What does a man with low emotional intelligence look like?

Seven manifestations of low emotional intelligence, see if the person around you has been shot!

I think it's like the following:There is only one response: drink plenty of hot water.

Many men, regardless of whether the woman tells him that his period is coming or not, feel uncomfortable. I still told him I had a cold and wasn't feeling well. Anyway, as long as the woman tells him what's wrong, the man will only give her one answer:

Drink plenty of hot water. As everyone knows, drinking more hot water is like a panacea, it won't help at all, and it will make the woman feel that the man is really annoying.

When giving a gift to a girl, you always make a decision based on your own mood, not whether the gift is in line with the girl's heart. Some men think that women are hypocritical because many men give gifts to women, and although women will receive gifts, they are not very happy. At this time, the man will only think that the woman is too pretentious and too difficult to control.

It's good that I can give you a gift. Do you still think it's bad or that's bad....However, these men never face up to their own problems when they blame women for their drama. This is because they don't do what they want to do before giving the gift and don't understand the inner needs of women.

Of course, only men with low emotional intelligence can do such things. Men with high emotional intelligence know how to do what they want to do.

Women want emotional comfort, but men give rational solutions. Most of the time, when a girl is wronged, she goes to a man to complain. However, many men with low emotional intelligence do not emotionally comfort women at this time.

They will only tell her how to solve the problem and how to face it. But in fact, angry women don't care about any reasonable solution at all. Their angry complaints are just seeking comfort.

So you've been giving him rational solutions, and she's just going to think that you don't understand amorous customs and nothing else.

Men are especially willing to help others. She helps people who have no principles and no bottom line. Especially, when people ask men for help, men are embarrassed to say no even if they can't.

It is estimated that the reason is that the man feels sorry for himself, or that the man refuses to admit indirectly that he is incompetent. People ignore the promise of cause and effect and allow themselves to suffer in silence. So that's what men with low emotional intelligence look like.

They often say things that are annoying.

Maybe I just don't understand what my girlfriend says.

It's the kind that makes you short and chunky.

It can leave you speechless to the extreme.

Men with low emotional intelligence are indeed too inferior.

Why do men with low emotional intelligence make women hate? Because they will make women feel that they are not intimate enough. Because of their low emotional intelligence, some women often feel that the other party is not as good as their own when facing their other half.

Not only do they not know how to care about themselves, but they will belittle themselves everywhere, saying that they are worthless, making each other feel that they are not worthy of each other.

1. Never take care of a woman's feelings.

A man with low emotional intelligence will only say things like "you are too stupid", "when did you become so vexatious", "I don't understand anything" to women, and in his opinion, "I don't understand anything" is "you really don't understand". This kind of man often makes women feel that they are very heartless and do not take women to heart at all. While they don't have any bad intentions, women can feel cheated.

2. I don't know how to be grateful.

Men with low emotional intelligence are always easy to meet the requirements of others with the help of others. Because they think that they should be taken for granted if they put in the effort and get something in return, they never go for gratitude. In this way, others will feel that they should take things for granted, and there is nothing to be thankful for.

Over time, others become taken for granted for him.

3. I like to pick thorns and magnify bad problems.

Some men like to find fault with women, thinking that women are uneducated people. Once his wife was going to work, he said, "My wife is not my food, but you just say that she is not human?"

The wife thought about it and said, "Okay, then I'll go home with you, what about the child." The man was also unhappy and wanted to scold when he heard it.

The woman said, "Can't you curse?" The man said

I'm going to curse people, what's wrong! With that, he left.

4. Men with low emotional intelligence always can't control their emotions and love to lose their temper.

People with high emotional intelligence are able to control their emotions because they know how to control their emotions and will not be controlled by others. But people with low emotional intelligence don't know how to control their emotions, and their temper never relents. When you lose your temper with them, you will verbally attack them and vent your frustration.

Even though they know that this is not good, they still refuse to restrain their temper, and always quarrel with you with words and lose their temper with you. There are many such people around us, no matter what he does wrong, he always loses his temper at every turn. No matter what he did right, he always likes to mock others or even punish others for doing the right thing, regardless of whether he did it right or not.

5. Only complain about others, never empathize.

Although many men say that they are not polite to others, they always say bad things about others behind their backs. Never empathize with other people's feelings. I don't know what I've done for others.

I always feel that others are doing something wrong. Actually, it's just not good enough. Men who don't know how to empathize can only find solutions by themselves when they encounter problems.

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Performance 1: Negative emotions dominate the consciousness of the banquet. Performance 2: Only care about one's own expression, and can't detect the attitude of others. Performance 3: Always be superior in words.

Performance 4: I don't like to empathize and stare at unbridled, and I don't care about the feelings of others. Performance 5: Elevate yourself by belittling others. Performance 6: Give the best temper to strangers and the worst patience to relatives.

Tong Zeyin performance 7, speaking likes to poke people's sore spots. Performance 8: Caring too much about what others say about you. Performance 9: Pointing fingers at the lives of others.

Performance 10It's often wrong to get people right.