Post a discussion post, blind date Do men have to invite women to dinner?

Are you a man? I can say that this is not a must-have. First of all, the blind date, is to go to the object, right, the object is to marry a wife, right, marrying a wife is generally thought to cost money, right, do you agree with this?

For the time being, when you agree, go on, it's already a bit of a wife, and then on a blind date, if you think the girl is not bad, are you willing to pay for it? Will you be entangled in whether or not someone will pay for this meal? If you choose AA, then the woman thinks you are very good, that is, you pay, you choose AA, the girl thinks, do you not like me anymore, so choose AA, then understand, AA, then there may be no future, if you choose the woman to pay, then even if you are very good, then the woman will no longer consider you because of this end, why?

I don't want to spend the money for a meal, so what can I expect in the future? So, boys, don't say whether you want to go on a blind date or not, that is, you think about the consequences of a meal, think clearly and then ask for a blind date, everyone has the right to choose, you can choose not to pay, others can also choose you, sometimes it depends on whether the meal is worth pending, not whether you should be invited, if you don't like girls, then you don't pay, or choose AA, what will you get? There will be no good gets, and it is possible to get a stingy reputation, the matchmaker's mouth is amazing, don't affect your reputation because of a small meal, that is not a meal can make up for it.

I think what this girl means is that she doesn't want to continue to communicate, but simply pays off the favor and returns the meal she invited before, and the two don't owe each other from now on. This also shows that this girl is not materialistic, more independent, and has her own thoughts. You can be friends.

I feel that this girl has no feelings for you, and she doesn't like your type, so she will invite you to dinner again, she doesn't want to owe you, so we still have to get to know each other.

The blind date girl invites you to dinner, it is a courtesy exchange, she is still interested in dating you, everyone is more conscious not to take advantage of each other, at the beginning will increase the goodwill of both parties, you have the opportunity to further develop the relationship.

Since there is a second date after meeting, it means that you both have a good impression of each other, but it may be that you are not proactive enough, so the woman is a little anxious, she wants to get along with you more, and it can be said that she likes you more, so she said to invite you to dinner. If you have ideas for further development, give her a little more response.

It's the meaning of the courtesy, that is, it is still a little interesting to you, if she wants to cut off contact with you, there is no need to reply, please.

Judging by your description, she should be a very informed girl, she said that she wanted to invite you to dinner, not that she didn't want to continue, on the contrary, she wanted to continue to associate with you, and offered to invite you to dinner in order to increase a chance of contact.

I think that most of the girls who invite you to dinner on a blind date think that they are a little interesting to you and want to further understand you, so they just make this excuse.

The blind date girl invited you to dinner, which seems to be a little interesting to you, and it may be an opportunity to have a better understanding of you. Regardless, it's a good start to ask the other person to come back for dinner, and you have to take advantage of the opportunity.

The first possibility is that there is a return of gifts to draw a clear line. The second is to continue to learn more about you. Then let's see how it develops next.

In fact, it is very easy to solve, as long as you knock on the side when you eat, see if you can take the initiative to ask her later, if she agrees, it is interesting to you, if you don't agree, it is a refusal.

Since you had a good relationship before, the girl may feel that every time you invite a guest, he wants to invite back, such a girl has a high emotional intelligence and is worth dating.

Wow! This girl is good, at least she is unwilling to let the boy pay, and her first contact has doubled her favor.

In this case, if the other party does not mention the matter of no longer getting along with each other during the meal, it is a good impression of you.

First of all, you don't think so much, or go to dinner, the key depends on what to talk about during the meal, if he doesn't want to be nice to you, he will bring it up after the meal.

Boys should know the basic labels when they go on a blind date, which is a show of elegance. It is clear that men are the type who can't sit at a table. He's greedy.

He explicitly hinted that AA was trading with women. This woman can pay AA or whatever, but she will never marry again. For a blind date, you should understand that you are a guest and you are the one who suggests a date.

Why would you like to have dinner? Why don't you like to have dinner? Regardless of the outcome of the blind date, it should be paid by the man, which is the most fundamental issue of respect and self-cultivation.

