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Parents should not delay their parents' orders, do not be lazy, parents must listen to their parents' responsibilities, they must be obedient, winter is warm, summer is cold, morning is provincial, dusk is fixed, they must be told, but they must face each other, there is a permanent job, there is no change, although it is small, do not be good at it, do not be good at it, do not hide it privately, do it privately, hurt what relatives like, force for what relatives hate, be careful to go, hurt relatives, worry about virtue, love me, filial piety, why is it difficult, hate me, filial piety.
Relatives have been admonished, more pleasant, soft, soft, admonished, reprimanded, crying, tart, no complaints, relatives have diseases, medicine first, day and night, do not leave the bed, mourn for three years, often sad, change the residence, wine and meat, mourn the funeral, sacrifice sincerity, the deceased, like life.
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Parents should not delay their responses, and parents should not be lazy in their actions.
Parents must listen respectfully and obey their responsibilities.
Winter is warm, summer is cold, morning is provincial, and dusk is fixed.
If you go out, you must tell you, but you must face each other, and there will be no change in your business.
Although the matter is small, don't be good at it, and don't be good at it.
Although the object is small, don't hide it privately, hide it privately, and be sad.
What relatives like, power for have, relatives hate, do for it.
There are injuries, relatives are worried, morality is injured, and relatives are ashamed.
Dear to me, filial piety, dear to hate me, filial piety.
I have had a counsel to make it more pleasant and soft.
If you don't admonish you, you can re-admonish you, cry with the tart, and have no complaints.
If you have a disease, you should try the medicine first, and you will not leave the bed day and night.
After three years of mourning, he often mourns, and his residence has become drunk.
The funeral is full of sacrifices, and the dead are like life.
Translations. Parents should call in a timely manner, not slowly. Parents should do things immediately, and they should not delay or be lazy.
We should listen respectfully to what our parents teach us about how to behave in others. When parents rebuke a lesson, they should accept it with humility and respect.
Serve your parents with care and consideration, warm the bed for your parents when it is cold in winter, and make a bed for your parents before going to bed in summer. When you get up in the morning, you should first visit your parents and say hello to them. Waiting for parents to sleep peacefully at night.
When you go out, you must tell your parents where you are going, and when you return home, you should also report to your parents in person to give them peace of mind. In daily life and rest, we must maintain a regular routine, do things in a regular manner, and do not arbitrarily change the career that has been passed down from generation to generation.
Even if it is a trivial matter, you can't make your own decisions and not tell your father. If you act willfully, it will be detrimental to your duty as a child and an act of unfilial piety.
Even if the public property is small, it should not be put away privately and stand for yourself. If this is the case, there is a lack of morality, and the parents must be very sad to know about it.
Parents should try their best to prepare the things that parents like; Things that parents dislike should be carefully removed.
Take care of your body and don't let it hurt and worry your parents. We must pay attention to our own character cultivation, and we must not do things that violate morality and disgrace our parents.
When our parents love us, filial piety is not difficult to do; When our parents don't like us, or when we discipline us too harshly, we are just as filial, and we can also reflect on ourselves, understand our parents' intentions, and strive to change and do better, this kind of filial piety is the most valuable.
Parents should be persuaded to correct their mistakes. When persuading, the attitude should be sincere, and the voice should be soft and pleasant.
If parents do not listen to the advice, find an appropriate time to continue the persuasion; If our parents still do not accept it, we should weep bitterly and beg them to change their ways, even if they are beaten.
When parents are sick, children should take care of them with all their hearts, and (if they are seriously ill) serve day and night without leaving the bed.
When parents die, they must keep filial piety for three years, and they must always remember the kindness of their parents. During the period of filial piety, the place where he lived was also changed to simplicity, and he abstained from alcohol and meat.
The funeral of parents should be handled in accordance with etiquette, not sloppy, and sincere when worshipping. Treat your deceased parents with the same respect as when you were alive.
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Original text] There is a wound in the body, a family is worried, a virtue is injured, and a family is ashamed.
Dear to me, filial piety, dear to hate me, filial piety.
There has been a bend in the heart, and the admonition is more pleasant, and the voice is soft.
If you don't admonish you, you can re-admonish you, cry with the tart, and have no complaints.
If we are unwell or injured, we will worry about our parents. If there is a deficiency in virtue, it will make the parents feel embarrassed.
My parents like me, and it's not difficult to be filial. My parents don't like me, but I can still do my filial piety, that's commendable!
If the parents are at fault, the child should patiently persuade them to make amends. When persuading, the attitude must be pleasant, and the voice must be soft.
If your parents are not receptive, wait until you are in a good mood. If the parents still don't listen, they will cry and plead, even if they are whipped for it, they will not complain.
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Out is out.
Brother Tao Friendship, Brother Tao Gong, Brother Harmony, Filial Piety in the middle.
Property, resentment, resentment, forbearance, and self-indulgence.
Translation: When brothers and sisters should love their brothers and sisters, and those who are brothers and sisters should know how to respect their brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters can get along in harmony, the family is harmonious, parents will naturally be happy, and filial piety is among them.
If you don't get along with others and don't care about your possessions, resentment can't arise. Words can be tolerant, say more good things, don't say bad things, hold back angry words, unnecessary conflicts, resentment and things will naturally disappear. (Words are the door of good and evil.)
The four subjects of Confucius are: virtue, speech, political affairs, and literature. This shows the importance of words.
Or eat or sit and walk the elders before the young.
Long call people is to call people on behalf of people who are not there, and they are coming.
Translation: A good life education should be cultivated from an early age; Whether you are seated or walking, you should be humble and courteous, and the elders should be orderly, so that the older ones come first, and the younger ones come last.
If the elder has something to call someone, he should summon him on his behalf, and if that person is not there, he should take the initiative to ask what is the matter? If you can help, you can help, and when you can't help, you will tell you.
Don't call the elder, don't call the elder, don't show it.
The road encounters a long time, the disease tends to be long, the long is speechless, and the retreat is respectful.
Ride off the horse, get off the car, and wait for more than 100 steps.
Translation: To address the elders, you must not call them by their names, but in front of the elders, you must be humble and polite, and you must not show off your talents;
When you meet an elder on the road, you should say hello to you, and when the elder is fine, you should respectfully step back and stand aside and wait for the elder to leave. @
Ancient Rite: Whether riding a horse or riding a car, the elders should dismount or get off the car to greet them on the road, and wait until the elders have left a little farther, about 100 steps, before leaving.
The elderly, do not sit, the elderly sit, sit, sit.
It is not advisable to keep a low voice before honoring the elder, but it is not appropriate.
Translation: When the elder is standing, the younger should stand with him, and he should not sit on his own.
When talking to the elder, the voice should be soft and moderate, and the volume is too low for people to hear clearly, which is also inappropriate.
Advance must be tending to retreat, retreat must be late, and do not move when asked.
Fathers are like fathers, brothers are brothers.
Translation: If you want to go to your superior, you should move forward quickly, and when you go back, you must be a little slower to be polite. When the elders ask questions, they should listen intently, and their eyes should not be looking from side to side.
Treat parents and grandparents, such as adoptive fathers, uncles, uncles, uncles, fathers-in-law, grandfathers, maternal grandfathers, great-grandfathers, maternal great-grandfathers, etc., as filial piety and respect as their own biological fathers; Treat your brothers, such as cousins, cousins, clan brothers, etc., with the same affection and respect as your own siblings.