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Tolerance, for some people, is like a small obstacle that can be crossed; For some people, it is like a mountain that is thousands of feet high, and it is impossible to get over it. But as long as you have this heart, you will leap over this thousand-foot high mountain. That's how it is in life!
I remember that time, my classmate and I had a quarrel because of a small conflict! Here's how it happened: That day, I was playing with my classmates on the basketball court, and when I got to 6-2, I started to get crazy, and I played harder and harder, and the number of shots increased, and the shooting percentage increased, and the score got closer and closer, and finally it was a tie:
Eight to eight! Suddenly, my classmate and I started arguing because of a foul, I am a very strong person, but he is not weak, and the consequences of the two of them are unimaginable! The two of us almost got into a fight, after which a middle-aged man wearing a white shirt, brown shorts, white hair between his hair, and slightly thin cheeks said that my classmate had fouled the ball!
But my classmate was still a little unconvinced, and then the middle-aged man stepped aside, carefully rummaged through his bag, looked at it, looked for it, and said in front of my classmate: "This is my referee card, I am the deputy referee of the Xiamen Sports Association, I am the host of basketball, I just finished hosting a ball game yesterday, and I just put the card in my bag today!" This middle-aged man's move surprised everyone present!
Immediately after that, my classmates no longer cared, and they were convinced by what the deputy referee said! After that, the middle-aged man said, "I'm a referee for you next to me, and my physical strength is not good, just let me rest!"
That day, we had a great time in this ball game, but my classmates and I were so cold! After that day, the referee called me aside and said, "Talk to your classmates, it's just a ball game!"
I listened to him!
On the way home, I said to my classmates, "I'm sorry! Today's incident is my fault, please understand!
The classmate said, "The main mistake today is on me, I shouldn't have bothered so much!" "After that, my relationship with him not only did not become bad, but got better and better!
Much of the credit for this goes to the middle-aged referee ......
It was a strange referee who taught me tolerance, and it was he who taught me how to get along with people! Thank you! Tolerance is a cup of hot tea in the cold of winter; It is a sentence of comfort when you are sad; It's a tissue in the hot summer!
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It has been said, "Tolerance is a fragrant flower, and friendship is its sweet fruit." "Someone said:
Tolerance is the bridge, and trust is its cornerstone. It has been said, "Tolerance is a sweet spring, and the heart is the object of its watering."
I said, "Tolerance is a multicolored garland of truth and trust." "The sky tolerates the clouds, and then it has the clouds.
The river tolerates the stream, and then it has the vastness. The land tolerated the seeds, and only then did they have a good harvest. Life tolerates regrets and has success.
Tolerance is both a virtue and a self-cultivation. The world is beautiful because of tolerance, and life is comfortable.
One thing I will never forget is one day during the winter vacation, I was out with my classmates, and the car was so crowded that I was almost out of breath. Suddenly, the driver came to an emergency brake, and I stepped on a girl my age. I hurriedly said:
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to. She said, "It's okay, it's just a step, it's not a big deal, you don't have to care."
I want to punch the ticket, but I can't reach it, which girl says, "I'll do it for you?" I said, "Thank you." "No thanks, no thanks, no more effort.
I admire her. We are all the same age, why can she tolerate others, but we can't, if someone steps on me, I will definitely scold him for being a bloody dog. But from today onwards, I will not be unrelenting, because I have learned tolerance, which is the traditional virtue of the Republic of China, but now life is getting better and better, and people have long forgotten tolerance.
What we lack is tolerance, which may no longer be in our hearts, but we can get it back. Because tolerating oneself is not arrogant, self-righteous, and not indulging one's mistakes at will, but maintaining a calm and rational attitude in the face of life; It is an open-minded generosity in the face of unsatisfactory life; It is a good attitude to face the detachment of setbacks in life and look at them calmly. Without this mentality, without this calmness and sanity, it is difficult for us to imagine the success he can take; Without this magnanimity, it is hard to imagine that he would be tolerant of others.
Turgenev said: "He who does not tolerate others does not deserve to be tolerated by others, but who can say that he does not need tolerance?" "Tolerance is the key that opens the door to reconciliation between people, and it is an important cultivation for everyone.
Tolerance is by no means an innate disposition, but the result of nurture, which requires us to learn, to experience, to perceive, and to show courage and wisdom to think and do.
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