What you eat for the first time means paying for the other party's engagement. Please eat, women are equal to men, you have to pay when you eat, women have no hands and feet, why do you want to heal men? In fact, in foreign countries, men and women usually have AA systems for blind dates and meals, so it is also normal for AA systems to be used for blind dates and meals.

Fang thinks the boys are paying for their first date in the dark. AA is the best choice for both parties. First of all, if the frequency of black dates is very high, they must eat every meal.

It's really hard to keep up with the economy.

Second, they were only meeting for the first time. Fang chose a local luxury hotel and brought a sister with him. Although the man had promised to **, he was surprised and angry at a bill of $20,000.

He simply turned off his phone and left. In the end, the woman had to pay the bill. As for the blind date, it must be yellow and cannot be without hands and feet.

Why should it be a man? To enter the business world, it is the responsibility of both men and women to set the date and pay for the meal. A friend told me:

You have to invite someone to dinner.

When you first meet a man, what is his expression when you ask a girl to pay the bill? In general, girls like generous men. Are they supposed to be AA?

It was thought that it should be an AA system. Men and women are the same. You have to pay when you eat.

Women have no hands and feet. Why do you want to ** a man? Should men and women attend blind meetings in order to start working?

In fact, men and women eat abroad.

It doesn't have to be a boy's treat, many female students are also AA when they go on a blind date, and they don't like to take advantage of boys. But under normal circumstances, boys take the initiative to invite guests, and they will rent blindly, making people feel that boys are very generous, do not pick the door, and leave a good impression.

A blind date is not necessarily a boy's treat, in fact, girls can also have a treat, but I personally think that the best way to go on a blind date is for two people AA.

Not necessarily. It depends on the boy's economic strength, if the boy's salary is not high, and it is difficult to make a blind date to succeed once, if the boy has to pay every time, the pressure may be greater, so if you go on a date to eat, it is recommended that the boy can take the initiative to make a fortune with the girl.

Blind date is not necessarily a boy treat, girls can also be invited, or want to pay their own regrets are also there, not so serious to say who must have a treat, this is to see the atmosphere of the blind date, who is suitable for grinding and pleasing who will be invited. Blind.

Usually come to Mengyuan to say that blind dates are boys' treats, which can make boys show their demeanor and leave a good impression on girls.

Not necessarily. Blind date is a matter for both parties. It should not be specified which party will pay for the cover. If the boy is the main cheat, it is okay to offer to pay the bill. Now that men and women are equal, the AA system is the best.

Blind dates are not necessarily boys' treats, but most blind date boys will take the initiative to treat, because in this way boys feel more decent and more gentlemanly.

This is not a certain guess, it is just a traditional concept. Generally speaking, when going on a blind date, if the two parties eat or order drinks together, there will be a boy to treat, and the ear stool shows a gentlemanly demeanor of the boy.

I think it must be a boy's treat, if it's a girl's treat, then such a boy is too stingy, so there should be no girl like it with a sedan chair.

There is no one who treats on a blind date, objectively speaking, generally boys will take the initiative to treat.

Generally speaking, this is the case, because it seems that the boy is more atmospheric and normal, and if there is a woman who treats him, he will generally be considered to be stingy.

I think if the man takes the initiative, it would be better for the man to invite the guest, because it will show that the man is more generous.

If you meet someone you don't like when you go on a blind date, even if the other party is a girl, then I will choose the AA system, because I don't have to pay for the girls who are not worth the rock's turn, and everyone eats their own.

As a man, if you don't even think you should have a treat on a blind date, then you will indeed be single for the rest of your life.

I think this problem, there is no doubt that Hunger Tong needs to be AA system.

First of all, to be able to start a blind date, whether it is introduced by relatives or friends, in the final analysis, it is also through the consent of both parties to reach a meeting, that is to say, blind date is completely voluntary. Therefore, when two wishful people sit together, there is no difference between the sexes, and the relationship between the two people is completely equal, so they should regard each other as friends for the first time, and there should be no problem of one party taking advantage of the other. In other words, since two strangers who are willing to make an appointment for a dinner, they should not owe each other, and the AA system is the best choice.

