I was overwhelmed by the successive blows, what happened to us?Makes me so overwhelmed.

Marriage is a thing that depends on luck, if you are lucky, you will live happily for a lifetime, and if you are unhappy, it will be painful!

People can't see this thing, and it's definitely different before and after marriage!

Hope you will be happy next time!

It's just your bad luck this time that you've met the wrong person.

You're also lucky, because you can meet better people after leaving!

It's been four years, and this has been given to such a person who has no sense of family responsibility. Fortunately, I found out now that the next forty years will be miserable!I'm not yet 30 years old and I can't continue to hurt myself.

I want a child, and I believe that the child will not be less than others. It doesn't matter if the titular father wants it or not.

Love is like two people pulling rubber bands, the one who is injured is always unwilling to let go, marriage is the grave, if you don't get married, love will die and have no place to bury.

In marriage, a woman is always a weakling, and he is still dragging it, but he also promised to do it soon. Come to think of it, we almost did it last year, but we still have to divide it today. If you see my little note, just add me to QQ. Let's do it together!

Your analysis is so correct and accurate. We have been separated intermittently since we got married, and now we have discovered many of his secrets. I was just the partner he married when he was lonely. I'm going to come out little by little. But it is impossible to remarry.

Do you believe you'll still be together?If you're sure, go for it!I believe that you are rekindling the old love, if you want to, go after it!Don't grieve yourself.

Have you ever heard of a saying:

The development of life is divided into four stages: "I don't know I don't know, I don't know I don't know, I don't know I know, I know I know", and most people grope their way forward between these four stages before finally finding themselves.

In other words, it is important for you to feel "know that I don't know" today, and it can help you understand yourself better and growIf you need comfort, then I think the employees in the company who are younger than you may still be in the stage of "I don't know, I don't know", and you may just ignore your other abilities and qualities.

Speaking of which, don't feel that university education is useless, just like MBA, sometimes the important thing is not the curriculum, but the environment, and the emphasis is not on who will teach, but on how to learn.

The future is in your own hands, and rising up due to setbacks is often the way to success!

The first formal contact with the work is like this, don't be discouraged, just practice more.

Going to university is mainly to open up a broader space for your development, and the theories you learn are of course not as effective as those that others have learned specifically to serve this place, but in the long run, you can learn more finely, and your development will be broader. Don't be discouraged, just keep trying.

There is a difference between talking on paper and killing the enemy in battle.

Agree.

At work, you also need to learn from each other and be confident in yourself!

Don't be discouraged, ask people for advice seriously, and learn patiently.

Theory and practice are combined. You just have theory but not practice. But many companies in today's society can't do it without a diploma, so your college diploma is still useful.

Don't be sad, a lot of things can only be used well after practice, isn't it good now, you can learn from this little master.

The college diploma is also scary!

How could it be useless!?

Not to mention more, a few elements, satisfaction, pleasure, security, dependence. All four have both bicheng and will not break up.

Remember a few words: 1. "What you care about will eventually lose to what is good to you, and what you miss will lose to the one who accompanies you the farthest." ”

2. "Love is born because of moving, points are added because of satisfaction (pleasure), and long-lasting because of dependence (dependence on essence)." ”

3. "Most people will care about their lovers, but they don't necessarily understand the people they love, understanding is more difficult than love, and they will be tired if they don't know how to love."

4. Maintaining a pleasant conversation is more likely to produce emotions that are biochemical on top of friendship.

ps: Love is irresistible, but don't dwell on it. There is a possibility of failure in any confession, but this will not make the relationship worse, just the ability to resolve the embarrassment. It's a must-have.

Finally, let's make a hypothesis about failure, are you willing to rebuild your relationship after failure, or are you willing to watch love drain away from you? If you don't work hard to develop, you're doomed to failure. Not to mention not necessarily failing.

Don't you think the identity of "best friend" is embarrassing? And this positioning has shown that the friendship between you is higher, maybe she is just timid and dare not accept it?

If you want to keep her by your side then you will have no choice, opposite-sex girlfriends cannot be forever. Unless you just treat her like a friend in general. So, go for it. Men need to have courage and ability. Finally, I wish you success.

Convey your heart to her well, and girls will take care of the problem of face, but it is possible that she really only treats you as a friend and has no other ideas.

It doesn't feel like this kind of thing should be how it should be, it's not that you want to have feelings, many people think she's really good, but they just don't feel it, and there's no way about this kind of thing. Maybe you feel that it's okay if you don't feel so much because she's good now, but if you meet someone you like very much in the future, you may hurt her even more, so it's better to leave now while her feelings for you are not so deep, and it's better to treat her. Of course, this is my personal opinion.

