How to view the act of cohabitation before marriage, is it good or bad?

It's definitely not good, cohabitation is the most unfair for girls, you know, the life of a single mother is very hard.

Premarital cohabitation can also be understood as a premarital attempt to love, and I personally feel that it is impossible to judge whether it is good or bad, but at least it can deepen each other's understanding and make married life more natural.

I think it's good to live together before marriage, because living together can help each other get to know each other better, know each other's habits, and thus know whether each other is suitable for marriage.

I think this is a very normal thing, it's not as good as it used to be, we're all more open, and a lot of people even take this kind of behavior out on the surface, in fact, there's nothing to be ashamed of

It's good to live together before marriage, if a woman cohabits before marriage and doesn't enter the marriage hall, it will become a second-hand bargain, so that those men who can't afford to get married can pick up a cheap goods to get married, how good.

I feel that it is good, you can find the small problems of both parties before marriage, correct them in time before marriage, avoid the escalation of conflicts after marriage, and if two people are really not suitable together, then separate as soon as possible.

Living together can observe everything about each other, know whether the other party is suitable for you, and avoid greater conflicts after marriage!

I think everyone is an adult, and the behavior of living together before marriage is not good or bad, just learn to be responsible for yourself.

We should look at this matter rationally, and just be responsible for each other and each other.

I can't accept living together before marriage.

Illegal cohabitation, we don't do illegal things.

I think it's better not to live together before marriage. Because it is very likely that your marriage partner is not the other party, then when you contract some diseases or become pregnant, it is irresponsible for yourself and your children, and it is also irresponsible for your future marriage partner.

Premarital cohabitation is necessary because in the process of cohabitation, you can learn about each other's living habits and see if they are compatible or not. There are many people who are separated because of their living habits.

I think it is feasible to live together before marriage, because cohabitation is to observe what the other person is like in daily life, because often after marriage, you will find that the other person has become different, so cohabitation is also a practice.

Cohabitation history refers to the process by which two people live together as husband and wife or in a cohabitation before they are married. Nowadays, with the development of society and the change of people's values, cohabitation has gradually become a common way of life. Cohabitation history can include temporary cohabitation, long-term cohabitation, multiple cohabitation, etc., and in general, the duration of cohabitation can range from a few months to several years.

Personally, I am not in favor of premarital cohabitation, mainly for several reasons:

1.Inconsistent Values: Subjects have lived together in the past, which may prove that their lifestyles and attitudes are not aligned with their own values, leading to antagonistic situations.

For example, people who believe that they should not live together before marriage may find it unacceptable when they find out that their partner has cohabited because it is contrary to their concept of life.

2.Insecurity: Some people believe that cohabitation is a necessary process before entering into a marriage, and that too much cohabitation can lead to increased personal insecurity, which can affect future marriages.

At the same time, the more they care about their partner's past, the more they demand and question their partner, and it is difficult for them to live with their partner with confidence.

3.Distrust of a partner's past: A partner who has lived together may mean that there is an emotional entanglement or separation experience, and some people will have doubts or distrust of the partner who has lived together. Congratulations.

4.Different conceptions of marriage: For some people, marriage is an important commitment and responsibility, and they want not to live with their partner before marriage, so if they find out that their partner has lived together, it can be divisive.

5.Different moral values: For some people, cohabitation may be seen as an immoral behavior, so they may become suspicious and distrustful of a partner who has lived together, which is not conducive to the further development of the couple.

However, there is no absolute answer to this question, and everyone has their own ideas and standards. But in any case, when choosing a partner, the best way is to listen to the other person's experience and attitude and make the choice that best meets your expectations and is trustworthy based on your situation.

1. There are many advantages of living together before marriage, especially for girls who have just graduated, living with their boyfriends, you can have less pressure, encounter difficulties, you can comfort each other and give help, especially in the early stage of your career, you will be tired and out of breath, if there is a man around you who cares about you and takes care of you, the work will definitely be smooth!

