My friend is gone, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-02-11
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Kindness.. I just graduated from junior high school. It's been 3 years since I graduated.

    Now read high 3 no

    When I first entered high school, I was reluctant to be a good friend in junior high school.

    When I was in high school military training, I cried and called ** to tell her that I was sad now.

    But after all, we all have to grow up.

    The road ahead is all on your own. You can thank your good brother for having been with you for such a long time in junior high school. But.. High school is a new beginning. No matter how introverted your personality is, you have to go out into society.

    You can choose to play ** in your free time or ask your good brother to hang out with.

    Time has passed. You'll have less and less contact with your classmates in junior high school, and then you'll find new friends in high school. When you graduate from high school, you will be super reluctant to be a friend in high school?

    Love.. There are too many differences to go through in life, may I call you a little brother?

    Brother, don't immerse yourself too much in the past, we're all young. The future is too bright.

    Take every step of the way now and grab a friend who really deserves your good to him..!

    The above is what I have walked through the high school entrance examination. Hurry up and get a little experience from the college entrance examination. Hope you can use it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time changes, you can contact him more, if you see his attitude towards you, not as enthusiastic as before, then. Hehe, fate has arrived, it's useless for you to work hard.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Contact more, remember: there is a confidant in the sea, if the end of the world is next to each other, don't worry about the road ahead without a confidant, and no one in the world knows you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think he'll feel the same way you pull too! It's better to say it, both of them are so uncomfortable! Constant contact, friendship! It needs to be built and consolidated! Come on! Hold on to friends, because it's really not easy to have a friend!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Old friends are gone, and new friends will come back!

    If he's gone, you won't have only one friend for the rest of your life!

    Also, study, chic to put your mind on these issues! ยท

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As the saying goes, there is no banquet that will not be dispersed, so contact it often! You all have your own way to go! There's a lot of time to be together in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To deliberately forget is to forget.

    Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hide it in a beautiful place in your heart......

    So enough is enough, don't hurt yourself when you forget.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't look at things too pessimistically!! The world is actually very beautiful!!

    When you're unhappy, change your perspective and you'll have a different mood.

    Hope you're happy!! Fun ** World!!

    Feel your surroundings with your heart, in fact, you are very happy!! Friends are just you ignoring.

    I've used this phrase n times!! As it is oneself originality, it is the deepest feeling

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Think about whether it's your own problem, be brave, and talk to them

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find the reason in yourself, whether you are not good, or talk to her well, don't be pessimistic.

    There's always a way to fix things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, you don't have to be so pessimistic, although your friends have left you and are injured outside, but home can still make you feel warm, friends can make friends again, and they don't have a good vision when they leave.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Friends on that side?

    If you are a very important friend, you should reconcile with your friend

    You've asked like that, I think you still want to reconcile, don't you?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Apologize, as long as friendship exists, I believe that your friends will come back, because friendship is long-lasting. It doesn't matter if you have more or fewer friends, the key is to have good friends, don't let yourself lose another friend. Come on.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What's there? There is no such thing as a feast!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Time can dilute everything

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no need to cry, people cannot always be together with each other, even if they are parents and brothers, husbands and wives cannot be together at any time. It is normal for Zheng to hold the separation, and with the separation, there is the joy of seeing each other next time. Where you don't meet in life, there is no feast in the world that will not be separated.

    Divide and combine, merge and divide, is an important part of life, you value love and righteousness, reluctant to leave friends, people sigh. But on the other hand, consider the trip, you don't seem strong enough, you haven't fully understood the gathering and dispersion of life, be strong, not only to be a man, but also to like not to be so sentimental, life is ordinary, sentimentality breaks people's intestines. Be optimistic about everything in life and be a free and easy person!

    Happy to you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Friends left, I was very sad, Liang He made me feel that I must adjust my mentality, my friend Zhihui left, there is always a time to get together, then you can make an appointment to play often**, send a message, I think communication is very developed now, so there is no need to be so difficult to answer.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What to do if your friend leaves me and is sad. If your friend has left you, there is a special reason. You can continue to make new friends.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    We all wish we could have lifelong friends, but we miss out on a lot of friendships in the process. ......In my own experience, I have been deeply impressed by the following regretful friendships: breaking a friendship because of separation, giving up a friendship because of misunderstandings, and losing a friendship because of missing out.

