My family affairs are complicated and have seriously affected my work, please help

It's true that your wife hasn't done enough in this matter, but you can't completely ignore her feelings. I guess the problem she is thinking about now is the future education expenses for her children, which is a lot of expenses. Also, after all, marriage is the life of the two of you, and too much burden will cause a crisis in the marriage.

Actually, to put it bluntly. Your current situation is the family's financial problem, as long as you can get the money thing over, I think the problem will be solved.

It is recommended that you first ask your parents for their opinions, and see where they like to live, whether it is a rented house or a house with three, to be honest, the house where two old people live in a house with three is indeed bigger, and they don't need to live in such a big house. If the house rented by the two old people is going to be sold out, then see if the price is appropriate, and your wife also happens to want to sell the house for the third set, if you don't lose money, I think you can buy it.

And I think the reason why your wife has been refusing to buy a house for the two old people to live in, one point is because your nephew is now living with the two old people, what she said is not completely unreasonable, in this society, the brothers still have to settle accounts, and the wife and man are still separated. If your nephew really doesn't leave in the future (this is not to say, not that your relatives are not good, but there are too many such things now), then the relatives who make trouble in the future are not good-looking, the two old people are not good-looking, and you and your wife are also unable to explain, so it is recommended that you communicate with the two old people, let your nephew go out to live, and you can help your nephew financially when appropriate, but it is really unreasonable to ask your nephew to live in your house, you have hands and feet, you should go by yourself, and work hard by yourself. Aren't you two an example?

No matter how your wife is a bad wife, it is not easy for her to work hard with you all the way. If you say that you broke up with your wife over this matter, I think it's wrong for you, because you haven't thought it all through and haven't considered her feelings, right?

So my advice is:

1.Sell the house with three (listen to your wife).

2.You'd better move to a new home.

3.Let the old couple choose a house that suits them (preferably not too expensive, convenient and comfortable. Buy it for them, but the property and use rights must be yours or preferably in the name of your children.

4.The money for buying and selling a house must be surplus, don't lose money, otherwise your wife won't be able to talk about it.

5.Let your nephew move out and find him a house, you can give him some financial support (I don't think your wife will object), but don't make him financially dependent on you.

I think there should be no problem in this way, discuss more specifically, neutralize opinions, and when necessary, everyone sits down and talks, there is nothing to do, just talk about it.

You should do some communication with your wife

You should do more communication, talk to your wife, if it really doesn't work, just leave.

You may apply for release on guarantee pending further investigation, and it is recommended that you retain a lawyer to intervene in handling it.

When the problem is not big, pay the deposit.

The nerves are too sensitive, similar to psychosis....It is advisable to drink some calming nutrients.

I think you're too nervous, find time to relax.

There shouldn't be any need to move your hukou! He can also start a business or work in the north, and he doesn't need to be a son-in-law, and his son will have his surname in the future. It's really not good, you just go with him, true love can tolerate everything, happiness and happiness in this life are the most important, but sometimes you need to give up.

You can see that your boyfriend loves you very much, and he can not work for you, which shows that his love for you is real, and not being a son-in-law is the standard of his man, I suggest that if you love your boyfriend, just go with him, and you will be happy.

There may be no legal effect if you don't sign a contract, only through the usual relationship with the boss, in fact, your matter is completely sophisticated, and it is not possible, you explain the situation to your boss, and the boss with a conscience will not be too embarrassed for you!

You have been doing it for more than a month, and you will definitely be able to get it, and the state also stipulates that as long as you do it for a week, you can get a salary, and you rely on him every day, and he will not give you this kind of salary.

At the beginning, you have to think about whether you will do it for a long time, and you don't have any contract with your boss? I remember that my sister worked in the field and seemed to be able to get paid after a month, this boss is too treacherous, but you'd better go, just take a long view, and think more about it next time you go to do things, especially the issue of salary, don't be fooled.

