How to look at a person, please 3Q

Dear landlord, I'm glad for your question Actually, there are things you like that won't belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, and love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Remember.

Give yourself a general positioning, don't overestimate yourself, don't underestimate yourself, self-confidence is the spiritual motivation to work better, properly show your ability at the right time, and continue to make progress in the sense of achievement, and then constantly adjust your positioning, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, and believe that raising soldiers for a thousand days will be used for a while.

In today's society, you can't fully understand a person, because people are constantly changing with the changes in society, time, environment, life, and work. In the same way, sometimes it is difficult for us to understand ourselves and, of course, we are constantly changing! Sometimes you think you know someone well, but there will be a day when you realize that you don't know anything about them.

So, you can only say understand what a person is doing today, as everyone says, talk less, do more, and observe more! Moreover, it is time to keep a careful observation, for a long time, you will be able to have a certain understanding of a person's personality and way of doing things! In life, someone may feel good about you, like a good person, but maybe he is bad to others, and he is a bad person when he feels like others, so how can you judge a person?

It is impossible for a person to know someone from one side. In this surging and diverse sea of people, the only way to do it is to be yourself and always give yourself a little more guard! Understanding a person is a long process of communication, both verbal and non-verbal.

It requires you to experience with your heart, feel with your heart, understand a person, in fact, to understand a heart. And if you want to truly understand a person's heart, you need to pay your own sincerity, and compare your heart to your heart to truly and thoroughly understand a person, just like lovers, it is precisely because of each other's hearts and minds that they understand each other. However, if you are just making ordinary friends, I suggest that you don't deliberately try to get to know too much of a person, in that case, there is a great possibility of losing friends!

Anyone gets along with each other in harmony! Just be able to bring joy to each other! After all, everyone's innermost things may not want outsiders to understand, so unless it is your lover or bosom friend, it is good to know a person to the same extent.