When you go to college, how can you make the relationship in the dormitory more harmonious

So, in fact, you didn't have any friends since you were a child, home?

I've always felt that there's no such thing as not talking, it's just that there's no right topic.

In fact, like at the beginning, I can talk about some novel and outstanding news every day for everyone to hear, and after a long time, I will basically remember that this person loves to talk about the news, and it's not bad. To be honest, in a society like now, many male students live in the same dormitory, playing games, which is a topic, and talking about women and sisters is the second topic, but the phenomenon of getting better and better is to go to dinner together, and then take a slow walk to chat, play games, and exercise.

In fact, in a new environment, no one knows anyone, they are all people from other provinces, living in the same dormitory, more or less will be roommates are "their own people", there is no feeling of snubbing people, unless you are a person who behaves badly.

I forgot to mention that in fact, men who smoke and drink are the easiest to communicate, but if they don't smoke and drink less, it's nothing.

Actually, I don't know how to say it, so let it be, because that's how our dorm came about.

Find some common topics. If you live together, you can go shopping together and take classes together. Sometimes you still need to be proactive, waiting is sometimes not a good way, and there is nothing wrong with changing your lifestyle.

In fact, if you talk more, the relationship may not be good, so let's go with the flow!

But I think that in college, your solitude does not mean loneliness, I will eat alone, go to the library alone to enrich my thoughts, and walk alone on the way to class and listen to my favorite **. I don't know if it's going to be my four years of college, but I'm enjoying it right now and we're still going to live in the moment.

Finally, I want to say don't want to change the dormitory or anything because of a conflict, because there will still be contradictions after changing the dormitory, and we have to learn to solve it, and the dormitory relationship also needs a run-in period I obviously feel that the relationship between our dorm in the second semester of my sophomore year is much easier than before, and everyone is slowly accepting each other

Many people may want to meet roommates who are compatible with them when they are in college, and I was the same at the beginning, but this is a difficult thing to achieve. Everyone has their own sexual search and preferences, and even if we find out that the roommates are still good at first, there will definitely be some minor problems after getting along for a long time. And then after a period of running-in, the process is definitely uncomfortable, but we still have to learn to face it.

I think it's more appropriate for a student in a university dormitory to keep the whole dormitory quiet after a break from rest. Because as a big collective, who will respect others will achieve a better effect of getting along, and everyone will be more united and respect each other. Therefore, it is very important to learn to communicate with others more and respect others, and you must learn more from professional teachers and master the correct communication methods.

Learning from the teacher and asking questions if you don't understand is the best way to learn knowledge. The most important point in learning is to ask more questions, so students who can often seek the support of teachers and ask more questions from teachers are characterized by their tendency to like to ask questions, so the effect of their wandering spirit learning is also obvious. Because professional teachers are close to us, there are teachers who are proficient in various subjects in the daily learning classes of students, which is also the most beneficial condition and must be fully used.

Many students do not know how to actively ask questions with teachers, and always learn by themselves, in fact, this is not right, it is also very important to absorb knowledge, and their own efforts are one aspect, but if they make up for their own shortcomings by using the knowledge of others, it will be more effective. When some students get out of class, they will run to the teacher and ask the teacher their questions, and the teacher will explain carefully. In fact, this way is very good, students who are good at asking the teacher, they are very positive and optimistic in terms of expression ability and personality, and they can get along with the teacher and classmates very well.

Ask each other questions, dare to ask, dare to speak, understand your own shortcomings from the questions, and acquire knowledge, but you will remember better.

Restrain your little temper, don't do everything by your own temperament at home to have parents accustomed to you, a little unsatisfactory may blame your parents in every way, but everyone is equal at school, no one will take care of you like your parents. Don't use the good or bad background of your parents as a weapon to suppress others, this is a behavior that only naïve children have. 2. Don't melt people who don't match the first impression aura This is my own personal experience, thinking that trying to get in touch will improve the relationship, but this is completely whimsical.

Don't compromise yourself to hold on to the relationship. When encountering people with incompatible aura, the first reaction is to stay away. 3. Say what you have to say, don't hold it in your heartSome people don't like to make sense of it, and they often suffer dumb losses.

For example, if the other person does something that makes you unhappy, then you have to express your dissatisfaction. For example, if you don't like others to use your own things, you have to say it, otherwise others will not realize their mistakes and continue to do so. At this time, you are angry, and others still say that you are inexplicable and not a loss.

