There are a lot of troublesome things this year, what is the most troublesome thing about the New Ye

It is indeed a problem, it is recommended to go out for a walk, relax your mood, and believe that you will have a good night's sleep!

In fact, too many people have such troubles, but you might as well talk about your troubles to some friends with good character and experience, and observe their reflections, even if you are not so close friends now, but slowly you may feel that you treat him as a good friend, and may begin to treat you sincerely.

If a person often harms your interests, you must feel that he is not your good friend.

Anyway, friends are easy to know that they are hard to find, and they want a little fate. However, most of the people who can really speak their hearts are not colleagues who have a competitive relationship. It's easy to be satisfied with a trip home to do something for your parents.

Why don't you talk to a psychiatrist?

What is a friend.

Will there be friends without interest?

Will there be any benefit without friends.

What the hell is a friend.

It's hard to understand.

In fact, everyone in the world has the same state of mind, relax their minds, and how to go on the road or how to go. Have fun!

Give first, then gain, learn to treat with this mentality, and believe that you will have a lot of friends.

In this world, there are only a few true friends of everyone, don't think that you are the only one.

If you can take a leave of absence, take a leave of absence and go home to rest for the first half a month. After all, your home is your real nest. When I get home, I think I'll feel better.

Finally, I wish you a good mood soon!

There are no permanent friends, only eternal interests, which is for ordinary friends, and for real confidants and friends, it has nothing to do with interests. Thousands of troops are easy to get, one will be hard to find, friends are old, confidants are hard to find, pay attention to the people around you, see who has no interests with you, you are more kind, you can cultivate into a close friend.

The most annoying thing is that when I go home, my relatives ask how much my salary is in January, whether I have a boyfriend, when I am going to get married, when I am going to have a child, and whether I am going to have a second child.

It is a very happy thing to go home for the Chinese New Year, and you can reunite with your family and enjoy a happy and beautiful time. ......However, when you go home for the Chinese New Year, you may also encounter some troubles that make you unhappy. Specifically, these situations include relatives urging marriage, relatives constantly inquiring about their work and study, and relatives making irresponsible remarks about their own affairs.

1. When I go home for the New Year, my relatives urge me to get married, which is the most annoying thing for myself.

When I went home for the New Year, the biggest trouble I encountered was that my relatives urged me to get married. ......Although he knew that they were well-intentioned, after all, this matter was up to him, and others should not ask about it. Therefore, whenever a relative brings up this matter in front of him, he feels unhappy.

This problem exists for many young people who go home for the Chinese New Year, and it is also one of the things that they feel most troubled about.

2. Relatives kept asking about their situation when they went home for the New Year, which made them very annoyed.

If you work or study outside and don't see your loved ones for a long time, you will feel very cordial when you meet again during the Chinese New Year. This would have been a very happy and auspicious thing. ......However, some relatives are too concerned about their own affairs, and keep asking questions about their work, study and life, which will make them feel troubled.

3. When I went home for the New Year, my relatives made irresponsible remarks about me, which made me very annoyed.

When I go home for the New Year, sometimes I will encounter something more troublesome, that is, relatives will talk about their own affairs, ...... or fourThey will treat themselves according to their own standards, make irresponsible remarks about what they do, and demand that they do what they do ......Whenever I encounter this situation, I will feel very annoyed, and even feel that the New Year is no longer fun. ......Although he knew that the starting point of these relatives was to be good to him, but because their actions were really inappropriate, he would still feel unhappy.

You can take a break for a long holiday during the Spring Festival, what is the most annoying thing in this small long holiday? It should be the most annoying to go to relatives. Why? Because relatives are really not a like-minded group.

In this world, friends are all chosen by yourself, and although colleagues and classmates are not chosen by yourself, you can not interact with each other. Relatives are different, relatives are not chosen by you, but determined by God, these relatives may not be with your heart, you must also deal with them.

Some people say that relatives can only communicate with each other if they have the same economic conditions, and there is some truth in this. There is no common language between those who wear designer clothes and those who wear street stalls. What do these two types of people say together?

One is talking about how he shops overseas and how to buy designer watches, and the other is interested in visiting the vegetable market to buy cheap food?

Different economic conditions will make it difficult for relatives to communicate with each other, and on the other hand, different cultures will lead to awkward contacts between relatives. In a relative's gathering, you want to talk about cultural and historical issues, but others don't like to hear it, and people want to talk about the shortcomings of your parents, but you don't like to hear it. There are fewer than a thousand cups of wine for a confidant, and there is no speculation for more than half a sentence.

Without a common language, you can't speak together, so what's the point of meeting and eating together?

But the custom of the New Year is to go to relatives, and if you don't go, you have to go, which makes many people very annoyed, especially those who love to be quiet, and finally take a small long vacation during the New Year.

Relatives can't find a common language with each other, so they can only talk about each other's parents. This is the most annoying thing for cultured people to do, and generally cultured people don't like to talk about people's strengths and weaknesses behind their backs. What do relatives say at a gathering?

The question is generally the same, who is married? Who gave birth? Who became a grandfather?

Don't be a grandmother, who has a new job? This kind of topic is boring and vulgar, as if inquiring into other people's family affairs.

