Why is it said that it is rare to have a confidant in life?

When you are sad and crying, when you are lonely and helpless, when you are at a loss, the first person you think of is your confidant. Whether you are of the same sex or the opposite sex, there is no age boundary, and you may not see each other often, but your confidant will appear in front of you at the right time and use spring breeze words to sweep away the haze in your heart.

The confidant holds up an umbrella for you, a big umbrella to shelter from the wind and rain, and you will be unscathed no matter how strong the wind and rain outside the umbrella are; The confidant gives you a pair of strong and broad shoulders, where you can cry and laugh to your heart's content; A confidant is like a well, a well into which you pour out your pain and sorrow, and he will always contain your joys, angers, sorrows, and sorrows. The confidant stretches out a pair of warm and powerful hands to you, no matter how big the wind and waves are, you are fearless, and no matter how many tribulations you can deal with calmly; The confidant silently guards you with his heart, he grieves your sorrow, suffers your pain, laughs at your laughter, and is happy with your happiness.

The eyes and heart of the confidant can read you, he can pass through the layers of masks, enter your heart as if he were in a no-man's land, and use a language that you and he understands to have a soul dialogue and communication with you. Therefore, the communication between confidants does not need to be disguised, no masks, you can indulge yourself in front of him, he cheers for you when he is right, he doesn't care about you when he says wrong, you can be a migratory tired bird, you can be a wandering bottle, you can be tired, helpless, escaped, lazy, and he is the night that can accept you, and it is the space for you to recover your energy.

No matter how strong a person is, there is a fragile side, and a person is always unable to bear a lot of pain, so we need such a person to help us spiritually, and we look forward to a confidant who is in touch with our hearts.

The confidant will not alienate you because of your status, appearance, identity and other changes and so on, he will never leave you, always with you in a timely manner, if we can all have such a confidant, our days will be more full of songs, our lives will be more full of sunshine!

It is rare to have a confidant in life, and it is the most difficult to find a soulmate through the ages.

Because in today's society, everyone lives for their own interests. There are very few true bosom friends, and there are not many like-minded people with them. So it's a great fortune to be able to find such a person in your life.

It is not easy for those who love each other to become husband and wife, how many people can get married smoothly with the person they love the most, since they can't be together they will inevitably break up eventually.

And the person who knows each other: confidants - such a relationship can be maintained for a long time or even forever.

So friendship lasts longer than love, and the longest love is marriage - and that has been sublimated to family affection.

Pick me ...

Love is better than knowing each other, it is to start to be free and Ling'er, although they love each other but do not know each other, they both want to sacrifice themselves to fulfill each other, it seems that for the sake of each other, but they don't know each other's thoughts. Yueru is a confidant of freedom, but the good times don't last long. Only Ah Qi saw through everything.

The more complex a person's life experience is, the more diverse people's views on things and ways of doing things will become, and at this time, it will become more and more difficult to find a person who can share your values, philosophy, behavior, and personality orientation.

People who love each other can attract each other in several ways, but the attraction itself does not mean the value recognition in the heart, so it is easy to love each other, but it is too difficult to know each other. It's better to know each other than to love each other.

When you encounter it one day, you will know it, and you feel that you have not experienced these things, and no matter what others say, you will not know what it is like. To put it simply, things have forced you to a certain point, no one has understood your approach and supported you, no one knows your good suffering, you can't tell anyone, it's boring and boring, don't say the feeling of panic, or the things you like and have a sense of accomplishment no one to share and no one appreciate. You know what people don't care about.

Everyone's concern is what you don't think is necessary. That's when you know. It is better to love each other than to know each other, that is, a person is good to you, but does not think you is good, and is good to you but does not appreciate you.

Think about it, you can talk about everyone you can, your relatives, and your lover.

Brothers can't, for fear of being misunderstood, only confidants can understand themselves.

2. This sentence comes from Lu Xun, saying that it is rare to get a friend with the same heart in life, and if you meet it, you should cherish it.

3. About the author: Lu Xun (September 25, 1881, October 19, 1936), formerly known as Zhou Zhangshou, later renamed Zhou Shuren; The word Yushan, later changed to Yucai, was a native of Huiji County, Shaoxing, Zhejiang, and a great modern Chinese proletarian writer, thinker and revolutionary.

Generally, confidants are of the opposite sex, so it depends on whether you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, and if you have one, you are unwilling to accept the existence of a "confidant", and another situation is that a confidant is above a friend, and a lover is not full, so people who know how to measure can control it well, and it is rare to know that people do not understand.

Getting to know is no longer an easy task.

People are selfish, they have no eternal friends, and they don't have eternal enemies. However, there are also true friendships that are heart-to-heart, but they are also in ancient times, and modern people chase fame and fortune and use each other, not to mention confidants.

Life is rare to have a version of the confidant" This sentence comes from the "Golden Bottle Yin" written by Aixin Jueluo Hongday, and the original text of the poem is:

The world is impermanent, and the cups are drunk. It is rare to have a confidant in life, and you can talk about the past and the present when you push the cup. Translated as:

Many things in the world are difficult to predict and explain, it is better to indulge in fine wine and have fun in time, I drank my beloved Tailang wine cup by glass until I was so drunk that I couldn't see the disturbances of the world. It is difficult for us to meet a few friends who are in love with each other in our lives, to drink together, to talk about the past and the present, and to talk about the world and the world;

The world is impermanent, and the cups are drunk.

It is rare to have a confidant in life, and you can talk about the past and the present when you push the cup.

Vernacular translation: There are many things in the world that are difficult to ** and explain clearly. It's best to indulge in good wine and enjoy the fun in time. I drank my beloved Talang glass by glass until I was too drunk to see the turmoil of the world.

In our lives, it is difficult for us to meet a few friends who are on the same page. They come for drinks and talk about the past and the present.

"The Song of the Golden Bottle".

The world is impermanent, and the cups are drunk.

It is rare to have a confidant in life, and you can talk about the past and the present when you push the cup.