Why didn t anyone confess to me, and why did some people dare not confess?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There's no need to rush! Your one! I'm waiting for you not far away! Be confident! Thank you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    China's national condition is: to be low-key.

    Also, go for what you like, don't wait for him to come by himself.

    One last piece of advice: the next time people say you're handsome, wouldn't it be better to be modest?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What should come will come after all, and it is useless to rush if you don't come. In the end, it's yours or yours, and it's useless if it's not your hope. With such self-confidence, this question is a bit redundant.

    And, my point of view is that being handsome doesn't mean that you are absolutely proportional to something, such as a good woman.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's the same as me

    Not kidding.

    I'm similar to you, and a lot of girls look at me on the road, and girls like to approach me, but no one confesses 、、、

    But I think the girls I come into contact with around me are more introverted, I'm embarrassed to say, or they already belong to each other.

    If you don't believe me, I can give you a way to experiment, you take the initiative to chase girls, the situation will be very different, at least the girl I like, after confessing, they have all been done

    Of course, love needs to be sincere, and I confess that I really like the girl, but I can't use feelings as a test).

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Real beauties are also very arrogant, most of them won't take the initiative, and in the case of handsome guys and beautiful women, boys should take the initiative, and you can't like it just because you look handsome.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because you're so handsome, you don't feel secure!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe I'm embarrassed to say it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Not as handsome as me, not as narcissistic as me, the appraisal is complete.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's your psychological problem, it's not that you don't have beauty, it's just that you don't have a pair of eyes to find beauty.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Beautiful women are generally very arrogant, and it is the right of boys to take the initiative.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Some people think that a crush is also a very beautiful feeling, but in fact, I have always disapproved of crushes. There are always a lot of comments from readers in the background, and many of them have a common characteristic, always expecting me to interpret whether the other person is in love with me from the words they provide to the crush.

    I feel very distressed about this, and at the same time I feel very sad for them. The distress is that even a professional counselor, even with high-end equipment, cannot accurately judge a person's feelings for another person.

    Because human feelings are inherently deep and complex things, not to mention that they are constantly changing. Sometimes, it is impossible for a person to fully understand himself.

    However, many readers will be sad or happy because of the other party's words, eyes, and actions, which often affects their normal life. Crush is like a whirlpool, the closer you get to the center, the deeper you get into it. In the end, there are few joys and many pains.

    Love is a problem of the century, and people with crushes have more concerns. Because of low self-esteem, I feel that I am not good enough, and the other party should not like me; felt that the other party did not have enough expression, and he did not dare to confess first, feeling that he was not reserved enough; I'm afraid that I will be rejected when I open my mouth, and in the end, I don't even have to be a friend.

    In fact, the reason why love is sad and painful is not in the love itself, but in the fact that we need to respond, so pure crush will not be too hard, because there is no too much expectation, there is no expectation that love will come to you, as long as you see each other every day, you will be satisfied.

    However, most crushes are not like this, they are looking forward to and waiting for love to come every day; Waiting for the other party to confess first, so, a look or a word from the other party can make a person have a tsunami in his heart.

    I can't solve the distress of these people, but I think a person who lives clearly and clearly in love should be happier.

    For example, in love, what we are most entangled with and want to know the most is whether the other party loves us or not, so we try and observe in every way, but in the end we still don't know the point.

    Actually, I would like to say that love that is not clearly expressed as an adult is an illusion. What is adult love? It's together! It is the barrier of time and space, whether poor or rich, I want to walk with you for the rest of my life.

    If a person says he's had a crush on you for years, but never wanted to be with you, you'll think he's just telling you a joke.

    So don't always ask someone if he loves you or not. You must have tried all sorts of things before. Those messages he didn't reply, the topics he didn't answer, and the appointments he didn't attend, he couldn't have rejected them more clearly.

    If a person tells you good morning and good night, gives you breakfast, gives you care, but doesn't say "I love you", then you might as well wait and give him a deadline, after all, there is always a process from raw to mature between people.

    But it's important to remember that every relationship has an expiration date, just like everything has an expiration date. A person who truly loves you must be eager to run to you, even if he feels that he is not good enough now, he must be.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why do so many people dislike me when I confess? <>

    It can only be said that you have a good fate, make more friends with good character, and slowly discover your fate.

    Pay more attention, and if you find what you like, you will have the courage to socialize.

    Don't be shy, don't be in a hurry!

    Take your time to get to know each other and give them a chance to get to know you!

    After a long time, if you feel that your personality is compatible with him in all aspects, you can really have a relationship.

    Remember! Don't be in a hurry

    Obvious inferiority complex, if you feel that everyone doesn't like you, you can participate in more collective club activities, and have more contact with everyone, and you will slowly develop self-confidence, and maybe someone will confess, so that you can prove that you are liked by someone You must have confidence in yourself, but the person in your life has not yet appeared. Fate has not arrived, don't worry, one day you will meet the person you like and also like you.

