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Since I was a child, my parents have taught me to have filial piety, respect the old and love the young, and they themselves are also practicing the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation - filial piety. Our family is a big family, and my grandparents and little aunts are the same.
We have lived together for more than 10 years, and it has become a good story in the community. Dad is from Shandong and doesn't like sweets, but he is never picky about his grandmother's cooking, and always pretends to love food. Mom still talks about it a lot.
The story of the mother-in-law to eat longan meat for the father, that was the first time the father saw the mother-in-law, the grandmother made a big bowl of longan meat for the father according to the customs of Shaoxing, put a lot of sugar, the father gritted his teeth and ate it, the grandmother thought that the father liked to eat, and often gave it in the future.
He did it, and he ate it for more than two years, and his father couldn't cry or laugh until he ate it. Every time there is a major issue at home that needs to be discussed, everyone starts to tweet and express their opinions, but they can't be unified, and in the end, most of them listen to their grandparents and use their father's words.
Said, this is called filial piety first.
My grandparents are old, and sometimes they quarrel over trivial matters, but my parents always persuade them patiently and never contradict them, even if sometimes my grandparents seem to be very unreasonable.
Mom and Dad didn't blame them in the slightest. Dad always said, filial piety and filial piety, no shun and no respect, where is filial piety? To be obedient to the elders is first and foremost, to make them feel comfortable and respected, as long as it is not principled.
The big problems can be caused by them. Dad also often said that filial piety has no bottom line, that is, there is no best filial piety to adults, only better, no end, only a starting point.
Filial piety comes first", "filial piety has no bottom line", I want to keep these words in mind, take it as our family style and family motto, and be a person who respects his parents and knows how to be grateful since he was a child. I also want to tell these words to other children, so that they can be excellent teenagers in the new era like me.
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There is no full stop behind the practice.
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A short story about family style and family motto:
Zeng GuofanZeng Guofan is a controversial figure in modern Chinese history, and his evaluation of him is not overestimated, but his family education has been remarkable. He takes the word "diligence" as the first meaning of life. Practice it yourself, and educate your children to develop a hard-working style.
It is required that "all men sprinkle and sweep at home" and "all women learn to wash and cook tea and cook".
It also stipulates four "daily lessons" for the women of the Zeng family: "food affairs", and cooks various side dishes after breakfast every day; "Clothing", has been carved at noon spinning flowers or linen; "Fine-graining", making cloth shoes or sewing clothes for men and women in the evening, that is, after dinner. Zeng Guofan, as a person who worships the prime minister, has to regularly inspect the "daily class" and personally implement it.
As the saying goes: "people are noble and diligent", it can be seen that the Zeng family's "Chongqin" family style is really praiseworthy.
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Ji Hongchang, the word Shiwu, Henan Fugou people. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Allied Army. In his early years, he served as a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army, and was promoted to battalion commander and division commander with bravery and good fighting, and later served as the commander of the Kuomintang army and the chairman of Ningxia Province.
In 1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was the battalion commander at the time, and his father Ji Yunting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit:"As an official, you must be innocent and humble, think more about the poor in the world, and you are not allowed to get rich as an official.
Otherwise, I will not be able to sleep peacefully under the Nine Springs. "Ji Hongchang tearfully agreed.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he put"As an official, you are not allowed to get rich"The six-character character was written on the porcelain bowls, and the porcelain bowls were to be fired in batches by the ceramic factory, and the porcelain bowls were distributed to all officers and soldiers. Said at the distribution of porcelain bowls"Although I Ji Hongchang is the chief, but I will never oppress the people, plunder the people's wealth, I want to keep in mind my father's teachings, not to be an official to make a fortune, to do good things for the poor in the world, please brothers supervise.
Ji Hongchang is consistent with his words and deeds, he is innocent and humble all his life, and he is the people everywhere. When the Japanese imperialists invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. He was killed by the Kuomintang* at the age of 39.
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A good family style can set a beacon for a successful life and allow you to listen to the voice of success. It can allow you to climb and conquer the peak of life, can make you from mediocre to extraordinary, from failure to success, family style is also a good family atmosphere, but also a good habit.
The story of my family's family style started when I was in kindergarten when I was participating in a 100-day recitation activity. It's a very rewarding activity, but it's boring and monotonous for me. I read it for 85 days in a row, and on my birthday, my parents held a birthday party for me, and I had a full day of fun and fun, and it was dark, time passed like a white horse, and the time on the clock slowly turned to 9, and it was 9 o'clock in the evening!
We hurried home. When I got home, I suddenly felt a sharp pain, and I rushed to the toilet... My limbs were weak and my face was pale, like an eggplant beaten by frost.
I slowly walked out of the toilet and lay dying on the couch. The mother said, 'Son, are you alright?'
I clutched my stomach and said, 'It's okay, I guess I've eaten badly, take a break, it should be fine......Before I could finish speaking, I clutched my stomach again, and the pain again made me have to stop talking. That's when my mother said
Then take a break. By the way, you're done reading today, right? I lounged on the couch and said:
I'm not comfortable today, so I won't read it! "It's important to insist, come on, get up." Mom whispered.
After listening to my mother's words, I thought about it, and I couldn't give up with a little difficulty, so I endured the pain and read it. I won the grand prize in the 100-day recitation competition, and I think I'm glad I didn't give up on it. Since then, I usually do everything, whenever I encounter any difficulties and think of giving up, I think about what my mother said, "It's important to persevere."
Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, believes that great success depends not on strength, but on tenacity. Perseverance and perseverance are necessary conditions for success. When things get harder and harder, when failures come crashing over like a sea of mountains, most people will let go and leave, and only the strong-willed will be able to persevere to the end.
Because sometimes there is only one step between success and failure. A good family style is also a kind of silent edification.
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