What should I do if I like to know a girl who confesses and is afraid that she will be embarrassed a

What's in it? Manly, get things done, look ahead! How to do it, do it when you think of it, just just in case you are rejected!

Then 50% of the opposite will accept it! Maybe, people, I've had a crush on you for a long time, and I've been waiting for you to confess for a long time! Even if you don't confess this time, then you'll have a girlfriend sooner or later!

I'm not waiting for a girl, so I'll confess to you!

Test her first, and ask her if she has someone she likes, what kind of people she likes...And then confess....Don't be afraid to fail....

Try first, it's not an embarrassing thing to fail, be brave, remember, you're a boy!

I don't think there's any need to confess, it's a matter of course.

It's like if there was a girl who could spend the night alone with you, you would be stupid enough to ask her, can I?

What's the use of thinking too much at times like this???

Now that you're in high school again, I think men should focus more on their studies and future!!

After saying that, see how the other person reacts. I don't think so.

Immediately acting like a joke:"I'm kidding you. Are you serious? "

It's embarrassing, it's embarrassing, it's not that it's not embarrassing.

Afraid of what.

Sooner or later, there will be such a day.

So there's no escaping it.

You should believe in yourself, muster up the courage to confess to the other party, don't always doubt yourself, because it is the right of the other party to refuse, if you like her very much, even if the other party rejects the aftermath, you can confess.

At this time, you must have the courage to confess to the other party, don't always be afraid, you can never jump to conclusions about things you haven't tried.

You can test her when you are chatting with her, ask her how she feels about you, and you can also joke about how I like you and see how she is.

Summary. Dear, you have to continue to confess after being rejected by the girl!

Dear, you have to continue to confess after being rejected by the girl!

It's normal for you to confess to a girl you've only known for two days and then get rejected, because you've known each other for so short!

After being rejected by a girl, remember not to be discouraged, you must have the courage and determination to defeat again and again!

The reason why the girl rejects you is testing your determination, that is, you want to see if you will give up on her easily, so it is necessary for you to confess again after a few days! 

He said he likes money.

He's realistic, and he's not hypocritical!

I also like money.

<>That's great, after all, money is important!

Realize the importance of money to become a rich person!

Then do you want to keep chasing him?

Of course, keep chasing!

Never give up until you really can't do it!

Why. Giving up easily will make you less resilient!

After a failed confession, you can help defuse the awkward atmosphere and divert the attention of both parties by saying the awkward and honest about it, comforting yourself or laughing at yourself, changing the subject, or leaving the scene quickly. At the same time, we must learn to improve our self-acceptance and affirmation, be tolerant of ourselves, and not be entangled in confessing failure.

1. Be honest about your embarrassment.

Hey, I failed to confess, and I'll be embarrassed to face you in the future. Although you don't think we're suitable now, I still like you very much, and I'm afraid I still can't help myself like you recently. Maybe I'll be able to adjust my mentality after a while, and I hope you don't hate me too much. ”

When you talk about this awkwardness honestly, the atmosphere on both sides will be relaxed, and it is okay to talk about the usual topics or just end the conversation. At the same time, your heart does not need to be with the "what if." will not be "the idea to fight."

2. Self-soothing or self-deprecation.

If you don't agree, I'm relieved, I don't think it's reliable, or a good buddy can last a lifetime. ”

It seems that my this one is only suitable for Wu Yanzu. ”

Man: "I like you, be my girlfriend!" Woman: "I'm sorry I might..."Man: "It's okay, then let's have a bow!" “

When I can laugh at the embarrassing thing of confession failure, I am also telling myself, "I can be honest about everything I do."

3. Change the subject or leave the scene quickly.

Sometimes, if you can't accept the result of your failure to confess, change the topic or leave the scene quickly, avoiding being surrounded by everyone's eyes and judgments, it is also a way to protect yourself.

Hello. When rejected without deliberate training, there is indeed a sense of loss, and even worse, self-doubt and denial ......

Once you've calmed yourself down, you need to set a goal.

Is it to make a change and pursue it again? (Because you said that the two sides have a good impression of each other, I don't know if there is a misunderstanding or other problem obstacles, and you need to actively communicate and solve it).

Or is this the end of it, goodbye, and an end?

If it is over, I have the following to share about such a situation:

We need respect

Treat each other with respect. The first thing to know is that we can make invitations (confessions), and this is our right. The other party can accept or refuse, that is the right of the other party, and it is the part we need to respect.

A lot of times, when things don't go my way, I have emotions because there is a hidden thought in my subconscious, thinking that "only what I think and want is right".

But this is not necessarily the case, the world has not given us the right to control others, and we need to learn to respect differences openly and openly. Not only for this one thing, but for everything else, too.

Respect yourself. My life has many parts.

I have "bad" parts, "good" parts, and other parts ...... that I can't defineIn fact, there is no right or wrong, it is all me, and it is these different sides that have become the unique me. The presentation of the result of one time does not represent all, and the presentation of one side does not represent the whole.

For each other, in addition to the role of a suitor, he also has the role of a friend, so he can't be a couple Zheng Yu, and he won't be an enemy.

In addition to having relationships with each other, I also have relationships with many people, including parents, relatives and friends, ......They also love themselves, and they need to love them.

Now I have the relationships and the people around me ......In the future, there will be more people waiting for us to meet ......Until then, we have to prepare ourselves to meet and catch it.

Learn from experience

Since it happens, regardless of the outcome, there is always something we can learn from it, and we will realize what kind of thinking and behavior is effective and what is not......At this moment, it is a good opportunity to improve and break through yourself.

There is a positive motivation behind every emotion, just look at whether the behavior is effective, find out what the positive motivation is, see what kind of belief is affected by the ineffective behavior that makes you and the surrounding people uncomfortable, and cannot realize the motivation, and then fix that invalid belief. A change in belief can increase one's strength.

Life is still going on, but this emotional dedication needs to come to an end, and after solemnly saying goodbye to this emotional dedication, do you need to learn how to fall in love efficiently, you can start thinking about ......

Anything that doesn't defeat me will make me stronger

In the future, you can first determine what your favorite other half is and list the bottom line. If you encounter it, you still pursue it, with a strong heart after this experience and the improvement of the experience you have learned, I think you will be more frank, as long as you do your best, the result will be no regrets. Peace be upon you.