2. In terms of personality, living together before marriage can better understand each other's temper, character, and family support, if two people in love do not live together, the other party's temper and character may be reserved, and the other party's family may be even more ignorant, even if you know, it can be 1 year later.

I think a woman's temper is the most important, and now there are many men who don't like girls with a bad temper, I don't understand this, because 95% of all girls are bad-tempered, judging whether a man loves you or not, whether the love is deep or not, it can be seen from the moment the girl loses her temper, of course, as a girl to understand.

To know how to judge the situation, you can't live in a temper temper 24 hours a day, sometimes a proper temper will make the boy feel that you are cute, will love you more, protect you, but if it exceeds the degree, it will often make people slowly tired!

3. Two people can cultivate deeper feelings, if there is no cohabitation, only two people can be together when dating, but after living together, two people can get up and eat together, as long as there is time, they can stay together all the time. Every couple of lovers will feel tired after a long time, but this is a stage that two people must go through.

Cohabitation can spend this time in advance, as long as you are still together, your relationship is no longer a simple romantic relationship, you will feel that the other party has become your own relatives. Of course, the biggest benefit is that you can take care of each other, especially when you feel helpless.

In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to find a person you like. After all, it takes a lot of effort to get to know each other, get to know each other, and fall in love. Therefore, in order to keep each other, many people will choose to live with their boyfriends before marriage.

In this way, you can perceive whether your boyfriend is attentive to you and whether she is suitable for the other party. And in this fast-paced world, the word "premarital cohabitation" is not uncommon. But once you decide, there are many things you need to pay attention to when you live with your boyfriend.

For example, to give the other party appropriate hidden space, to do what should be done, not to do, to avoid. Now there is such a phenomenon, although many women have never been married, but they and their predecessors, may have a long history of same, residence, this history, will definitely affect women to talk about marriage again in the future. For most men, they basically do not accept women who have lived with and lived with them, especially those who have lived with them for a long time.

When a man is with this kind of woman, there is always a feeling of marrying a second-married woman, in addition, a woman casually lives with a man, and the two of them finally enter into marriage, it is good to say that if they break up halfway, it will make the successor feel that the woman is very frivolous. Although there is an argument now that it is good to understand each other by living together before marriage, in fact, if you want to really understand a person, you don't have to live together, you can't live together, and you can also understand a person if you get along with each other often. In addition, if you live together before marriage, it is no different from living as a husband and wife, even if you get married in the future, the two people do not have a sweet yearning for marriage, and it is difficult to live a good life.

Before marriage, it is unfair to women to live together, and the ugly side of each other's personalities is exposed. Regardless of the woman and the man's proposal to break up, the woman loses her cleanliness and grabs it in the hands of others. To tell the truth, how many people are the same in college, and the trial marriage ** is harmful to a woman's body, and it is your blessing to be able to grow old together.

Because if you live together before marriage, your boyfriend will not cherish herself after marriage, and even feel that she has no value in existence. If you decide to live with your boyfriend before marriage, you can't live together, and if you live for too long, you can take one or two months as a premise to see if the effect of living together is good. If it's good, you can continue, if it's not, then move out of your boyfriend's family as soon as possible and protect yourself.

For girls, falling in love, getting engaged, getting married, and getting pregnant are very important steps, and they can't get the order wrong. And even if you live together, you have to give the other party space, you can't manage too much, and you can't decide to live together for the purpose of getting married, and you can't be irresponsible. All in all, living together before marriage, regardless of the ending, is a sign of loss for girls, so it is not recommended to live together before marriage.

1. Don't choose to get married because of your appearance, being good to you, etc. Because men will get fat and become uncles after marriage. And his treatment is good to you, and he can have 20% left after marriage, which is already considered to have a conscience.

2. It is difficult to change people's living habits. Before getting married, it is best to know his routine, hygiene habits, family traditions, local customs, etc. Many frictions between couples are caused by lifestyle habits.

