No matter how much you love a girl, don t do anything stupid for her?

Blindly accommodating has become her capital to leave you.

No matter how you accommodate, you will never lose yourself!

For example, I can't do those backpack things for him, I think that's good.

People live to do the dreams that can be done, the dreams that can't be done will only be sad and sinful, and the enthusiasm without answers will only get heartache in the end, so the stupidest thing in the world is unrequited love, and it is better to be with the person you like than to be with the person who likes you, and it will not be so painful and sad, choose the things that can be done well and not only consider what you want to do to find it, there is only one life. ​

Don't pay off her debts, in general, in this case, it is the girl who wants to cheat the boy out of money

When a man falls in love with a woman, especially a boy whose own conditions are not good, they will feel inferior, and they will not hesitate to disguise themselves in order to get their beloved, but once this disguise is exposed, in the eyes of the other party, what you do is just a deception, not only hurting her, but also hurting yourself. You must know that good love is built on honesty and trust. Learn to magnify your strengths, hide your weaknesses, and show your best and truest self to the other person.

Don't joke about your own life safety with a girl, or even force her to be with you. Because my roommate had met him before, and her boyfriend said that if I broke up with him, he would be gone forever. Then the next day I found out that the boy was just joking, and then my roommate made up his mind that he must break up with him.

No matter how much you love a girl, don't hurt your parents for him, because your parents have worked hard to raise you, and this kindness can never be repaid.

Don't give up the circle of friends with whom you used to talk because you love a woman and because she doesn't like your friends, you must know that multiple friends have multiple paths, and friends are an indispensable part of your vitality. If one day she doesn't want you, it's not so easy for you to think about returning to your own circle. In response to the question "No matter how much you love a girl, don't do anything stupid for her?"

The above is the analysis of Shujun to everyone, I hope it will help you all, in love, the most afraid is to lose yourself. Whether you are a man or a woman, no matter how much you love each other, Youshujun advises you to stick to yourself, maintain your original intention, self-esteem and self-love, and be neither humble nor arrogant.

As soon as some boys see that girls have a good impression of them, they are ready to confess, and the confession itself is a mistake, I believe that many brothers have seen a lot of such scenes, a man in front of many people, holding flowers to confess to girls. As a result, the girl left without looking back, leaving the boy scratching his head in embarrassment. In fact, girls don't like to confess, unless it's a ceremony that is needed when they get married, and they prefer it to come naturally.

As long as you promote the relationship with her at the right time, in fact, she already regards you as a boyfriend in her heart, and she doesn't need you to confess too much to puncture this relationship, most of the lovers in my impression have never confessed, but they have come together.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a big problem, don't blindly attribute all the mistakes to your parents because you love your own woman, and even do not hesitate to do anything with them to kick them out of the house. You must know that filial piety comes first, your parents gave birth to you and raised you, you are the most worthy person to love in this life, and no matter how much you love a woman, you must know good and evil.

Don't give up your career because you are greedy for temporary pleasure, you must know that if a man has no career, he will have no economy, so what will you use to support her in the future, and what will you use to talk to her about the future? Imagine what woman would want to be in a relationship with a man who has nothing.

1.Don't abandon your career for the sake of a man; 2.Put lead cherry blossoms in a low profile; 3.Don't get too attached; 4.If you don't have a clump of flowers, you have to abandon your view of men; 5.Giving up relatives and friends for love is better than losing friends.

No matter how much a woman loves a man, don't do these stupid things for him, 1 give up the self, 2 don't work, 3 improve your education, 4 stay away from your family, 5 alienate your friends.

Don't give up your career for the sake of a man, don't choose to break with your family for the sake of a man.

Don't hurt your parents for each other, don't give up your job for each other, don't give up your social interaction for each other, don't give up your bottom line, don't give up your principles, don't give up yourself.

Don't be overly tolerant, don't do stupid things like paying more than you can do.

Excessive tolerance will only make women step on your bottom line more and more; After doing more than you can give, if you can't do more than you can, she will think that you are not good to her.

When it comes to marriage, it's not about a single investment that impresses a person. Love must be mutual, go both ways, love is meaningful. If you rely on only one person to support and operate, then loving someone will gradually be dissipated by faith, and if you can't get a reciprocal love, you should give up.

Most men always feel that when they choose to be with a woman, they should devote themselves wholeheartedly to that woman, give her everything they have, just let her live well, and think about what they do. But everyone should remember that feelings are not the whole of life, and in this world, in addition to feelings, everyone should have more items that are very worthy of their own cherishment. It is precisely because of this that no matter how much you love a woman, don't do these 4 "stupid things", because of small losses.

01 Sacrifice her self-esteem for her

For men, if a relationship is missed, you can start a relationship from scratch, but if your self-esteem is lost, it will be difficult to recover it, so even if you love a woman again, you can't sacrifice your self-esteem for love. In the same way, if a woman really loves a man, then she will consider the experience of a man, and she will understand that she will consider a man, and she will not rely on her own a man's pampering to let the man sacrifice his self-esteem.

02 rebelled against her parents for her

Feelings are feelings, true feelings are true feelings, and feelings are never the reason for hurting family affection. Therefore, even if you love a woman again, you should also know how to grasp the proportion. If you rebel against your parents for her, it's not worth it, not to mention, if a woman really cares about boys so much, then she will definitely care about boys' relatives.

In order to prevent the boy from being embarrassed, even if he doesn't like it, he will take a good look at the boy's relatives.

03 Give up the dream in her heart for her

In fact, when a man becomes excellent, the women around him can become even better. It is precisely because of this that men should figure out whether they should give up their dreams in their hearts at any time for the sake of so-called love. The driving force of true love dreams, with feelings, the ideal will be easier to accomplish, and if a relationship becomes an obstacle to the realization of dreams, then such a love is not to be done.

