What was your husband doing when you gave birth

I gave birth to a child relatively quickly, from a stomachache to only four hours after birth, my husband is a soldier, I came back to accompany me 3 days in advance, I gave birth to a child just in time for noon when my husband didn't eat and didn't even drink saliva and stayed with me, afraid that I didn't have the strength to feed me fruits, porridge, chocolate and water to drink, and carried me to the delivery bed and gave birth to the bed, because it was a smooth birth on the day I went home, and then went up to the 5th floor, I didn't shout pain or pinch him, not distressed him, it was pinching him and I couldn't borrow any strength, so I put it on the side of the bed. At that time, I was still very comforted, but when I was pregnant, he was in the army and couldn't accompany me, and he stayed at home for 17 days after birth, maybe he felt guilty about me! Maybe you're too used to your husband, maybe he doesn't know that you hurt so much, if you tell him how you felt at the time, I don't think he can still play with his mobile phone, you see why don't you tell your husband directly about your grievances when you communicate with us now?

I told my husband all my feelings, my husband feels very sorry for me, no matter what a man says, he is also careless, a woman must learn to make her husband feel distressed, and if she is not distressed, she must tell him that you have to feel sorry for me, I am very uncomfortable, I am very hard, if you don't feel sorry for me, I will be sad, coax him to get used to feeling sorry for you. Give it a try! Your husband must love you!

Hehe, maybe it feels different, right? Some are so nervous that they spend time outside the delivery room, and some hammer their heads and pat their chests for not being able to share in the critical moment, your husband may feel that he can't help at this moment, so he has to play with his mobile phone to pass the time, because he is in a hurry.

There's no way around that.,There's no use worrying.,Boys do have children in women and don't seem to be able to help much.。

To be considerate of him, he is also nervous, and there is no way.

My sister delivered me, it was supposed to be a caesarean section the next day, but it began to have labor pains at more than 1 o'clock in the morning that day, and my sister was on duty at the hospital at 3 o'clock, and she gave birth smoothly at 8 o'clock, and my family was with me to give birth, and my husband felt terrified and did not dare to enter the delivery room to watch the delivery.

At this time, the man can do nothing but hope that the mother and child are safe.

Giving birth to a child is a very difficult and regretful process, which not only requires women to experience physical pain, but also needs to take on various responsibilities after childbirth, among which the husband's responsibility cannot be ignored. However, in real life, there are many women who are disappointed with their husbands' performance during the childbearing process.

First of all, many women have to endure great pain during the childbirth process, and they sometimes feel very inadequate for the companionship and attention of their husbands. The pain of childbirth makes women physically and mentally exhausted, and they want to be comforted and encouraged by their husbands, but many men do not know how to express their concern and care for their wives, and even have nothing to do or are not around. Naturally, women are disappointed with these performances.

Secondly, the baby after giving birth needs great care and pampering, and the role of the husband is also crucial. However, in reality, there are many men who skip the pole of childcare and refuse to take responsibility for themselves, so that women need to bear more pressure and burden. These performances make women feel disappointed and frustrated, and indirectly lead to conflicts and disagreements between husband and wife.

Finally, women after childbirth need all aspects of care and attention, which includes both physical and psychological attention. However, in reality, there are many men who don't understand these and don't realize that they should take on these responsibilities, so that women are lost and helpless. Although this kind of performance cannot directly harm the woman's body, it will also make the woman lonely and helpless.

To sum up, childbearing is a difficult task that requires the cooperation and support of both husband and wife. If husbands can't take responsibility for themselves, then women will also feel disappointed and frustrated. Therefore, we should encourage husbands and wives to support each other, share family responsibilities, and create a better life together.

<> welcoming a new life is a joy for two people.

<>As a husband of Zhibu, you must feel sorry for your wife who has children for herself.

So the wife is about to give birth, what can the husband do in addition to being in a hurry, looking at the phone, and being in a daze?