Is the self in the eyes of others the opposite of the self in the mirror?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-19
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Tell you a scary answer, the person in the mirror may not be you! Or, maybe it's not yourself you're familiar with!

    Think about it, each of us has two faces, one that we see from mirrors, glass, water, and everything that can create a mirror image, that is, the face that we identify as what we look like. We thought I was like that.

    But don't forget that you still have a face, which is what you look like in the eyes of others, and that look is something you can't see.

    You can think, what's the difference? Isn't it the same as what I see in the mirror?

    I'm telling you, it's probably not the same. Moreover, it is very likely that every outsider sees you differently!

    This is understandable, why some people are very enthusiastic when they see you, why some people are very indifferent, why do some people fall in love with you at first sight, why do some people reject you for thousands of miles?

    Do you think it's because of other people's different personalities and aesthetics?

    No, it's the face they see, not the same face!

    Could the image you see in the mirror just an illusion given to you by a master in the dark? Let you default and refer to this image to position and design your own life.

    Do you see some beautiful women who think they are young and beautiful? is completely squandering Qingqing and beauty with the positioning of being a beauty, and after a few years, I found that life was not what it was in the mirror. Many people do not seek after her beauty, but spurn her.

    Which one is the real you, that is, at a certain moment, you suddenly see a little strange, even completely strange person in the mirror, he (she) has been hiding behind the face on your surface, he (she) is not yourself in your eyes, he (she) is not what others see you, and he (she) is so kind, so distant.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Now you go and do an experiment, if you go and open the book and look in the mirror, the words are reversed in the mirror! Why, because you look at the pages in the mirror, and then you move away and don't look in the mirror, you can only see the cover of the book now, which means that you are looking at the opposite side of the book, so the words in the mirror are reversed! If you still can't understand, okay, now open your left hand, learn the posture of the traffic police to let you stop and look in the mirror, your thumb pointing is "right", and then look directly at your hand, is the back of the hand!

    Look at the hand in the mirror again, it's the palm of the hand, right! Although they are all on the right side of the thumb, one is the palm of the hand and the other is the back of the hand! So the mole is also on the left side, and if someone else is standing behind you now, he can only see the back of your head!!

    Got it!.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's different, the mirror image is the left and right interchangeable self, so as long as you are not a person who looks completely symmetrical, the appearance in the mirror and in the eyes of others is definitely different.

    The frequency of looking at yourself in the mirror is probably higher than the frequency of others looking at you (couples are not easy to say, so there will be lovers in the eyes of Xi Shi), due to the ** effect, your evaluation of your appearance in the mirror is higher than your evaluation of your appearance in the eyes of others.

    One more thing to add. When we judge whether a person is good-looking or not, the brain tends to think that a symmetrical face is more beautiful.

    The light of the sun or lamp hits the person's body and is reflected on the mirror surface (note: this is diffuse reflection, not specular reflection, and does not belong to plane mirror imaging). The plane mirror in turn reflects the light into the human eye, so we see ourselves as a virtual image in the plane mirror.

    This is the reflection of light from a flat mirror).

    Looking in the mirror is such a principle. It can be said that as long as a flat mirror is used, it must be a reflection. The image in a plane mirror is formed by the intersection of the extension lines of the reflected rays of light, so the image in a plane mirror is a virtual image.

    The virtual image is equal to the size of the object and the distance is equal. The image is equal in size to the object. So the image and the object are symmetrical to the mirror.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not the same. The self in the mirror is different from the self in the eyes of others. You are more authentic in the eyes of others.

    The mirror is a lie, and it will look better when you look at yourself. The self in the mirror is the opposite, and the self seen by the camera behind the phone's camera is more similar to the self in reality.

    The person in the mirror looks 30% better than the real self, because the person's eyes are convex lenses and the surface of the mirror is a flat mirror, so the self in the mirror does not look like himself. Although it is said that it is a face, the self that is reflected is a face, so**The self inside is more like the self in the eyes of others,**The self inside is a little more real than the self in the mirror, provided that this**is not filtered by the beautiful picture, it is a simple and real one**.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Although the person in the mirror is a mirror image, the personality and the like are always different from the person in the mirror, but some characteristics are weakened. The person in the mirror is beautified in the mind, according to the mood of the time and its factors. If you imagine yourself as a shining star, you turn out to be yourself in the mirror, but in essence, a little different.

    The clothes in the mirror should be basically the same as the actual one, and the shape should be the same, because people will beautify their image a little. The mirror image is the mirror, and it is precisely because the brain has this phenomenon that it looks at itself in the mirror, so it looks at itself in the mirror. By comparing the other person's description with one's own description, the brain, after receiving visual information, will quickly piece together as many images as possible according to factors such as the mood at the time, and see itself with its own eyes, so that a beautiful woman looks ugly and old.

    What is in the mirror is the opposite of what others see, because the mirror is the same.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It should be the same from the outside, but because everyone's opinion is different, then if you evaluate you, your own evaluation should be different from others' evaluation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your problem is this, the way others see you is the way others see you, and the way you see yourself is the way you see yourself. What do you think others think of you? Do you see your own eyes and how do you think others see you?