04 cut off contact with her good friend for her

Sometimes women are so strange that they want a man to make a choice between himself and his brother. In fact, men are all sensible, and there is a little reason for the appearance of some friends around him. Just if a woman's words leave behind her friends, such a person can only go narrower and narrower in the future.

What's more, if a woman understands and understands boys, she will never threaten boys like this.

Emotional message: This life is not long, don't consume your time and emotions because of everyone. It is a kind of good luck to meet a beautiful woman, and on the road to finding love, don't wronged yourself and lose yourself.

At any moment, loving yourself is the final romantic gradual. So don't do stupid things because you love someone!

You can't solve family problems for each other, you can't meddle in each other, don't give each other too much money to spend on family affairs, don't get used to each other all the time, and you have to spoil each other all the time.

You can't lose your principles and bottom line for the other party, you can't die for the other party, you can't give up your job for the other party, these stupid things not only make you unable to keep the other party, but will leave you with nothing.

Men must remember that even if they love a woman again, they must not do these stupid things for each other, first of all, they will hurt their parents for the other party, lose all their money for the other party, and hurt their bodies too desperately for the other party.

Miscarriage, borrowing money, kneeling and licking, because doing these three things means losing dignity and not being respected by others.

The first part of the right and wrong things are done for men, the second is to disregard their own image, but they are very economical to dress up men, and the third is to commit crimes for men.

The first stupid thing is to try to keep the man in the hall stockings with his body; The second stupid thing is to lose oneself and fall into love; The third stupid thing is not to turn against your parents because of men!

Don't give up your career for the sake of a man. Don't belittle yourself and go for a man who panders to yourself. You can't give all your savings to a man.

You can't do illegal things for the sake of loving her, you will lose your personal freedom, you can't do things that hurt your parents and family because of her, your family will be with you for a lifetime, and she may not be unable to borrow money to satisfy her material desires, because it is a bottomless pit that can assist her in completing her work, but don't do it for her, so that she will become lazy.

The first is not to be humble to love her, if you let go of your dignity to love, you may only get abandonment, because no one will know how to cherish you who have no dignity. The second is not to abandon your parents for her, because people who even abandon their parents may do more extreme things. Then don't be unconditionally good to her, because in the relationship, both of them have to pay, and she may take it for granted if she blindly pays, and she will not get used to it, if she is not good to her, she will choose to leave.

In the end, don't offend everyone because of her, today's society is a society of interpersonal relationships, if you offend everyone because of her, then you will not be able to move an inch in your future life.

1.Don't be unfilial to your parents for the sake of a woman2Don't obey women unconditionally3Don't offend a lot of people for the sake of women, 4Don't be humble and flattering.

Don't hurt others for her, don't do things that harm others and benefit yourself for her, don't work hard for her, don't do illegal things for her. Even if you like a girl again, you can't hurt others for her, you can't do things that harm others and benefit yourself for him, you can't joke with your own life, and you can't do illegal things for him.

If she has a partner, don't be ambiguous, hurt others and hurt herself. Don't do illegal and criminal things for her, the girls who can make you do these things definitely don't love you, so boys should also protect themselves and not get carried away because of love. Third, don't be embarrassed for her parents, it's not easy for your parents to raise you.

Fourth, don't give up your career for her, the relationship may not last long, but the career will always be your own.

Hello, I don't think it's worth it, love needs two people to run together, and the strength of one person alone is far from enough.

If you don't get a response for your efforts, it's clear that she doesn't love you anymore. In love, there is always a person who is desperate to love and care for each other. That's right, it's a sign that you love her.

But there are always people who don't know how to cherish, the more you love her, the more she has a sense of superiority, and in its eyes, your love is simply taken for granted. Your love is already an unequal relationship.

So this kind of person who doesn't know how to cherish it, you might as well give up. Where is there no grass at the end of the world?

It's definitely not worth it, I remember an expert on relationships who said that if you show a girl a love for her, or a tendency to behave, she doesn't respond to this situation. Then you don't have to waste a second of time.

I don't think you should do the following three stupid things. Because of the depth of our love, we are always willing to give everything for each other, but I think that really good love is to realize yourself, not just give without a bottom line。If, in a relationship, you only have to give and don't need to receive, then the relationship is undoubtedly deformed and cannot go far!

Even if you are in love with another woman, here are three stupid things that should not be done for her lightly.

1. In this era of struggle, I gave up my profession for the sake of women。What is the age of struggle? In my opinion, 20-45 years old is the age that men should strive for the most, especially for children from poor families, fighting for a career is the most important thing in this life.

If you think I'm talking too materialistic, I'll definitely admit "yes, I'm a material person", but I know very well what a profession means to us ordinary people!

2. For the sake of women, do not hesitate to quarrel with their parents. Movies and TV series always encourage us to be brave and always create a feeling of love supremacy, but there are many things in life besides love, such as family emotions. In my opinion, emotions are the most important thing, after all, love turns into emotions.

If you think that love is more important than blood relationship, it only proves that you are still young. When you grow up, you will know that there is a lot more to this world than love.

3. For the sake of women, become a third party in someone else's marriage。A few days ago, a married woman expressed her opinion to me, probably telling me that she and her husband disagreed, and finally I gave her the phrase "please divorce and fall in love with me" not to destroy other people's families. If a woman easily abandons a man to be with you, it means that she will abandon you to be with another man.

Men and women in love are usually fans of ** and can even fall in love. The same goes for women and men. However, the love exchanged in this way is often not long-lasting.

Therefore, we should not lose ourselves in front of the people we love. So I think it's the above three points.