Secondly, if you don't have feelings for this blind date, it means that there is no possibility of continued development between you, as a woman, you should calculate the money with the other party clearly, and don't let others feel that since you don't have the idea of continuing to talk, you still have to take advantage of the other party. It can be said that if you let your blind date pay for this meal, you become a person who rubs the meal, and the relationship between you will be unequal from this time on, and it is very likely that the other party will imagine you as a frivolous person, and you should show your attitude through this meal, and tell the other party that you are not a person who likes to take advantage of others.

Thirdly, if you have feelings for each other because of this first meeting, you should also AA at the final checkout, even if the man pays first, you should ask for a transfer to transfer the other half of the money to him. Maybe the other party won't want it, but you should behave like this, and don't let the other person think that you are a greedy person. If you want to meet more times in the future and get to know each other slowly, you should leave a good impression on each other for the first time.

Finally, if the woman has feelings for the man when they meet for the first time, and feels that it is possible to get along again, they need the AA system even more, and maybe they can take the initiative to pay the bill. Originally, in this meeting, the woman's feelings for the man were more obvious, so she needed to take the initiative to "seize the opportunity", in order to leave a better influence in the boy's heart, and for the next time he invited the boy out for dinner, he was not good at shirking. Moreover, it is not easy for everyone to earn money, and it should not be said that it is natural for boys to pay, but we should still understand each other more.

Actually, the AA system or the boy pays, but it's all voluntary, but this kind of thing about money, or two people who meet for the first time, it's better to calculate it clearly.

We shouldn't take it for granted that boys should spend money, and men should be honest and gentlemanly, but it doesn't mean that women should enjoy "no-money" lunches as a matter of course. Blind date was originally based on the principle of mutual equality, and two people who would not know each other before formed a dinner for the first time, and it was reasonable that the AA system should be aa.

It is better for the first blind date to be paid by the boy. If you feel better, the better the time for the next meeting.

First blind date'There are three points to pay attention to.

Don't talk about it when you meet for the first time.

When the boys and girls meet for the first time, no matter which side of the munacha talks as much as possible: to the point, and do not talk exaggeratedly. The best is to:

I want to stop talking, I feel very comfortable, and I feel that this person is very self-contained. The man who had a problem on a blind date last week, I asked him, he always answered the question, and he was very good at unconsciously extending the question, obviously asking him: take the liberty of asking who the aunt who introduced us is you, he will tell him what his parents usually do at home, and he didn't get to the point in seventeen or eighteen sentences.

Eggplant sells. To sum up: whether a person has cultivation or not, the first thing he comes into contact with is words. Or rather, this is one of the most important factors in a blind date.

2. Dress for the first meeting.

Boys and girls must pay attention to their dress, once met a certain man, he wore a down jacket in winter, and there was an empty cotton sweater inside, which gave a very bad impression. People like to be respected and valued, and if so, it will definitely give a big penalty to the blind date. Girls too, no matter how they look, they must be able to dress themselves, and the result of being plain will only make men boring.

Remember: men will always like beautiful women, and women will always like attractive men.

No matter how you look when you go on a blind date, you must pay attention to your dress, last time I talked about dressing, now I will talk to you about how to dress appropriately. First of all, you must dress according to the season, whether it is a boy or a girl, don't blindly follow the trend, and don't wear any Hari Hahan clothes. Don't wear a professional slip-on, of course, if you're under 25 years old, you can choose the former, and if you're over 35, you can choose the latter.

Or not all men are suitable for wearing pink shirts, and not all girls are suitable for long curly hair, be sure to follow your own situation!

3. Don't talk about parents when you meet for the first time.

Today, let's introduce the taboo words when going on a blind date: When you go on a blind date, talk about your parents as little as possible, why? Too much talk will make the other party feel that you are not mature enough, and secondly, you will feel insecure with you, if it is a man, it will be associated with 24 filial piety, and if it is a woman, it will be the kind of king in the family.

Summarize one sentence: If you want to fail the blind date early, then move your parents out, nine out of ten sentences are parents, and the tenth sentence is related to them. Congratulations to Xunpi, you will definitely be out.

People who know each other on a blind date, usually their parents and the situation at home should be known, and they don't need to ask for the first time when they meet, and they really can't bear to ask, so they want to ask: Are your parents still working? It's all about it, and once a gg said:

At home, the words of parents are holy decrees, and it is absolutely unflattering and even offensive for a 30-year-old person to say such words.