In life, I always feel sorry for my parents, what should I do?

I had almost no problems with my mother and were very harmonious! I admit that I have a bad temper, and sometimes I directly confront my father, but my father has a bad temper either, otherwise, I wouldn't be like this, maybe let him be! Sometimes there are a lot of things to do, and I am irritable, but my father says something that annoys him, so it is difficult to control it, and I say it casually, in fact, I regret it afterwards, after all, my father is over 70 years old, I personally think that my parents raised me young, I should raise them old, in this regard, I don't compare, how much strength and how much strength, as long as the old man speaks, I would rather not eat or drink to satisfy them.

The older I get, the more I feel sorry for my parents, when I was young, I didn't know anything, I didn't like to listen to my parents' criticism, and sometimes I bumped into my parents, and I always didn't work hard enough to study after junior high school, so that my parents were worried. After college, no**, not sports, poor ability to live independently, did not become the pride of parents. After graduating, the decisions of the parents are sometimes blamed on the various things that go wrong at work.

The matter of finding a partner also made my parents anxious for a long time, and I always felt that my parents didn't understand me and would yell at my mother. I didn't become the pride of my parents before, and even if I didn't have any interest in the future, I would have to be my parents' intimate little padded jacket. Treating yourself well and maintaining a healthy body is the greatest responsibility to your parents; Listening to them patiently is the greatest comfort to them.

You have your own ideals, how can you say that life is meaningless. Your life is not a sequel to your parents, and your parents do not have the right to decide your life. Fighting for your ideals is the best way to repay your parents for their nurturing kindness.

Reading is only one of the methods, not the only one.

In the third year of high school, I repeated a year, took the Beijing ordinary second book, studied okay, participated in a lot of activities, and joined the party. After graduating from my senior year this year, my mother was seriously ill last year, and I have been taking care of my mother at home all the time, and I have not considered employment. Then I wanted to take a career exam, but for various reasons, I gave up.

So I decided to take the national exam this year. Suddenly, one day, my mother said to me, it takes twice as much money and time for you to complete something. My dad is a machismo and often quarrels with him because of my mother's affairs, but today because of my mother's eating problem, I misunderstood my father and quarreled with him, and I suddenly felt very guilty after speaking.

Art candidates, the path they chose, my parents didn't agree with it before, but after agreeing, they cared about me and spent a lot of money, ordinary family, my parents only want me to live well, and I will always be responsive, but I haven't passed the joint entrance examination, it seems that I don't want to take the school exam, I don't know what to do, I don't dare to talk about the grades with my family, and I have to smile at school during the day and say to others that it's okay, come back next year. At night, I went back to the rented house outside the school alone, and I hid in the quilt and cried secretly. I didn't know what to do, I felt like I had been failing others, I was sorry for others, I felt incompetent.

This has always been a problem that has plagued me, first of all, when the child was in junior high school, I took my paralyzed mother-in-law and father-in-law to my house and went to work, and I didn't think about the impact on the child's learning. The second is that my mother-in-law died in my house, but his brother said that one of the two old ones, my mother is my father is yours, I am very angry and too domineering, and the cute person is honest and has nothing to say; My father-in-law was still living at my house, and I eventually fell ill. Now my parents need to be taken care of, but now my body is not good, my mother takes care of me and I don't let me serve, my heart is sad, I feel very sorry for my mother, I feel very guilty, uncomfortable.

I want to go abroad, my parents say what I want to do, they support it, even if the family conditions are average, but I haven't improved my English for more than half a year, and I have some diseases for some reasons, and I may have to go long-term, spend a lot of money, and I don't dare to tell them, and I see that my mother is in a good mood, and I really feel sorry for them.

I think in my concept, my parents are naturally for my good, but they are ordinary people, there must be good and bad, so I actually need a period of separation from my parents, independent thinking and personality, it is very important, and I am responsible for my own decisions, just fine.