1.Have you figured out the root cause of not letting you go to school, whether your family is having financial difficulties, or something else?

2.If you can't change the environment, you can change yourself. Your current environment is given by your parents, try to go out and live independently on your own.

3.If you can't convince your parents yourself, find some elders who can convince your parents.

4.Li Ka-shing is a middle school graduate, and many people of the older generation in China do not study much, but they are still respected. If you have time, just read more books on your own.

5.Life is so sacred and precious, how can it be so easily abandoned. If you don't admit your fate, don't admit defeat, don't give up, you will succeed one day.

If you give up your life because you can't go to school, it's a coward's act, it's a shameful act, what if you are looked down upon in life, and if you are looked down upon in death, it's unbearable. And no one will look down on you because you didn't go to school, only because you are cowardly, only because you give up on changing your destiny, only because you give up on changing your life and look down on you.

It is true that it is difficult for graduates to find employment now, and it is very common for employment and majors to be mismatched, so many parents and many people may think that going to school is useless, and they spend so much time, so much money and so much energy, and they can't even find a suitable job, so it is better to enter the society as early as possible and work hard. Personally, I want to say that going to school is actually more of an experience in life, it can cultivate a person's learning ability, communication ability, communication ability, different levels of education he sees the problem from different angles, levels are also different, aside from how much knowledge can be learned in school, and how much knowledge is useful for future work, at least after a certain amount of education, personal outlook on life, values are also different, in addition to all the experiences in school, all the memories, all the friends and classmates I know, Roommates are an immeasurable asset. I have also lived in school for more than ten years, from kindergarten to college graduation, during which I have made close friends with old classmates who have been in contact with me often, and I don't think this kind of feeling can be measured by whether I can find a job after school.

Then they don't have to wait, they understand that learning is to go to school, whether to look at it or not is not the point, the diploma is real, hahaha.

Enjoy the treatment of civil servants? It means that he is not a civil servant! Your girlfriend is a teacher!

Men, just get married and find a woman who can be better to yourself, she has a certain personal financial ability, and will not give you financial pressure, the feelings of husband and wife are dealt with, and after marriage, you don't talk about love, only family affection. As long as you don't hate each other, you can go on "harmoniously"!

It's useless for a woman to be beautiful, after 10 years, it's like that, you can't stand the passage of time, and women are easy to get old.

Two people are together for a lifetime, looks and figure are not important, the important thing is that two people get along, not to say that they have to love each other deeply, but at least they like it a little, since you don't like her at all, why marry her?

It's better to end it early! I don't like your feelings! You're going to be struggling yourself! It's better to let go and find your true love! People live to think about what they are for! Money is just a tool!

Now this society is all on par with interests, if you really don't like her, you have to explain it to your family, don't delay the lives of two people.

I think your family also wants you to be happy, if you are together because of the conditions, but your life is not happy. It's not what your family wants. Marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is necessary to follow fate and be more cautious.

Parents do this entirely for your own good! In today's society, there is a lot of pressure to survive, and parents want to reduce the burden on you. Feelings are slowly cultivated, the fathers have never met when they get married, and they still live for a lifetime after marriage, marriage lies in the management of two people, don't get on the hearts of parents, it is for filial piety!

Yes, who made you earn less than her!

Parents are more concerned about this, and it is also a sign of love for you.

It's better for two people to make money than to make money for one!

If you cannot assess the disability level, you can only ask the factory to pay medical expenses, lost work expenses, nutrition expenses, etc., and you cannot enjoy work-related injury benefits. It also depends on the specific situation of the injury, whether the injured person is at fault, etc., so let's negotiate with the factory. If you have accident insurance, you can also make a claim from the insurance company.

It must be a work-related injury, first go to the social security station to apply for work-related injury identification, you need to prepare some information, and then 30 days later, if you identify a work-related injury, you don't need to ** you can apply for disability identification, and claim according to the appraisal results, and the insurance will compensate part of the ,..