The girlfriend s conditions are very average, and the parents are against it

First of all, don't mess with yourself first, think about what I'm talking about:

1. The girl is out of town, and she is not the only one in the family, if you get married, if there is a New Year's Day and Spring Festival and other holidays in the future, it is estimated that there will be a lot of her relatives in your home, and you will be overwhelmed by the back and forth, and when the time comes, you will say no, not to say no.

2. Now there is a custom of giving gifts to the woman's family before marriage, the more you give, the more you are a girl, and the poorer the family, the greater the amount of money. Therefore, it is recommended that you find out whether there is such a custom in her family, and if so, how much the gift money is, and whether it is within the range of what you can afford.

3. Do you have the economic conditions and economic foundation required for marriage, such as whether your job is stable, whether you have a marriage house, etc. If you don't even have a stable job, it is recommended to do your job first and then think about other things.

4. What your parents said is not unreasonable, academic qualifications represent the level of education a person receives, and also indirectly affect a person's world view, outlook on life, and affect a person's view and way of dealing with things. If you have the same academic qualifications, you will make 2 people agree on many things, at least the views will not be much different. The ancients said that it is not unreasonable to be the right person.

5. I don't know what your purpose of finding a girlfriend is, I feel that you are only looking for a girlfriend for sex, it is recommended that you correct your thoughts before going to find a girlfriend, otherwise, what you end up with is just emptiness.

Ask yourself what you think, tell the other person about your current situation, and see how she reacts.

Well, if you don't want to get married for such a long time, don't delay others, while it's not too much trouble. And I see that you think in your own heart that her conditions are average, so what else is there to say. It seems that you yourself have a little bit of the same idea as your parents, otherwise this would not be a problem at all.

If it's not love, it's recommended to break it off before letting the other party fall into it.

It is not necessary to have the same environment to have a common language. First of all, let's talk about academic qualifications, if the two of you are not at the same level, sometimes it is very difficult to communicate.

As for the conditions, interacting with people is not based on the conditions, and it doesn't matter what the conditions are if you feel right.

You are an individual, not a puppet, and don't do everything according to what your elders say, what they say can be used as advice.

It's up to you how you want to do it.

Think about the worst consequences, and if you can bear it, why not be together?

Do you love her? Only you know that love sticks to it, don't care what others say, if you don't love, break it up, find an excuse that doesn't hurt people, and it's over I think you're so useless Your feelings are still asking others for help If you can't even handle your own business, you still have such high requirements Don't you make it clear that it's pure fart? Think about it.

Of course, love must continue.

If you love each other, you have to keep going!

Don't delay other people's good children, for women, 5 years of the most precious youth, I can't afford to delay with you. You'd better wait until you want to get married.

Summary. Your girlfriend dislikes your family badly, you come to ask this question seems to want to have a trick to solve it, first of all, I feel that you still like your friend, as for your girlfriend's feelings about you, you don't describe it, the point is here, if your girlfriend likes you very much, she will find a way to persuade the family. If your girlfriend is a little hesitant, she may be swayed by the dislike of her family.

This point is still to make a fuss about your relationship with your girlfriend.

My girlfriend's parents dislike me, and my family conditions are not good.

Your girlfriend dislikes your family badly, you come to ask this question seems to want to have a trick to solve it, first of all, I feel that you still like your friend, as for your girlfriend's feelings about you, you don't describe it, the point is here, if your girlfriend likes you very much, she will find a way to persuade the family. If your girlfriend is a little hesitant, she may be swayed by the dislike of her family. This point is still to make a fuss about your relationship with your girlfriend.

Oh, yes. Are you still in a normal relationship with your girlfriend?

Normal. It's that she didn't say what she thought.

Then when we first started together, her parents were against us being together.

Actually, you don't quite understand your girlfriend's thoughts, so you are uneasy about his parents' dislike.

Have you been dating for a long time? If it's been a long time and your girlfriend hasn't told you what you think, you can ask her directly if she minds your family, and the other party's parents' dislike, is she willing to face it with you and communicate with your parents honestly? Because it's still more difficult for you to go it alone.

Yes, teacher.

I've been dating her for almost half a year

Summary. Although they dislike it, but they prevent you two from being together, right?

Good. Although they dislike it, but they prevent you two from being together, right?

Now it's just to stop it, and then let him break up with me, because my family conditions are not as good as his.

Is it really a big difference?

You can describe the differences between the two families in general.

Convenient words. It doesn't feel very big, and he has three at home. His parents meant that I could only marry him after I had a car and a house in Wuhan, but I am now in my 20s and have no ability.

What should I do to get his parents' permission and stay with my girlfriend.

What I think on my own side is that I have just graduated from college now, and I want to go out for 4 years, and then talk to him after I can have this savings, but his parents think that I don't have a lot of knowledge on my parents' side, and I don't have a lot of knowledge to help me, so I won't be happy in the future.

You've just graduated from college, and you're required to have a car and a house.

This request is a bit excessive.

What's the girlfriend's opinion?

My girlfriend just listened to me at first, that is, dragged it, and then waited until we had the financial ability to go there, but now his parents, his grandparents, seven aunts and eight aunts are doing ideological work for him together, which makes him collapse now, and his will is beginning to be weak.

I really want to be with my girlfriend, any suggestions? It's just how to deal with this, I really want to be with him.

You can bring gifts to his house and communicate with her parents.

Speaking of Auntie, I will definitely work hard and not let my girlfriend suffer.

Can your parents help you?

The key is that the two of you have to be emotionally stable, and then you do her parents' job well. Let's see if your own family can help.

One, it should be told.

This is of course the best, after both parties have decided to be with you, confess to your parents, this will not only show your determination, but also make them less worried, and you can invite your parents to come over to "play", so that both men and women can not only show themselves in front of their future parents, they will also be more understanding.

Of course, for girls, there will still be a lot of moral pressure and omen shouting pants to worry, maybe go home to help boyfriends wash clothes, cook, etc., at this time, we ask boys to help girls share the economic pressure, more importantly, considerate her, help her share housework, and ask boys to prepare more small shocks.

Two, don't tell.

I believe that this is the idea of many girls, in the face of the conservative and moral pressure of their parents, they will choose to hide from their parents for the time being, no matter what, we still hope that everyone will finally find a suitable time to confess to their parents. In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, you can't keep it hidden, the paper can't hold the fire, I hope you will tell your family about when to meet your parents, so that they don't worry too much.

It's better to break up, not enough love.