Hello, "I'm afraid that I won't feel right and hurt her again" I think you're also a responsible person, after all, there are feelings when you're together.

I don't know why you both agreed to separate at the same time, and then came together again because of the opposition of family and friends, is it so child's play not to be together, so easy to do back and forth, it can only show that you are not very sure of each other and yourself, like chicken ribs, tasteless food, it is a pity to abandon it.

In fact, the relationship between two people is only known in your own heart, what others see is only the surface, there is no guarantee of what will happen to you together in the future, life still has to be lived by yourself, don't say that they say she is very good, you feel acceptable, because there are many excellent girls, but not every one is suitable for you. The people in the family naturally want you to live well, because the girl is good, so they think that this way you will live the life they expect you to live, but now that you are not married, just say "not as sweet as before, and the distance will be far away" This is a problem that has to be faced, and it is best for the two to talk openly, find the problem and see if there is a solution, otherwise it will have a great impact on future interactions.

Don't guess behind your back... If you feel the change in your feelings, you must communicate in a timely manner, and you can't take it for granted. . . .

Only in this way will the relationship become stronger and more stable.

Actually, you don't care too much, just like when you change jobs, when you just change jobs In fact, you don't know if you can do this well, but you have changed, so what to do, so there is only one, work hard to do it, and strive to be satisfied with the boss and leader, in fact, marriage is the same, since you have chosen to be together again, don't be unconfident or afraid of hurting anyone, get married and work together to maintain this relationship, I wish you happiness!

You are in contact, but you have to consider whether this is the love you want, or how long she can go with you, or even whether you can give her happiness, don't say, there will be another breakup halfway, this hurt too much.

You can see that she is good, if she is good, she will break up quickly, and if she gets married, it will be bad.

I guess you were introduced by your parents and their elders. It feels like it's only at first glance! If the back is still based on feeling.

Somewhat... In short, if you see her as good, try for it. It's not good, when someone says you, you contact her.

Isn't it a bit wobbly? In fact, there are a lot of examples in our area of getting engaged and quitting, and then becoming successful!

In fact, you don't have to think too much about this kind of thing, I had a boyfriend before, in fact, the two families were too close, and we are now separated. The main reason is not the family, but the family reason is still very important and has to be considered. But, let me tell you, the most important thing is that it is still your two own feelings, whether your personalities are compatible or not, I am a typical example, we later completely disagreed, and he is not motivated, I work and he is not working, we have less common language, I want to divide.

In fact, what you have to do now is to trust your boyfriend, and at the same time, you also said that your parents are unreasonable, in fact, you just need to insist, since you are unreasonable, it is useless how good your boyfriend is. Marriage still depends on whether the two of you can live a good life, and your parents are still external factors.

As for the problem of men chasing women and women chasing men, I don't think it exists, after being together for a long time, who cares how they chased each other back then? There are a lot of girls around me, chasing boys, but then the relationship is deeper, the man is deeper than the woman, and it is still inseparable, this still depends on the individual, to see if your boyfriend is the kind of person who is very affectionate, and it has nothing to do with who chased whom. Maintain trust, have confidence, come on!

If your boyfriend really likes you, he won't think like that, "It's your daughter chasing me by herself, why should you be scolded so bloody?" ”

Parents are for their children, so children should think about their parents.

When looking for a boyfriend, you must first choose a filial parent, because it is not easy for parents to raise us, and we still have to have children in the future, so as not to have a bad impact on the baby.

Men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the veil, you are very brave, now is not the society, don't give up if you choose.

Men are responsible, face them positively, and this day will come sooner or later. It's okay to read more books on parenting and teaching children, children are your future, don't let her down, he calls you Dad!In fact, it's nothing to think about, isn't it just to bring a child, just with multiple companions.

You have children and you have to bear it, don't be afraid. Believe in your own abilities. Sometimes people grow up with children.

My understanding on this issue is that people don't grow up if they don't get married and have children. It's good to have a baby, and you can focus on what a man should do.

Why should you be centered on him, be natural, don't deliberately try to please her, so that it will be more painful if you don't get his love!Everyone's existence has his value, don't deny yourself so much. Try to keep yourself in a happy state, and you will find that many things change because of you!

If you don't have a job, find a job as soon as possible, if you have a job, then work hard, keep yourself busy, so that you don't have time to think about these things, so that you can enrich yourself, improve yourself, charge yourself more, don't let the men around you look down on you, think that you always have nothing to do, think about these boring things. I think your husband may think that he is working hard outside for you, for this family, a little machismo, maybe you think too much, adjust yourself and try.