    1. A friendship was broken because of separation.

    It was very nice to have a playmate as a child. But at that time, I was still young and didn't know what friendship was. If the two of us can be together, we will definitely make a beautiful friendship when we grow up.

    But because we were separated from each other and no longer in touch, our friendship was broken, which left me with a lot of regrets.

    2. Gave up a friendship because of a misunderstanding.

    I had a good relationship with a good friend. However, because of a misunderstanding, a conflict arose between us. ......Because we didn't handle each other properly, we were separated, and a friendship that should have been achieved was abandoned.

    In retrospect, I felt very sorry for myself and ruined myself. If we had tried to keep it a little longer, we would have been able to continue to be good friends......

    3. Lost a friendship because of a miss.

    When I was in school, I admired a classmate in my neighboring class and wanted to make friends with him, and we had established a certain relationship.

    If we continue like this, we should be able to build friendships. ......However, due to graduation and further education, we missed each other and never kept in touch again, and our friendship was lost because of this.

    The above lost friendships have left me with very deep regrets. From this, I also deeply realized that it is difficult to find a confidant and cherish it when I meet a confidant.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    1. Mourn the loss of friendship. The loss of a best friend can be overwhelmingly painful. If you don't be honest about your feelings, it will be harder for you to come out of your grief.

    So, face the disappointment and pain in your heart and allow yourself to mourn the lost friendship. Adjust your mood regularly and release your love buds. If you want to cry, cry out quickly.

    If you feel angry, vent it in a constructive way.

    2. Seek support. You can't get through it on your own. You need to rely on people who really care about you and understand your pain.

    So, talk to your parents, siblings, or other friends (people who don't associate with your best friends). Try to be as honest as possible about your true feelings and ask for support. Listening patiently is a form of support, as is helping you to forget your worries for a while.

    3. Officially bury this friendship. Writing down your loss can help you move on through the pain. Record your feelings like a journal, or write a letter to your best friend that will never be sent.

    This method can help you get the words out of your mind, especially for those who are not good at finding people to talk to. After writing, the letter was destroyed, symbolizing a complete farewell to the past.

    4. Put away the items related to the other party or return them to their original owners. If you have a lot of items from your former friend, pack them up and give them back. Whether it's a souvenir or a gift, pack anything that reminds you of the other person, especially if it makes you unhappy.

    You might want to take them out and look at them again in the future, but now you have to put them away so you can travel light. When dealing with these mementos or gifts, you can ask your mother, siblings, or other impartial friends to help you if you need to.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Time is like an arrow, the sun and the moon are like a shuttle. Hello friends! As we grow older, we gradually grow up from the original young people to become the pillars of the family, and become adults in the real sense, then, in the process of growing up, I often find that some friends will gradually drift apart, in fact, when we reach a certain age, we will realize that this situation is very normal.

    The reason why in the process of growing up, some friends will gradually drift apart, mainly because of the following reasons: first of all, when you have a career, you no longer have more time to contact your friends as you did when you were a student, and you often go out to play with your friends, everyone has to be busy with their careers, if you spend more time on socializing with your friends, then your career will inevitably be affected.

    Then we are all adults and must be responsible for our future lives, so from this point of view, it is understandable that we are gradually separated from some friends. On the other hand, the reason why I will be separated from my friends is also because when my career is stable, I will soon marry a wife and have children and have my own family, which further reduces the chance of having a relationship with my former friends.

    But true friends, I personally don't think it lies in these forms of daily interactions, because real friends don't get separated, and often still miss each other in their hearts. If you have something to contact, don't bother if you have nothing to do.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Is it because of you? If this is the case, first of all, I must learn to be calm, try not to be too impulsive, because too much rashness is likely to make the problem worse, in addition to calming, I will carefully analyze the whole process, to see why things are like this!

    If you later find out that you were at fault, be honest and apologize to your friend. Of course, if the other party is at fault first, I will also choose a suitable time to find him calmly to talk, if he can admit his mistake and say what I can accept, then no problem, we are still friends! If not, then I'll take a fresh look at my friendship with him, and probably we'll just be it in the future'Ordinary'Friends!

    Also, if you can't save your face, you don't have to talk in person, and writing a note is also a very good way to express your meaning!

    Do you get it? I hope it helps you, may you be happy and have a sincere friendship!

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