My friend is too stingy to do this

It's not stingy, it can be seen that you are a person with a very sense of boundaries, couples watching movies want romance and a two-person world, but your friend invites you to go with him, it can be seen that he has no such awareness. The most important thing between friends is a sense of boundaries, not just about money. The blurring of boundaries is the pain of most interpersonal interactions.

The establishment of a sense of boundaries requires the support of the other party and the cooperation of each other. If friendship wants to develop for a long time, it needs a sense of boundaries even more. Be sure to communicate first, tell him about the cause and effect of your troubles, if he doesn't understand, either you continue to suffer, or he will worsen.

Your friendship will probably collapse because of something else.

I used to be in high school and a friend was inseparable, we had dinner together, and every time she swiped my card, I was thin-skinned at that time, worried about this and that, and finally reached a hundred yuan, and finally mustered up the courage to ask her for money, but she didn't admit it

I hope you can think about how to deal with these things.

You're informal, your friend is calculating, it's not a circle, don't be hard.

I don't think you should get involved with them, or when you're together, you pay yours, and they both belong to them. I don't quite understand what your friend is doing. But I don't think he really thinks about your situation, that is, a general friend, and there is no need to break up friendship, just get along with you as an ordinary friend.

I think you should communicate well with your friend, because the friendship between you and him has a certain gap, and if you continue to share this kind of financial burden, your friendship with him will slowly fade and collapse. If he still asks you to help you pay for your girlfriend's money after the communication, you should have a choice.

Do you watch movies with him and his girlfriend? You're really awesome, bro.

Yes, this kind of person is too calculating to be a friend.

Generous character is a very good quality, hope lz

Don't let the feeling of discomfort discard this good quality.

LZ can deal with this situation in two ways:

If this friend cherishes your friendship and is sincere to you, then I think.

LZ can properly tolerate this character of friends, in addition, the long-term way should be not to owe each other, LZ

Don't be generous everywhere, that will put pressure on your friends;

If this friend is a greedy person who doesn't know how to reciprocate, then I don't think he will be a person who cherishes friendship, for this kind of person, lz

You don't have to be so generous, get along with each other, or stay away from this person.

P.S. Be generous to the generous, and be generous to the cherished.

I wish LZ to figure it out soon and be happy every day.

Hehe, now that you have recognized your own problems, there is no problem. People's personality is difficult to change, don't try to change your boyfriend's personality, that will only increase trouble. At the same time, make it clear to him how you feel, so that he understands you and does not try to change you.

Two people have to be tolerant of each other in order to last long.