    Until then, it is recommended that you live and work hard, study hard, and improve yourself. In the future, when waiting for fate to appear, use your character and personality charm to win her love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is normal for you to confess that so many people don't like you, which means that you have not met your life partner. You must work hard to achieve a good career, so that you can live a happier life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it's probably because you haven't met someone who likes you, so you're in such an embarrassing situation. I think you can first look for someone who really belongs to you, and then find out if the other person likes you, and then you can confess to the other person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This kind of thing goes both ways. You have to look within yourself for the reason. Is it that he confessed too insincerely, or is he in a hurry after not knowing each other for long!

    Furthermore, it is possible that your positive fate has not arrived, so what you do is useless.

    Feelings are such a thing, in fact, it depends on fate.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't like you, you may not have met people with similar interests, and you don't have to like everyone, as long as you treat people sincerely, don't harm others, and have a clear conscience.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The reason why many people don't like you means that you haven't improved yourself enough, and there are too many problems that people don't get used to. You have to change it before people like you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is natural that young people are sensitive to the outside world. However, don't look down on yourself at any time, develop some awareness and habits of observation, thinking, and reflection, and you will slowly find the confidence to integrate into society.

    Bless you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because you don't have enough money, it's a society where everything looks at money.

    There is a couplet that says well:

    Affection without money is not affection, and being rich and ruthless is better than affection.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    So many people you confess to don't like you, maybe because they don't feel much about you, or because there's something wrong with your approach.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't think like this, don't rely on other people's liking for you to define whether you are really good, and you shouldn't take love as the whole of your life, don't be anxious, try to invest in yourself, skin care, fitness, and wait until you have personal charm and money, and someone will naturally be attracted to you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Each flower has its flowering period. Try to be yourself, what I am blooming, butterflies will come! There is no need to deliberately pay attention to the attitude of others, there are many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover, there is always a suitable person at the right time to meet, know and love each other. Bless you!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is a fate to meet thousands of miles, and there is no chance to be a pair on the other side. You have to call yourself when you confess, you can't confess casually. You have to feel that the conditions in the two aspects are similar, so that you can confess, otherwise, others will not accept you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you confess but don't succeed, you should think about what the problem is, what you are not good enough about, and then correct yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Either someone else has a boyfriend, or they are not interested in you, and they think that you are abusive and look down on your conditions.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, the other party does not necessarily dislike you.

    But think about yourself.

    Confess so many people.

    Are you using someone else as a spare tire?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, you have to improve yourself, you are better in all aspects, and someone will confess to you without you having to confess.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then you have to find the reason in yourself to see if your economic conditions are not good, or if there is a problem with your appearance and personality.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't be in a hurry to confess, first calmly think about what you like about the other person? Then think about what you take to make the other person like you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    confessed so many people", indicating that the feelings are not single-minded. Who would like it if they are not single-minded!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Confession, you must know yourself and your opponent, so that you can succeed, it may be that fate has not yet arrived.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's because you haven't met the person who is eyeing you, that is, he likes you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Find the reason from your own side You may have discordant personalities and habits.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Then you'll have to look for the reason in yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It won't be to see one and love another.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Being confessed by someone you don't like, sometimes you don't feel very happy, you don't feel very moved, but you will feel a little embarrassed. I didn't know how to respond to the other person's intentions, and I didn't know how to deal with the situation at that time. If the confession scene is bigger, the greater the embarrassment may be at that time.

    I will be very entangled in my heart, and I don't know how to refuse so as not to hurt the other party's self-esteem. Being liked by a person is a good thing, but the feelings that can't be responded to can also be overwhelming.

    I'm very sorry, but I also thank the other party for their recognition.

    Maybe when they are confessed, most people's hearts are still happy. Because it means that someone likes themselves and someone recognizes them. It is a very happy thing to be recognized by others.

    But this feeling is destined to not give the same response. Because I don't like the other person, I can only say sorry to the person who confessed. I'm sorry and it's real, because I can't respond to this heart, and the thanks are very sincere, because it's not a bad thing to be liked, and it's a good thing to be like each other.

    I was overwhelmed and worried that I wouldn't be able to continue being friends in the future.

    If you are confessed by someone you like, you may be pleasantly surprised in your heart. can be confessed by people you don't like, and you may not know what to do at the time! Everyone has a lot of concerns in a relationship.

    Accepting this intention is irresponsible to yourself and the other party, and if you don't accept it, you are worried that you won't be able to continue to be a friend after rejecting the other party. I don't know how to choose, and I don't know how to get the best of both worlds, without hurting each other's feelings or damaging the friendship between the two.

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