortcomings of both parties will gradually be revealed, and then you will find that the three views are different, and you will quarrel constantly because of these, and finally find that the two people really can't get along, let alone like or love. I have a nasty feeling even when I see it, and it's impossible to continue at this point, so just break up and break up is the best choice. If you don't like to let go, if there is a utilitarian purpose, it is more shameful to be together than to play hooligan, there is no emotional communication, there is no spiritual induction, it is irresponsible for feelings, in fact, when you know yourself, you suddenly feel that there is nothing you can't let go, and there is nothing you can't face.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes. Because marriage is a lifelong event, don't waste each other's time if you don't love each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, I would choose to break up because it's not too late to find out at this time that I don't love each other. Timely stop-loss is good for both people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, not compromised. It takes courage to hold hands and fall in love, but what is needed to live a good life is the determination of two people to choose not to let go of the trivial wear and tear of life. Be sure to find the most suitable other half, who is the right person and has the same three views.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If that's the case, I would have chosen to break up, because I can't accept it, and it will be very sad and torturous to be in my marriage with someone I don't like.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I will choose to break up, after all, I don't love each other anymore, and two people will not be happy if they are forced together, and there will be a lot of conflicts after marriage.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course, I will choose to break up, I think there is no way to be together if there is no relationship between two people, and we must separate as soon as possible to find the right person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, if two people no longer love each other and just get married for the sake of getting married, then they will face a lot of friction and eventually lead to divorce.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I will definitely choose to break up, because if there is no relationship between two people, they will not feel very happy when they get married.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, I don't think there is any age to get married, only the feelings that should be married.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I would choose to break up, I can't get married for the sake of getting married, then the marriage won't make any sense.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In March last year, I had a little unpleasant trouble with her, we both worked in Shenzhen, I went to Zhuhai with a violent temper, I went back to Shenzhen to find her in July, I didn't have time to find her, I went to have supper at night, I met on the corner of the street, she held someone else's hand, that feeling, like I was hollowed out all of a sudden, and my soul kept falling, bottomless pit, there was no end. After all, reason triumphs over emotion, and I didn't even dare to call her, so I walked forward in a daze, and it was more than ten minutes before I shook my mind. I won't say much about the follow-up, I can understand the subject's mood, and I can also say that I empathize.

    Afterwards, a friend asked me why I didn't go up and ask for clarification. Yes, ask clearly, but ah, ask clearly, I have no right to disturb her life, I can't be so selfish to cause unhappiness and distress to her life. Some people say that I don't do enough for men, but what I want to say is, is there a standard for this kind of thing, afterwards I slept in Foshan for two whole months, sleeping during the day, drinking and playing games at night, I can't accept this fact, but what can I do, until now, I don't dare to return to Shenzhen, a place full of happiness and unbearable, I don't expect others to understand me, and I don't need others to understand whether my approach is right or wrong.

    All I know is that I can't be so selfish to cause trouble to her, that my decadence is no one else's business, and that I will bear my own calamities.

    It seems to be a bit too much.,Back to the subject's question.,Now that he's given up.,He's already made his choice.,Whether it's still possible or not.,You have a trace of possibility to cause maybe more damage.,I think it's really inappropriate.。

    Everyone has their own way of life, has their own lover bottom line, I don't need other people's judgment and guidance, I hope the subject will find true love as soon as possible, and be happy, simple and happy for a lifetime. If you lose, please bless it silently, thank you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Many people will fall in love and haven't been married for a long time, I think there will be a lot of factors in between, but they will get married not long after the breakup, so they should have found a more suitable marriage partner.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think it's because of too much contact that I don't love each other so much. Maybe there is a gap between the two people, but they don't want to show it completely.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think on the one hand, it may be that they have never loved at all, and on the other hand, it may be that they have adapted to the life of two people together, and they are not able to adapt well after the breakup.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Personally, I don't like long-distance love running, because after a long time, love will fade, and it will basically become family affection. After the long-distance love run broke up, it was very clear what love was and what he wanted, so he purposefully found a marriage partner.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think people who have been in a long-distance relationship for several years have not gotten married because they don't think the other person is their marriage partner.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because talking about a particularly long relationship can really make people tired, and they don't want to talk about it for a second time, so many of them go on blind dates directly, and if they feel that they can, they get married directly.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The purpose of the New Year is just to make a good life better, pay attention not to create low-level contradictions and conflicts, be kind to your dear family members and kind friends who are upright, fair, strict and realistic, a little more stable happiness, and a little more proper warmth.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Maybe it's because of the emotional emptiness, after all, a long-term relationship will make people more emotionally dependent.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Those long-distance lovers haven't gotten married for several years, and soon after they broke up, they looked for marriage again, because because he didn't love you at all, and he was okay with the two of you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There is no freshness after a long time, no one is perfect, after a long time, aesthetic fatigue will make the other party's shortcomings infinitely magnified, and there is no sense of responsibility if you are not married, so it is normal to break up, leaving a person who has been with you all the year round, it is inevitable that your heart will be empty, and then you will feel that you are in love with an afternoon when you meet a similar, no predecessor's shortcomings, and you will feel that you have been together very well, and you will get married quickly due to problems such as age.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In fact, I think this situation is relatively normal, after all, for many people, they can't get married if they are fully familiar.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    True love is the answer that has not been fulfilled for generations.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Someone else's business only someone else knows why!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If it's not you, it's a human or a ghost.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There are many mistakes in this world.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In my opinion, after all, we haven't been together after a long-distance love run, everyone is tired, and we definitely don't want to go through it once.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think this sentence is very right, when the relationship reaches a certain level, there will definitely be problems if you don't enter the marriage.

    We are always full of longing for years of precipitation, but if a relationship has not entered into marriage for many years, it is very likely that two people will part ways later in life. This is the inevitability of the development of life, and it is also the curse that feelings cannot escape.

    No matter how long the relationship is, the marriage relationship is not as stable. I got along with my lover for three or four months before entering the marriage, although the two of us have been in love for a short time, but after entering the marriage, the relationship between husband and wife has become much more stable, coupled with taking care of each other and living together in time, the precipitation of emotions has become a matter of course.

    I have a friend and his girlfriend who have been in a relationship since high school, and they didn't get married until the girl graduated from college and worked for two years. After so many years of relationship, I always thought that they would embrace happiness, but I didn't expect it to end in a breakup.

    The reason is simply unexpected, because both people feel that they are not suitable for each other. When I heard this reason for the breakup, I even wanted to laugh, I don't know why the reason for the breakup would be not suitable after two people have been in love for so many years, but this relationship is going to break up, which really makes me no longer have expectations for love.

    Marriage is the best destination for love, and it is also the best platform for love management and maintenance. From acquaintance to mutual acquaintance and love, love stems from mutual attraction and precipitation in time, but Cupid's arrow will always find a home with this love. Marriage is the best destination for love, and there is no one.

    When two people have been in love for a long time, being able to enter into marriage at the right time is the best maintenance of love. But if someone wants to get married and the other party doesn't want to, a rift will actually arise inadvertently. The relationship of lovers is no longer enough to satisfy the psychological needs of two people.

    Only after entering the marriage, love will have a period of buffer and sublimation, and it will bloom again on the platform of marriage.

    Two people in love, after getting to know each other enough, should enter into marriage. If you don't get married for a long time, love will deteriorate in suspicion, and this suspicion will ruin love and ruin this relationship.

    If you love someone, give him marriage, don't let him wait in time.

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