Now women don t like men, why do they go on blind dates?

1. The utilitarian nature of the blind date is very clear and strong.

2. The blind date is a stranger and has no emotional basis. The man's economic base plays a decisive role.

3. The two parties on the blind date are basically unsuccessful in free love.

4. Both parties on a blind date are generally older and have certain social experience.

5. Blind date women are basically very materialistic, and they pay great attention to the man's conditions (appearance, economic income). Some men with good conditions can find a beautiful woman in their 20s in their forties and fifties.

6. The society is very realistic, blind date love marriage is more realistic, and the man's economic income is the pillar of the whole family. The blind date woman's economic needs are tactful or direct, they will be revealed, and their gentleness and thoughtfulness need to be paid by the man's economy.

7. If the concept and values of the blind date are appropriate, they will talk, otherwise they will refuse euphemistically, and both parties should not waste money and time.

9. On the first side of the blind date, at most a cup of tea, don't spend too much. After all, the blind date is a stranger, if you are satisfied, you can talk, if you don't like to find a reason to leave, even a cup of tea money will be saved.

10. No matter what the result of the blind date, it is best to report to the introducer, and there are some things that the introducer can say better.

11, if the blind date is successful, it is the best, everyone is happy. Even if the blind date is unsuccessful, be natural and generous. The blind date is a stranger, and both parties have not invested too much, and it is okay to be a stranger if they don't succeed.

Because I was forced by my parents.

Blind date is just to put two people with suitable conditions together, so that two people from knowing each other to getting married, maybe the other party is not the type they like, no heartbeat, no feelings, no true love, but not very annoying, just get married, this is more common.

It is difficult to find true love on a blind date, mainly because:

First, in the form of blind date, the other party will think too much about each item of your loss, and you have to meet his (her) standards, height and object, whether it is suitable, whether it looks good, whether it is too fat, and so on, your external factors are all considered, one does not match, maybe you pass.

Second, in the form of blind date, the other party will consider your work situation, whether the job is stable, whether the income is objective, and whether the nature of the work will be too embarrassing.

Third, in the form of a blind date, the other party will consider your family situation, whether your parents have money, whether it will be a burden when you are old, whether there are other children at home, if there are other sons, will you have to subsidize some, if there are daughters, is the relationship not good, and the sister-in-law likes to sow discord the most.

Fourth, in the form of blind date, the other party will consider whether you have a house, whether you have a car, and whether you can satisfy her vanity.

To sum up, the blind date will consider your conditions too much, and ignore your qualities, as a person, but also only love your money, not the person who loves you, maybe you have money now, you can do anything, but if one day you fail, it will leave you.

Blind date, how can there be true love, most of them are coping with things, the time to get along is short, not to fall in love with you, but to consider too much external conditions, it is difficult to find true love, but blind date is still one of the ways to find a partner, from ancient times to the present, maybe you can find true love.

I think the following are the behaviors that girls can't stand the most when they meet men on blind dates.

First of all, the blind date man's overly nervous and unconfident performance is disgusting to girls. If a guy is so nervous that he can't communicate fluently when they meet, or has low self-esteem and frequently laughs or apologizes, then the girl may feel that he lacks confidence and stability. Self-confidence is an attractive quality, and girls are more inclined to associate with a guy who can show confidence and a positive attitude.

Secondly, the blind date man's lack of attention and respect for the girl's behavior can also bring displeasure to the girl. When a guy is only concerned about talking about himself when they first meet and is not interested or casual about the girl's topic or interest, the girl may feel that her presence is ignored or trivialized. Mutual respect and shared concern for each other are the foundation of a good relationship, and boys should show genuine interest and value for girls.

Third, the blind date man does not respect the personal space and boundaries of the girl, which is also unbearable for the girl. At the first meeting, some boys may be too intimate and proactive, and excessively invade the girl's personal space, such as being too intimate, hugging or touching the girl's body for no reason. This kind of behavior can cause discomfort and insecurity for the girl, and may even trigger resistance from the other person.

Boys should respect the girl's personal boundaries and boundaries to avoid causing distress or stress to the other person.

In addition, it is also a bothersome behavior for girls to be overly anxious to talk about future marriage and family plans when they meet for the first time. Although the purpose of a blind date is to find a suitable partner, being too eager to talk about marriage and family at the first time a friend meets can be stressful and uncomfortable. Girls are more likely to get along with a guy who can calmly handle the development of a blind date.

Finally, the lack of honesty and authenticity on a blind date can also be difficult for girls to accept. If a guy exaggerates or hides his or her situation when they first meet, the girl may feel deceived and disappointed. A blind date based on honesty and authenticity can be long-lasting and stable.

All in all, meeting for the first time is a crucial step in the blind date process. Girls have certain expectations and requirements for the behavior of blind date men at this time. Being too nervous and unconfident, lacking attention and respect, not respecting personal space and boundaries, talking too much about the future, and lacking honesty and authenticity are the behaviors of blind date men that girls can't stand the most.

Guys should be aware of these issues and show confidence, respect, attention, and authenticity when they first meet to make a good first impression and build a solid foundation for the development of a blind date.