3. In terms of character quality, it is recommended to find a man who is kind, generous, patient, and assertive. The most important of these qualities is kindness. Because if an adult male is still kind, then his family is likely to be not bad, and his life experience will be happy.

4. Before getting married, girls convey all their thoughts clearly. For example, whether to have a bride price, whether to hold a wedding, whether to have children, who will take care of the accounts after marriage, go to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year, and not have a name on the wedding room, etc. These questions are not clear before marriage, and after marriage is a thorn in the heart.

5. Every married family has all kinds of contradictions, which are far less relaxed than one person. If you want to get married, you still have to be emotional.

I've only met people who lived together and got married before marriage, and they all got engaged and got licenses.

1. Most of the older generation and even young people with stronger traditional concepts believe that male and female lovers before marriage should not live together, because if a girl lives with her boyfriend before marriage, it will have a very negative impact on the girl's reputation. I think this concept is now outdated, and for young couples who are about to get married, cohabitation before marriage is still very necessary. I am very much in favor of premarital cohabitation.

Cohabitation before marriage is actually a process of simulating married life, but this process is realized and executed in advance during the love stage.2 In the process of cohabitation, two people live together, cook together, do laundry together, watch TV together, clean together, etc. Through these small details in life, we can see if each other is suitable for marriage. Small details can reveal some of the other person's living habits and shortcomings, and of course the advantages will also be reflected.

3. Some couples find that the other party is not the ideal partner they want after living together before marriage, because in the dating stage, they feel that the other party is very considerate and gentle, but after living together before marriage, they find that the other party does not care about hygiene, too much "naivety", and he is a very lazy person. At the moment, I'm glad I haven't married the other party yet. If I find out that the other partner has these problems after getting married, I will regret it.

4. I think we should change the concept of premarital cohabitation. Living together before marriage is actually a way to try out marriage, which allows each other to cherish each other more and discover each other's highlights, but it can also expose each other's shortcomings. The benefits of living in harmony before marriage outweigh the disadvantages, so it is not bound by traditional ideas.

5. Many older generations will think that premarital couples should not live together, because girls living together before marriage will affect the reputation of girls, I think premarital couples should live together, cohabitation is very necessary, premarital cohabitation can see whether the other party has any bad living habits, through cohabitation can also run in the character of two people, premarital cohabitation benefits are still very many.

In my opinion, premarital cohabitation is indeed necessary in today's era when the divorce rate is not low. There is a good saying: practice is the only criterion for testing truth.

There is a certain probability of living together before marriage so that each other can see each other more clearly, and some contradictions can only be found when they get along day and night. If it comes naturally, I think it is possible to live together, but girls must pay attention to their own safety, not to get pregnant casually, let alone casually ** cause lifelong harm, girls must be weak in cohabitation life, this must always remember that the first condition for cohabitation is to have a long understanding of each other, and then there can be the idea of cohabitation. 1. Only by living together can we fully understand each other, understand each other's good and bad.

After living together, the impulse and enthusiasm have slowly subsided, so as to show your inner smile, whether you love or like each other, or just have a good impression of each other. This is very important, love is the foundation of building a family and marriage, and only by loving each other can we get through all the tribulations in marriage. in order to feel happiness in a long marriage.

2. Marriage must maintain the dynamic balance of material, spiritual, and physical conditions, and cohabitation can make both parties better experience whether there is a spiritual common pursuit, and the tempering of time after getting along, revealing the contradictions, boring and even ugly side of the two people, how to solve them. 3. It is difficult to experience in love, and in a cohabitation relationship, it can also help you find out whether you can achieve the beauty between the three When two people really live together, after removing each other's disguises, both parties can see each other's most real life state. It is certainly beautiful when you are in love, but after peeling off this coat, it is more important whether both parties can share the responsibility of trivial matters such as firewood, rice, oil and salt in life.

The above is all my reply to the seller's answer, I hope to help you, if you have other questions can be answered at any time.