Is love really worn out by time? Why is it that the longer it is, the more intense the degree of lon

Updated on society 2024-02-08
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you are in love, why should you separate because your family opposes it! Go for it! You want to wait until you have the ability to come back to her, but have you ever thought about the time?

    What happened while waiting?! There are not a few times in a person's life that they can really love, how many people find someone to marry because they miss true love, and when you have the ability, if you come back and see that there are others around him, whether it is he loves or not, it has become a fact, then what is the point of waiting for your efforts! I waited three years, for him to mature, for another two years, for him to come back, for a total of five years in the heart of believing that we loved each other, but he came back and told me that he accepted another person because of loneliness!

    So, it is the most stupid thing to love each other and leave and wait!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, falling out of love is like this, the feeling of death is there, how can there be any color, I just fell out of love, I didn't sleep night after night, for a few days, my hands and feet are weak, and it will be fine after a while.

    Anyway, the two are going to be separated. I didn't break up with my girlfriend because I didn't like me, it hurt when we broke up. Can't be together Sometimes, you can't force it, her family thinks like this, you can't be together, naturally they have their reasons.

    Can you guarantee that you are right? True love? If someone still believes in true love, then it means that he is naïve.

    Immature. Either he's not human. To become a god-level figure of the Cowherd and Weaver Girl.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time is good medicine, the longer the time, the deeper the thoughts, which means that you really care about her, congratulations....

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such love rarely comes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because after a long time, you will get used to it、、、

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time and distance don't have to wear down feelings. The key to whether the relationship lasts long is whether it is affectionate enough and whether it can withstand the test. Sometimes two people stick together every day, and they will get tired of it after a long time, and sometimes two people don't see each other every day for so long, and their thoughts are getting deeper and deeper.

    Time is a dual-effect catalyst, and how to exert its effect also depends on the attitude of two people.

    Time will make two people who are not sincere in their feelings more and more estranged, and for two people who really love each other, they will only let the feelings take root in their hearts. My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. If we talk about the distance, we are 200 kilometers away, and the high-speed rail takes 40 minutes, which seems to be a short time, and it will be there in a while, but if you want to see him, you still need to take the bus for an hour and a half.

    So we don't see each other very often. We have maintained this kind of life for three years, from the beginning of a month** to the current once a week**, from the very beginning of meeting once a half a year to now meeting once a month or two, I don't feel that our relationship has been threatened, so time and even distance in the face of true love is really not a problem.

    If you feel that your relationship is not as good as before after a long time, you need to understand that the relationship is really not sweet all the time, from the initial sweet period to the run-in period to the dull period is the stage that every couple has to go through. Don't feel that quarreling and quarrelling, some small disputes are that the other party doesn't care about you, everyone has a temper, they have their own things to be busy with, we must understand each other, and tolerate each other to maintain a good relationship. Getting along is not full of surprises every day, and a long stream of water is also a kind of beauty.

    Hopefully, every relationship will stand the test.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think so, at least not me, neither will my boyfriend, my boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, we have been together for more than two years, and the relationship between me and my boyfriend has not been exhausted by time.

    It is said that love has a spark, and later because of the relationship of time, it will be slowly smoothed, indeed, this is a fact, but smoothing does not mean that it is exhausted, but bland, like relatives, no one can do without whom.

    But my partner is very good to me, good like a father taking care of his daughter, I am reluctant to leave him, I want to continue with him, because I will not believe that there will be a second boy who is so good to me, I am reluctant to have our relationship.

    Long-distance relationships are terrible, some people have said that if we survive a long-distance relationship, let's get married, yes, if you want to have a perfect love, then go through a long-distance relationship, and the long-distance relationship really tests each other.

    Feelings mainly depend on the management of two people, relying on one person's efforts will not last long, if the two of you are in good emotional management, not afraid of the relationship being worn out by time, if you have problems before, not only will you have time, but there will be many factors.

    So, if two people are together, you don't have to worry about time, since you two choose to take care of each other, you must not be afraid of time to smooth out your relationship, I hope that the problem of time will not bother you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think so, judging by the score.

    Some people are vigorous when they fall in love, and they wish that two people could become one person, but as time goes by, they slowly see each other's shortcomings, and their feelings become weaker and weaker.

    Just like married life, there is a three-year pain and a seven-year itch, time will make each other's shortcomings show, and if you can't survive it, it will end in divorce. Two people can lose to time when they get along day and night, let alone get along in a long way.

    For a while, my husband and I had no choice but to separate ourselves in order to make a living.

    The two places crossed provinces, and they were far away, and they basically didn't see each other once in two or three months, and those days were quite tormenting.

    I do everything by myself, although I have friends around me, but many things are not good and always trouble friends. And it's really lonely to be alone, with no one to take care of you when you're sick, and you don't want a hug when you're sad.

    If I don't contact him every few days, he won't remember that there is another me in the field. He always thinks that his wife and I are strong and independent, and I don't need him to worry.

    We both realized the problem, and then my husband gave up his well-paid job to come to my side and ended the long-distance relationship. Now, our relationship is getting better and better.

    So, time is the most unforgiving, and it can really change a lot of things.

    But it doesn't mean that everyone's relationship has faded after a long time in a different place, and there are couples who have been together for a longer time and have a better relationship.

    I have seen a lot of gray-haired old people, the same as his partner, how many ten years, twenty years they have gone together, and when they reach the age of sixties, they still love each other.

    So, it's not absolute. It depends on whether the person you meet is the right person for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

    This is a poem that I like very much. Yes, if you are really the same as the promise you made at the beginning, love is stronger than gold, deeper than the sea, and higher than the sky, then why are you afraid of time?

