My story with my husband, my story with my husband

Hey, my situation seems to be very similar to you, my husband also has three younger brothers, the youngest is now working in our city, is 23 years old, no matter how to dress and eat, or what to do, it is my husband's bag, if it is a day or two is fine, but it is often like this, he also has a job, but every time I go out, I obediently let my husband pay, and my husband pays for clothes, and even goes to the supermarket to buy things, sees a doctor and takes medicine and also makes my husband pay, to be honest, I will not feel good every time I do this.

In fact, it's not that we're stingy, if you occasionally act like this, there's nothing to say, after all, it's a younger brother, he doesn't hurt him, he doesn't take care of it, but it makes you feel that he is ruthless. But he's so old, isn't it too much for you to even have to take care of food and clothing?

I've been bothered about these things, but now I've figured it out, that's his own brother, how to say that we are also elders, there is no need to compete with him for any favor, my husband is good to him, and it's good for himself, and his brother will get married sooner or later, and it won't be your husband's turn to take care of it, right? And he's still quite lonely outside, so he won't lose anything by taking care of it, isn't he!

I'm like this now, I want to open it, in fact, women often think more things than men, so I care more about many things, and you try to treat him as your brother, maybe you will have a different mentality.

It's you who are too selfish, his brother, don't listen to what you say, people only have blood relations, real relatives.

If you really want to live with him for the rest of your life, you should learn to love his family. Got it.

It's your fault, you don't have mercy, what would you do if he was your own brother?

You have met a good husband, a very good husband, what he does is admirable, you should cherish him.

His younger brother is only 21 years old, not very old, he always feels that he has a reliance in front of his brother, only relatives will be like this, it is not easy to work outside, it is necessary to take care of each other, you buy things for your husband and don't buy them for him, how uncomfortable he feels do you know? It's not a question of how much money you have, you make him feel abandoned, your husband thinks of this, he is a kind person and you are happy.

Listen to your husband! Don't break his heart, if you do too much, you will lose him, don't lose more than you gain.

My brother-in-law is also your family! How nice it would be to take care of him like a sister! When he has a girlfriend, it's inconvenient for you to take care of it, you say? Good people are rewarded, and your compassion and kindness will be rewarded.

It shows that your husband has a good heart, and he can't be wrong with you in the future.

After all, the younger brother is already 21 years old, and the elder brother can't take care of it for a few years, so he doesn't have to worry about the elder brother when he gets married. Some will lose, and some will gain. If you were asked to choose someone who was good to others and good to you, who could live a lifetime with you, or a husband who was only good to him and would not hesitate to have an affair if he felt good, which one would you choose?

I guess you also fell in love with your husband at the beginning.

Don't dwell on it. Cherish it.

Your husband has a good heart and should cherish it. Ask, will you take care of your own brother like your husband?

You should reflect on it and put yourself in your shoes.

Don't be too selfish in life, your husband is very humane.

I used to think that love and marriage should rely on my own efforts, but then there were too many changes that made me almost lose confidence in the future, since I met my wife, I believe in marriage, both personalities, family background, her parents are very in line with my requirements, we met on a whim.

Tell me about my husband and me.

When I was 27 years old, I also fell in love a few times in the first two years, and they broke up after talking, inexplicably, sometimes I ask myself, don't I have a marriage? Am I ugly, or am I not doing a good job?

But if you think about it, the work and looks are okay, why?

Is marriage predestined?

Once again, by chance, a friend invited me to play together, and I should give myself a break when I was busy with work, and I came here to know that my friend wanted to calculate the marriage, and asked me, I said okay, and when I got here, I saw a lot of people queuing, and after waiting for about 15 minutes, we finally arrived.

Friends first, friends finished, I asked, how about it? She said that it was quite accurate, and I was also curious, so I said, then I will count it too. I remember that I gave my palmistry and birthday to the master, and briefly talked about my situation, I wanted to ask about the marriage, and he said to me, you have been in love before and it is not your positive fate, and your positive fate will be introduced to you, older than you, in your southeast, and it will meet this year.

I asked, "What does my positive relationship look like?" He said that he looks average, has a good family, and has a good career.

In fact, I was wondering in my heart, is it really so accurate? I'll check back later, and thank you if it's time.

I didn't expect that after a while, a friend really introduced me to someone, and I had a strange feeling when I saw the boy, but I didn't show it, so I pretended not to like it very and wanted to see the boy's reaction.

The man's family, work, and personality are all very good, and they chatted briefly when they met for the first time. From time to time, I asked if I had time, invited me to dinner, watched movies, took me out to play, after 3 months of contact, I saw that he was really good to me, I promised him to watch everywhere, and after more than half a year, he proposed to me, and my heart was pounding. Reminds me of what my master said.

When I talked to my husband about this, I realized that in fact, I should have missed it with him once, and my friend introduced the object, and I refused at the time, because someone was chasing me at that time, so I didn't think about it, and if I agreed last time, maybe I would really miss it.

Later, I found out that it was in the local area, and the local name was Master Zhang Zhiji, and his full name was Zhang Daoju - you can search and see, now that we have been married for two years, we already have a baby, and we are very happy, so I think marriage is destined.