A word about appreciation: Hurry up, I ll hand it in tomorrow

Appreciative education is not praise and encouragement. It is to appreciate the results of the child's behavior in order to reinforce the child's behavior; It is to appreciate the child's behavior process to stimulate the child's interest and motivation; create an environment that indicates the direction of the child's development; Appropriate reminders to enhance the child's psychological experience and correct the child's bad behavior.

After I read "An Unforgettable Sentence", I was very moved and shocked. This is the story of a little girl with a disability: he always has low self-esteem and blames himself for having a cleft lip.

She was often ridiculed by her classmates at school, and he even thought that no one would love her and like her. But in the second grade, she entered the class taught by Mrs. Leonard. Younger students have a "whisper test", and little girls are no exception.

During the test, the teacher whispers a sentence on the podium, and the student repeats it. But the little girl was born deaf and could hardly hear any sound, and she did not dare to say this, for fear that her classmates would laugh at her even more. But it was her turn.

She put her left ear to Mrs. Leonard, and at the same time covered her right ear tightly with her right hand, and then raised her right hand a little so that it was enough to hear the teacher's words, and she waited. Finally, a sentence seemed like a warm beam of sunshine directly to her heart, and the teacher whispered: "I hope you are my daughter!"

She heard it, she wept, she was very surprised. Just because of this sentence, the little girl changed her perspective on life.

After reading this story, I admired Mrs. Leonard very much, and I was glad for that little girl. If she hadn't met the empathetic Mrs. Leonard, imagine what her life path would have been. I think that an ordinary sentence is often ordinary in the eyes of normal people, but in the eyes of a disabled person, it is a beam of sunshine that changes life.

The French thinker Montaigne once said, "The Romans never taught their children what they could learn while they were sitting." ”

The sad parents, in the face of the tragedy of their child's drowning, constantly blamed God, but they never understood that this result was caused by their excessive care for their child.

If you love your children, you should not ban them blindly, but teach them how to protect themselves when playing dangerous games. The more restrictions children are given, the less likely they are to learn the skills to survive and the easier it is for them to live in danger.

The more life experience you give them, the more survival skills you teach them, that's the way to truly love them. Just like the boy in the story, since he likes to play with water, it is better to teach him to swim and show him how to distinguish the ditch and whirlpool in the water.

Children will grow up one day and will have to live independently, so instead of taking them to constantly escape from danger, it is better to teach them how to solve life's problems.

Because they were reluctant to let their children play, the old couple did not let their children play in the water, but when the flood came, the children died because they usually did not touch the water and could not swim.

The old couple complained that it was wrong for God to complain, and it was because of their usual prevention that the child lacked exercise, causing him to lose the chance to escape.

tells the story of an old couple who deprived their children of the opportunity to learn to swim because they loved their son, but instead made the children unable to escape when the flood came, and died in the flood.

Tell us that it is beneficial to cultivate people's autonomy and exercise their true skills, and sometimes overprotection is a kind of spoiling and harming people.

The old couple was afraid that their son would drown and did not let him learn to swim, but when the flood came, the son drowned because he could not swim.

There are two sides to things. A river can be a paradise for children, or it can wash away children who don't know how to swim and bring grief to parents. Parents take great care to protect their children, seemingly to keep their children from harm, but when the crisis really comes, it hurts them, because they grow up in the protection of their parents and do not have the courage to face the crisis and learn how to deal with it.

In the fishing village, the excessive concern of the old couple caused the son's inability to swim, and the flood mercilessly swallowed the child's life. Only for the story.

If the child does not learn to swim, sooner or later he will drown - -

The son wants to swim, and his relatives are afraid of his death, so he is far away. Ten years of the son, the water comes, and the death comes. Blame God for injustice.

Old topic. One word.

Excessive love is actually harmful.

Everyone has a good side and a bad side, but when we are in adversity, the bad side of ourselves will be powered.

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Writer Yang Daxia said that we should appreciate our own merits more.

It is precisely because of this that we must return to the theme, and we must make up our minds every morning to try to have a positive perspective to look at ourselves, to narrow or even ignore the dark side.

You just had a feeling and once wrote a poem, may the Guru submit a piece.

Would love to see the poems you write.

It must be a very touching poem!

You said you just had a feeling, and you once wrote a poem.

I'm interested and want to enjoy your poems.

I just felt it, I once wrote a poem, and I would like to appreciate it and submit it! It's really good to have a good talent.

I'm willing to try it, you can post it.

Father: My dear, I hope you will pay attention to this worst boy in the county, who is a headache for me, and who may throw a stone at you by tomorrow morning, or do something bad, and in any case you will not be able to guard against it.

Stepmom: You're wrong, he's not the worst boy in the county, he's the smartest boy who hasn't found a place to vent his passion.

The father's attitude is actually the same as the mother's starting point, which is to hope that the family will get along in harmony, and the stepmother's approach is whether it is out of love for her husband or love for her children or love for her family, and at this time, a sincere smile, eyes, and this sentence deeply touched the child's heart, for a child who has been neglected all year round, it was instantly touched at this time. And more importantly, the stepmother's step-by-step actions inspired the child. The father may be telling the truth, but Carnegie's inner self-esteem as a child still can't accept it, even if he is very successful later, the stepmother is not completely appreciative education, but the stepmother has given full play to the appreciation education, and the stepmother has always used guidance to motivate Carnegie.

Overall, Carnegie's achievements = well-intentioned guidance + personal talent + hard work.

In fact, any child has the same innate talent as Carnegie, but it needs more guidance, which is important, for example, when we buy goods, sometimes we just know what we need, but we don't know what the items we need, and children are similar, sometimes interest is a momentary thing, fleeting. It is very likely to be stifled in the cradle without the right guidance, and this interest needs the support of the source, and it needs to be discovered, accumulate self-confidence, accumulate motivation, and once successful, the power is endless. And this stepmother happened to do this in this point, and it was more out of her mother's selfless love.

If you don't go out for a walk. You'd think that's the whole world.

God is always taking things away from us. So as to get too much with the reminder.

One of my favorite quotes is my personal signature:

Whoever stops getting better ceases to be good!!

One minute on stage, ten years off stage!

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. (There are no troubles in the world, and even if there are, they are given to themselves.) ）

In fact, our definition of "learning" has always been too narrow, not only the knowledge learned in the classroom and books on campus can be called learning, cultivating hobbies, participating in social practice is actually learning, all channels that can improve self-improvement and personal knowledge are our way of learning.

I remember he said to me: Actually, I am working hard now to plan for a good material foundation in the future, but the purpose of all this is for a better life. I often wonder if those who are retired will lose their way and don't know what to do without their jobs.

But there are also many people who will live a very interesting life, so I think we should also have such a state of life when we are young, constantly trying to learn some new things, regardless of career and money, that is, using those fragmentary time, learning some things that interest us, so that our life will not be boring and monotonous when we are old.

Therefore, learning is endless, not because we can't finish learning the knowledge in this world, but we should always maintain a positive and enterprising mentality, ensure that we are absorbing new nutrients every day, let ourselves grow together with this diversified world, not to be eliminated by the rapid development of society, and not to let our spiritual world collapse. There is no end to learning, you and I go together.