Loved a guy, she was doing well, and we were very good friends, I don t know how it was

It turns out that we have a lot of time not to share, it turns out that there are many, many roads in this world that will not be accompanied by one person, just like a jellyfish that burns the deep sea brightly, except for the light, it is all night.

I think that if the person you like is with your friend, they really love each other, and both people have each other in their hearts. Then you should bless them, and make it clear in your heart that they are already together, they are now a couple, and what you can do is to slowly reduce your liking for him and restrain your love. Don't let your feelings come out and let them notice or even affect their feelings.

As the saying goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than to demolish a marriage. I feel that destroying other people's feelings because of my own selfishness is a very immoral manifestation and is not worth doing. Even if you are very unwilling in your heart, you have to control your feelings well and don't be impulsive.

At the end of the day, the relationship between the three of you will be ruined.

Because even if you want to confess to the person you like and want to be with him, if he already has someone he loves in his heart, and that person is not you, then no matter how much you do, it will be in vain. Moreover, if you destroy their feelings like this, you will also have a bad influence in his heart. So, even if you get him, it's a dishonorable act.

Your relationship will not be happy and long-lasting.

So, if the person you like is already with your friend, then you give up on this person, bless them well, and go find the true son of your life.

I hope my answer is helpful to you, and I wish you happiness.

Try to let go, since he is not with you, he just doesn't like you, it is painful to be with someone who doesn't love you, it's yours after all, and you can't force it if it's not yours.

I know that this feeling is very hopeless, that it is very dramatic, and that it will take a long time to accept this fact.

First of all, you should think about whether your best friend knows that you like him? Does your favorite person know that you like him? It's okay if you don't know, but if you do, you have to think about why.

Later, I went to a key high school, he went to a technical school, to learn a craft, during that time QQ was particularly popular, I added his QQ, after studying, occasionally chatting, but I never told him my mind, in order to better communicate with him, I asked my good friend to add him, they are also classmates, so it is also convenient to chat. Because I felt that there were many things in front of him that I didn't dare to ask, so I asked my friends to help me ask, and in this way, they kept communicating until one day, I didn't know that they were together. I thought to myself, oh my God, I can't believe it, why did this happen to me?

I've been sad for a while, but they're all my good friends, and I can only bless them, and I'll pretend to be nothing.

During the Chinese New Year, everyone plays together, and I can only be with them as a friend.

Later, I thought I should open my heart, appreciate others, discover the good in others, try to make myself work hard to become excellent, maybe your true destiny is waiting for you in the future!

For example, my friend and the person she likes are with her best friend, she felt sad at first, but she didn't tell her good friend, she was afraid of losing this friend, she chose to bless them, and finally my friend also found her true happiness.

If she had chosen to fall out with her best friend because of this, she would have lost a good friend and made herself unhappy, which is the worst outcome, so she did the right thing.

I think best friends should bless them when they are with the people they like the most, because feelings can't be forced, even if you don't have your good friend, he won't like you, so if you go to fall out with your good friend because of him, then you are very stupid because you lost a good friend, and the final regret is yourself.

Best friends and favorite people together we have to do is to bless them, try not to stay with the two of them, this will make yourself very uncomfortable, don't because he has a falling out with your good friend, so that in the end it is you who is hurt, and then continue to work hard, I believe that you will meet better people and find your own happiness.

I think I should wish them happiness, even though it may be difficult to do.

I had this happen when I was in junior high school, but unlike you, I'm the guy who was a boy to be with. Another girl, she was one of my best friends in the whole of junior high school. We are almost inseparable every day, and sometimes we sleep under the covers at night.

We almost didn't talk about anything, and we didn't have any secrets from each other. Maybe it's because the two of us are too similar, so even the boy we like is the same person.

At that time, although we both liked the boy a lot, we were so shy at that time that we didn't show it much. She once told me that she liked one person in the class, but she didn't say who it was.

What I didn't expect was that the boy liked me too. What's even more incredible is that the two of us are still together. It was only after I told her about it that I realized that the person she liked was this boy.

She didn't say anything, just blessed the two of us, but it was obvious that she was sad. After all, when the best friend is with the person he likes, who can feel better?

What did I say in my heart at the time, anyway, it felt a little weird. I felt sorry for her, and if she had known that she liked that guy so much, I don't think I would have been with him.

You must know that everyone has the right to pursue love, love others and be loved by others, we can't let others dislike him just because we like someone, and don't let him like others, this is the idea that only selfish people have. Besides, those two are both very important people to you, so it's better to understand them.

You also have to discern the best and the most liked. If your friend really has the best relationship with you, then after they are together, the friend will not be arrogant when facing you, but a little ashamed, because the friend will feel that it is his own reason, and you can't be with the person you like, a little guilty. And this favorite, in fact, you just like the person the most at the moment.

When there is a person who is better qualified and looks better than him, you will feel that this person is your favorite, after all, you haven't started yet, your favorite is just that face.

When a person can break your rules and step into your heart step by step, he is what you like the most. Since the person in front of you hasn't entered your heart yet, then he is not your favorite, so why bother with your good friend because of him, it's not worth it. You have to be patient, waiting for the person you deserve to give up everything for him to show up.

I've had a similar experience to you, my favorite person, my best friend.

I was really going to break down when I first learned the news, and it was the person I liked who told me personally, on the premise of knowing that I liked him.

At that time, I didn't have the heart to think about whether he was a scum or not, my mind was full of sadness and sadness, and I felt that everyone was bullying me. TV series are not written like this, why do such bloody dramas have to be played on me.

I had a crush on him, didn't I? Basically no one knew I liked him, except for a few friends around me. But I confessed to him, and he didn't publicize it to the public.

Probably in his mind, it was a shame for me, an ordinary-looking, ordinary-sized person, to like him, and he needed to hide it.

After he confessed to my best friend, I found out that my friend stopped talking to me for a while. I was still wondering if she had already accepted him and was too embarrassed to tell me or what? It wasn't until later that the boy told me that my friend had rejected him.

That's probably the only thing I'm thankful for. When my friend heard his confession, he rejected him decisively. He was afraid that I would be angry, so he didn't dare to tell me about it, and he didn't want me to like this man anymore, so he stopped talking to me every day.

She also ** knew that the boy hadn't considered my feelings at all, and told me directly that he was going to confess to my best friend.

I don't think if your friend doesn't know that you like that person, then you don't have much right to blame your friend. After all, those who do not know are not guilty.

But since they're good friends, why don't you know about it, right? Even if you didn't tell her, couldn't she find some clues on her own? You can't hide liking someone, and if she says she doesn't know, then I can only understand that she doesn't treat you as a friend.

I think it's better to have a friend than a friend. Friends picked up in the garbage heap, why should you be a treasure.

If you want to be your best friend and your favorite friend, you should choose your favorite friend.

It's a lot of things, and your best friend knows she's you.

The person you like, you don't know, the person you like knows that he is your friend or not, the person you like has a good impression of you, you are being poached or you are wishful thinking.

If they know that you and their respective relationship is still in love, it means that the person may really be true love, I think you can only bless, if you can't accept it, break off the relationship, when it is 2 more strangers, it's no big deal!

Of course, it's more sad, but it's that you're not with your favorite person, just a crush, you will definitely envy your good friend, of course I'm like this, but if a good friend robs your boyfriend, you should be very sad