    All those who put the responsibility for not being able to stick to their feelings for each other on time are not only a person with an unfirm mind, but also a very irresponsible person.

    What did she do wrong with time? It's just a tireless and slow flow. She is different from water, she is silent and invisible, and she has no power to consume the feelings between you. You are the only one who can influence your emotions.

    Many people say, ah, we are in a different place, we don't see each other every day, and after a long time, we don't feel as passionate about each other as they used to be. is like the happy little couple in "Five Centimeters per Second", when they grow up, they go their separate ways, you talk about marriage, I talk about marriage, no one interferes with anyone, and no one remembers anyone.

    In other words, staying together for a long time, the contradictions and estrangements between each other are getting bigger and bigger, just like Susie said, the other party's original book that looks very good, when you open him, read it page by page, read it over and over again, until you remember all the contents, ......You probably won't have the same heart-pounding feeling as you did at the beginning.

    At the end of the day, it's just that you can't stick to it.

    There are Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing in the ancient book, and the long separation did not kill their feelings, but in the end, the two committed suicide together, turned into peacocks, and flew together. There are also Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, the story of turning into a butterfly, and singing through the ages.

    So, why should you worry about time changing you? As long as you are firm in your beliefs and turn into a rock, why worry?

    So, don't blame time for the fault you can't hold onto, everything, it's all on you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If love can go through the tempering of time, then there will be no problem, but the most needed mutual trust, a long-term love will sometimes have a distance, the distance in the heart, even if you are close to each other, but your heart is far away from each other, that long-term love, should "say goodbye".

    Although the saying is very good, "distance produces beauty", how much love can withstand the test of distance? Many loves, which are considered perfect, will disappear right in front of their eyes, let alone separate.

    Maybe it's hard to miss at first, but will it be after a while?

    Love is unclear to anyone After all, there is no answer to even the parties ?..

    There is no best way to maintain this long-distance relationship"...

    It's up to you

    The love of each other's hearts

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it's true love.

    You don't need too many drops of language between you, time is not a problem.

    Distance is not an issue.

    Because true love is eternal

    Your love will continue.

    Happiness will also spread.

    Hee

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I hope so, but there is too much helplessness in this world, and it can be said that it is impossible in such a realistic environment.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    can stand it, if someone really loves her, then he can stand it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A truly unbreakable love cannot be defeated by anything.

    Hypocrisy, or lack of care, will definitely be consumed.

    What is Love?

    If love does not fall into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it will not last long. True love is not nervous, that is, you can burp, fart, pick your ears, and have a runny nose in front of him without any scruples; The person who really loves you is the one you can see without washing your face, combing your hair, or putting on makeup.

    Love, not to love you because of what you can bring me, but to be ready to receive all that you bring because of love for you. True love doesn't expect you to make me boast in front of people, but deep down I know that you will still be there for me even if everyone is not with me.

    If you still have any questions, please feel free to ask additional questions or send me a directional help, I will definitely try my best to help you. Wishing you happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    True love stands the test.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is not love that will fade over time, but impulse.

    I never thought that love would slowly turn into family affection, or even nothing. Those so-called time will take away love, but it's just because of not love.

    I have seen many couples who have been married for more than ten years, and their children are already in elementary school, but they are still so sweet. The title is always dear wife, dear husband. As soon as there is a holiday, they will put their children at their parents' house, and then the two of them will begin to study the travel route with great interest, the husband is responsible for taking pictures, and the wife is responsible for looking beautiful like a flower.

    I've seen a lot, they are already gray-haired old husbands and wives, but they will still look at each other affectionately, and they will still hold hands when they go to **, ** steps, the old man will support the old lady, for fear that she will step on the air, after dinner, they will also go for a walk in the park together, and talk about the interesting things of the year.

    Love, among them, never seems to stop.

    Of course, there are also many people who have been married for only two or three years, and the two people feel like they have passed the end, competing with each other all day long, and they don't have a good face for each other, or they can't say a word, the man doesn't go home all day, and the woman washes her face with tears all day long, and the thing they regret the most in this life seems to be to get the red marriage certificate with each other.

    Love, in the midst of them, seems to just rest and leave.

    But I think that love lies in management, you were so in love at the beginning, but why did it change later? Has people changed, or is love so short-lived? I think the way you get along with each other has changed.

    Irregular surprises, uninterrupted care, and heart-warming details that never slack off all determine the lifespan of love, so as long as your original intention remains the same, as long as you still love each other, love, it is eternal.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think this question is not the only answer, maybe everyone's experience is different, the perception is different, and the interpretation of the same thing is also different, which will give birth to different answers. First of all, what is love? I don't know if there are such subtle adjectives, such wonderful words and phrases that can explain the word love, what is love?

    I don't think love can be described in any language, love is a feeling, a belief, a kind of thing that seems to be invisible, seems to be ungraspable but can make you feel full of happiness, and exists in the most precious thing in time.

    We all yearn for love, yearning for ourselves to have a love that the world envies and makes the world applaud, because love is so holy and inviolable, and at the same time love is so difficult to find, most of us yearn for it.

    When we have a relationship, when we are not sure whether it is love or not, we will have fear because we really care, we are afraid that the relationship we have will become weaker and weaker over time, and it will disappear, we are also afraid of distance, we are afraid that there is no common topic between each other, after all, we are still afraid of time.

    We've seen too many relationships that can't stand the test of time, so is it true that love will fade over time?

    No! I don't believe it, and I don't want to accept this answer, maybe many people will say that I am an unpragmatic and a very fantasical girl, but so so I have never denied it. In my eyes, love is the sea is rotten, it is the old world, even if the sun no longer rises, it will not affect the existence of love, because time can not take away love, because love is eternal, once love, once it is determined to be love, then no matter how long it will take, love will still exist.

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