4. Be a team and don't be too selfish, remember that my college roommate is different from others. She is hot when everyone else is cold, and she is cold when everyone else is hot. I think everyone knows the weather in Suzhou, and the weather in the south is not too cold.

At that time, it was about ten degrees of weather, this roommate said that she was cold, and then immediately went to turn on the air conditioner, without asking our opinions, and at one o'clock in the evening, everyone else was hot and difficult to fall asleep before turning off the air conditioner, but the next day people actually came to a sentence "Yesterday was not a little off the air conditioner, turned off really early". This is obviously the selfishness of loving only oneself and not considering other people.

1.College dorms are like opening a blind box, and you don't know what kind of people you're going to be with. This can be seen as a training camp before you officially go out into the world. You're going to grow up with several people and learn how to get along quickly when they're immature.

2.Focus on the weaknesses of human nature. Human nature has a lot of weaknesses, and everyone has some.

It's not that someone is bad, but human nature is **. For example, most people will be vain, jealous, and so on. You may have a good family, but if you spend lavishly, others will think you're showing off, even though you've lived that way before.

What seems normal to you may be another in the eyes of others. Again, there are grades and so on, it's all the same. Actually, this is normal.

You need to pay proper attention to the feelings of the people around you so that it doesn't hurt too much.

3.If you do have roommates who are difficult to get along with, don't push yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together.

It's fate to be able to get along. But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it.

If you push yourself too hard, think about it every day, and be overly sensitive, you will become more and more uncomfortable. Just jump out and don't take it too seriously.

4.The human heart is a bottomless pit. This is true not only for roommates, but for anyone.

You don't want to be kind to others, and others will treat you just as well. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but stick to the bottom line. Only by having the right expectations for people can you not let yourself be disappointed by expecting too much.

When I first started college, everyone's question was "how can I fit into the group", "I can't identify with some of them, and no one understands me". "If you don't have any special skills and no hobbies, then you can go study, and when your grades are good, someone will naturally surround you." That's just the way it is

Here's a little story of my own, when I first started college, everyone's question was "how do I fit in", "I can't identify with some people, and no one understands me". I was no exception, struggling with relationship problems, and I sought help from a teacher at the time, whose words almost changed the course of my life. She said

"If you don't have any special skills and no hobbies, then you can go study, and when your grades are good, someone will naturally surround you." That's just the way it is

Communicate more with excellent seniors and teachers, and many questions will suddenly become clear. Don't complain to your peers, after all, the cognitive level is about the same, and the perspective is similar, which will only pass negative emotions to each other. Being polite is a small thing, but it's important.

Don't be a stretch party, be polite to everyone around you (including teachers, classmates, canteen staff, cleaning staff, etc.), there is no conflict between being casual and polite, pay attention to your speech and behavior, and people who are impolite will lose a lot of opportunities.

Most people in college will lose contact after graduation, and there are only three or two friends left, wasting time on dormitory conflicts, wasting time on people who disagree with their views, and sorry for the time they wasted after graduation. In addition, being able to tolerate a wide variety of people is also a necessary course for growth. Stay away from dormitory contradictions, and you can do the same at your university!

Interpersonal relationships run through our lives, whether it is social fear or social cow, having a correct understanding of interpersonal relationships and developing good habits will not only allow you to have noble people to help, but also harvest unexpected.

Our values and outlook on life change a lot at university, depending on the friends and teachers around us, as well as other social relationships. We should be sincere and grateful to these people, share valuable information with each other, work together for our own goals, sincerely hope that each other is good, do not have jealousy, suspicion, narrow-mindedness, and your friends will change for the better.

1.Generally, there are 4 or 6 people in the dormitory, and the usual living habits and learning attitudes are different, and some people may not be used to it. In fact, we should consider it from another angle and try to empathize with each other, so as to avoid the formation of contradictions and balances.

2.Participating in sports activities together can make each other's friendship more difficult and cautious. In addition, everyone sweats on the playground, and laughter everywhere can exercise and make the friendship between roommates more friendly and intimate.

3.In fact, Wang Jingnian's college life is not long or short, and everyone should try to learn to care about others when they usually eat and live together. Usually, when a roommate is sick, he has to help check on it, and he has to help his roommate bring breakfast, fetch water.

In addition, others will actually help themselves appropriately, and only by helping each other can we increase the friendship between each other.