When a good friend has troubles, I am the listener, and she wants a friend who can give her advice o

You have done a good job of being a good listener, and I personally feel that living is to think about a lot of benefits and interests, but I feel that good friends are useless and the relationship is estranged, which is a bit incredible, maybe your friends have their own troubles, and may not pay attention to dealing with the relationship between friends around them for a while.

Life is all about yourself, and it is good to have the opinions or suggestions of friends, but the most important thing is to decide for yourself.

Try to put yourself in your friend's shoes and do what you can.

Go with the flow, sometimes you want to do it reluctantly, but it will have the opposite effect.

From her point of view, if you really cherish this friend with your heart, you will know what kind of advice to give her!

If she doesn't believe you, it means that she is finding fault, such a friend doesn't make it, what are you doing with it, friends are interdependent and trust each other, since she doesn't believe you, then you don't need to be friends with her. She can't feel your good intentions, let's not bother ourselves for them, let yourself be better...

Why change yourself, if you change, you can't be your true self, you have to be your true self, maybe she likes the real you.

Are you male or female? Is it gay or like her?

I've also encountered similar situations.,In the end, everyone gradually drifted apart.,Now think about it, I didn't make it clear at the time.,Guess the former self-sui Hu Qingji now regrets it.,I really hope you can talk to your friends.,Say what you think.,No matter what happens in the end.,At least I won't regret it.,Regret feels very bad.。。。

There are two types of situations.

1 She does not take you as a friend.

Deliberately count you down in front of others, embarrass you, deliberately make you unable to get off the stage, in order to raise your own value.2 She treats you too much as a friend.

Some people have a shy personality, they are introverted, and they have to be strong in front of others, then she is bound to find a catharsis point according to the needs of others, and this person is often the person closest to her.

You need to pay attention to whether she is in the right place for her and if there is the right place to prove that she usually pays attention to you and cares about you.

If it's all nothing, then this kind of person, you have to stay away from her as much as possible.

When you are a good friend, people may not be far away, the kind of person who doesn't know how to respect, you don't know how to take into account your feelings is really a friend?

Good medicine is good for sickness, good advice is good for deeds, she said that you are a spur to you, so that you can always be positive.

Now this society is different from before, what else is digging into the corner, I will go, confess directly, no matter whether you succeed or fail, at least you confess, or you will regret it if you don't meet in the future.

Of course she wants you to be a couple with her, and it's best not to fish for too long. After a long time, people will give up. At that time, it was a kite with a broken string, let alone chasing it back, and I couldn't find it.

There are some things that you can't say to your girlfriend but can say to her.

Be a good friend, be a good friend.

No one is perfect, there is always a point where you don't look down on me when friends are together, I don't look down on your aspects, it's been a long time, and the run-in period has passed.

It could be the other party's problem.

It's some of his shortcomings.

You can't accept it.

That's why it's like this.

I think that girl is not a fool, you are good to her, she must feel it, if she thinks you are serious, she will naturally approve of you, even if her best friend is saying bad things about you, that girl can't listen to it completely, or work hard yourself! Don't be afraid of embarrassment when chasing someone, I wish you success!

Friends get along, talking about like-mindedness.

If you can be like-minded, then you can be together, if you can't be like-minded, then there is no common language, you can't be together, you may be separated, you may become an ordinary classmate relationship.

It's all a normal thing. Don't care. As long as you don't do anything wrong or say the wrong thing, you have a clear conscience.

You can talk to her and tell her what is in your heart.

Ordinary relationships are the longest-lasting.

Wrong! Friendship is based on trust and heart-to-heart.

You all have boyfriends, you want to meet, you want to get to know each other, why not find a time, four people meet together, get to know each other, isn't it better.