If there is a bag in the family gathering to inquire about other people's things like a household registration, this person is even more annoying.

This kind of person likes to ask why don't you get married? How did you get divorced? What kind of tape are you looking for?

Why don't you have children yet? Why don't you want to have children? Why don't you want to have a second child?

Who in your family earns more money, who in your family manages the money, and who cooks in your family? Who in your family is afraid of whom? Who in your family has a lot to say?

It's a real annoyance, it's a waste of time to talk about, and a lot of people don't want to talk about it. But these people and these topics are indispensable for relatives gatherings.

Therefore, many people don't like to go to relatives, especially those who are literate and love quiet, and they don't like to be questioned like checking their household registration. The Spring Festival is good, but many people are reluctant to leave their relatives.

The Chinese New Year is indeed a university question for China, the gathering between relatives and friends, is the collision between different family cultures, it is inevitable that there will be some small frictions, so every New Year, troubles are naturally essential, I will list what are the troubles.

1. Relatives and friends greet each other for warmth. This can be said to be an indispensable part of the Chinese New Year, every relative has to say hello, have to ask, care about their children, care about their family, which step is not in place, maybe people will think you have an opinion about him. I care too much, and I think you have bad intentions and look at other people's jokes.

Second, the wine table is staggered. Since it is a New Year's reunion, dinner is also an indispensable link, if it is a simple meal, it is naturally enjoyable, but as soon as you add wine, eating becomes an annoyance.

3. Distribution of various red envelopes. This is not a worry for children, after all, it is all income, but for adults, especially those who have started a family, it is a big problem. Even if the local tyrant is not short of money, he must be on par with people of the same generation as his own clan and Zaoji, and it is not flattering to give too much and the pants are not pleased, and he has to be told that he does not understand the rules.

Fourth, all over the country back and forth to catch up with the energy. If it is the same city for the New Year, this problem is not big, but if the relatives on both sides span a relatively large area, it will be bitter, today this city, tomorrow another city, the time spent on the road can account for more than half of the holiday. If you encounter a traffic jam, you will have a fear of the New Year.

To sum up, it is really not easy to celebrate the New Year, I used to look forward to the New Year when I was a child, and now the New Year is like a year-end assessment again, the difference is that there is a bonus for the assessment to be done, and no matter how good the New Year is, it will cost a lot of money.

The New Year is quietly approaching, whether it is in the city or in the countryside, the atmosphere of the festival is everywhere, and the roads that were not congested have begun to walk like snails. Long queues at the checkout counters of major shopping malls, overcrowded free markets, high-speed delivery boxes, and crowded passenger stations at railway stations are scenes that can only be seen during the Spring Festival. Some people describe the Spring Festival as a major flow of population, a large movement of goods, and a great expansion of domestic demand and consumption growth points.

It can be seen that the Spring Festival occupies a very important position in the minds of the Chinese people, and no festival can be compared with the Spring Festival. The Spring Festival is another reunion festival, and the family is happy, which is really beautiful and wonderful. Recently, it was reported that a young man rode a motorcycle for 18 days, from Lhasa to Jinan to accompany his mother for the New Year, 4,800 kilometers just for a promise, to accompany the elderly to be happy, and to fulfill the filial piety of his children.

In those days, when it was hard to get a ticket, in order to go home for the New Year, I usually got home in four days, but it took seven days.

The Spring Festival could have been enjoyed to the fullest, but it also brought a lot of troubles to people. Different people have different worries, but what are the worries of ordinary people?

One, the troubles of shyness in the bag. Eating, drinking, having fun and giving gifts during the Spring Festival all need money to support, and you can't do it without money. Due to macroeconomic control and the development of science and technology, it is difficult for many ordinary migrant workers to find work and make money.

The day before yesterday, I called a relative and asked him when he would come back for the New Year? He said that he hadn't decided yet, and he definitely wanted to come back, but the money hadn't arrived yet, so what should I do if I didn't have money? Are there still fewer shy people in real life?

Second, the trouble of unpaid wages. In recent years, the state has repeatedly ordered and reaffirmed that it is absolutely not allowed to default on the wages of migrant workers, but there are policies and countermeasures, and it seems that wage arrears have become a stubborn disease and an incurable disease. Today, I met a neighbor in the community who came back from a part-time job, and he said that it is difficult to settle the salary at the end of each year, and the money of the previous year has not been settled, let alone this year.

The boss must hit the Kaqiao celery when he says it, and I know it's a lie, how can it be? Seeing that the Spring Festival is coming, you can't wait there stupidly. After I came back, I called ** to urge the boss every day, and I also knew that the first stupidity was self-comfort, and I couldn't even meet in person, let alone leave thousands of miles away.

Let's recall, are there fewer problems caused by non-payment of wages? One of my younger brothers, starting in October every year, is mainly engaged in project payment settlement and even litigation. In order to ensure that the wages of migrant workers are in place, he borrowed money from everywhere, more bank loans.

Strict laws and regulations must be formulated to deal with the problem at the source and from the root, so that they do not dare to break the law, because the cost of arrears of wages is too great.