    This is a question of one's self-perception, this is your self-feeling, what you think you are, then how others see you, how you think you are, then what others think of you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The self in the mirror is the real oneself, no need to doubt it! And I thought so, and when I thought I wasn't as good as I was in the mirror, I looked at my little friend's in the mirror, and it was really the same, and I asked my little friend if I was like that in the mirror, and they said, "Yes."

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is a difference between the image of others looking at you and the image in the mirror, and the self in the eyes of others must be more real than the self in the mirror. The mirrors that everyone uses are flat mirrors. Planar mirror imaging involves the light of an object shining onto a mirror and then reflecting the image.

    The self in the mirror is the opposite of the self in reality. Wave your right hand in front of the mirror, and the self in the mirror is holding up your left hand. If your bangs are parted to the right, the bangs in the mirror are on the left.

    The self you see in the mirror

    What you see in the mirror is your own image, and what you see in the eyes of others is your own self in real life, with the evaluation of others. The mirror is an object, without thoughts, without feelings, but only a reflection of one's appearance, an outward manifestation. You can constantly change your image by dressing up.

    In the eyes of others, oneself is a comprehensive evaluation of the outside and the inside, not just the external image of a person. When looking at a person with tinted glasses, the person's appearance is ugly, no matter how beautiful they are.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Looking in the mirror is not the same as what others see about yourself.

    Very few people have absolutely symmetrical left and right limbs, including the face.

    Therefore, what you see in the eyes of others is the real you, and what you see in the mirror is the upside-down "mirror image" of your own left and right questions.

    Psychologically, we sometimes focus on a certain aspect of ourselves, which weakens some characteristics, so many times you are the real you in the eyes of others.

    The self in the mirror is the opposite of the self in reality. Wave your right hand in front of the mirror, and the self in the mirror is holding up your left hand. If your bangs are parted to the right, the bangs in the mirror are on the left.

    Under the effect of light and silver plating, the mirror has the effect of thinning and whitening, so the self in the mirror is better looking than it actually is. Everyone has a bit of a narcissistic tendency, and in order to gain a better sense of self-identity, we will involuntarily choose and freeze the angles and expressions that look better when we look in the mirror, and keep them in our memories as an impression of ourselves.

    Therefore, when people see certain real but ugly angles in the photo, they will feel unfamiliar and difficult to accept. Some psychological studies even claim that the real length is about 30 compared to how ugly I feel.

    However, there are also some people who have low self-esteem about their appearance, especially rejecting some parts of themselves, so once they look in the mirror or look at **, they will focus their attention on these parts, and the more they look at it, the more they dislike it.

    Effects

    **effect", it is a psychological phenomenon that refers to the fact that we prefer things that we are familiar with, and as long as they appear often, we can increase our liking.

    In daily life, everyone must look in the mirror less, and the more they look in the mirror, the more they feel that they look good, which belongs to the "** effect". If you shoot yourself in the mirror and yourself in reality, and let your friends choose which one looks better, your friends will definitely not hesitate to choose the ** in reality.

    Because for the people around you, the most common person they are is yourself in reality. In reality, you are a kind of "** effect" for your friends, and they will think that you are better looking in reality than you in the mirror.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello dear! Glad to answer for you :

    Looking in the mirror and others see yourself is not the same, from the structure of the human body, few people's left and right limbs are absolutely symmetrical, including the face, if you look carefully at yourself from the mirror, you will find that your two eyes are not exactly the same, your cheeks on both sides are also different, and the corners of your mouth are not exactly the same, so what you see from the eyes of others is the real you, and what you see from the mirror is the mirror image of your own left and right. I hope mine can help you, I wish you a happy life, good health and all the best!

    Hello dear! I'm glad to answer for you: looking in the mirror and others see yourself is different, from the structure of the human body, few people's left and right limbs are absolutely symmetrical, including the face, if you look carefully at yourself from the mirror, you will find that your two eyes are not exactly the same, your cheeks are also different, and the corners of your mouth are not exactly the same, so what you see from the eyes of others is staring at the real you, and what you see from the mirror is the mirror image of your own left and right.

    I hope mine can help you, I wish you a happy life, good health and all the best!

    Generally, the people who shine out of the plane mirror are more real and reliable, such as the reversing mirror of the car because they are all curved mirrors, so they will be defeated or distorted, and sometimes they will find that the reversing mirror is really worse than the plane mirror, so believe in the plane mirror withered yourself.

Related questions
7 answers2024-02-19

Listening to one's own voice is not the same as listening to one's own voice in others. >>>More

17 answers2024-02-19

Different people will have different ideas, and when I was thinking about your question, it suddenly occurred to me, if you were here here, wouldn't you be guessing your thoughts? >>>More

5 answers2024-02-19

When you dream of adopting a child, all lives are equal, and if you adopt a child without parents out of love, you must treat it as your own biological child, otherwise your fortune will be very unlucky. >>>More

2 answers2024-02-19

One, George Washington: When George Washington was young, his father planted a cherry tree of excellent variety in the orchard. Later, Washington's father bought a very sharp axe, and when Washington found out, he wanted to try how sharp the axe was, so he picked up the axe and cut it down at the cherry tree. >>>More

10 answers2024-02-19

I've been thinking about this question for 4 years, and I can't find the answer to it since my 2nd year of college, and I can't find the answer after 2 years of coming out to work. >>>More