How to make her happy, how to make herself happy

I myself have a very simple practice of life and death: every day when I go to bed, I think, "If I fall asleep today, I won't get up again tomorrow." If you think about it this way, you can sleep well, because when you think that tomorrow there will be nothing to disturb me, you will let go of all the sorrows of today, and even all the sorrows of the past, and you will not have any worries about the world, and you will not think that someone owes me 10,000 yuan, and I will take a taxi to ask him for 10,000 yuan, and what will I do when I come back with 10,000 yuan?

I'm going to die tomorrow, so lie down and rest in peace! Tomorrow we may die, and our death is like sleep. Someone thinks:

Tomorrow will die, so it's too negative! "I won't be negative, wake up tomorrow, open my eyes and get up quickly, because I'm not dead yet, and I still have one day to live. If we cherish every day and know that life is impermanent, we will not contradict our parents, put love in one day, we will not quarrel with our relatives, and we will cherish being with our children and colleagues.

If a colleague you hated sat next to you and thought that you might leave the world tomorrow, you wouldn't hate him so much. If you think that you have a long time to be a colleague with him, you will hate it. If you make a visualization of life and death every day, there is nothing to hate, so that you can sleep well every day and wake up the next day full of energy.

I think from the moment you open your eyes every day, you have to say to yourself that today is a good day, no matter what happened yesterday, after all, yesterday is the past, it can't be changed, don't let yesterday's troubles affect today's good mood, everything starts now!

When you are working, no matter how busy the task is and how stressful it is, don't complain about your work, like your work, don't start the day with resentment, and you will have a sense of accomplishment to complete your work step by step!

Don't compare with others, so that you will live very easily, people's biggest enemy is yourself, I think you should have heard this sentence, so, it is not interesting to compare with others, only compare with yourself, you can always have a goal, don't measure yourself by other people's standards!

When you encounter unfair comments from others, let others talk about them as long as they don't hurt your personal dignity. After all, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, and no gold is enough! What others say is right for you to take seriously, and what you say is not right.

You just sing as him, don't take it to heart, there are so many boring people in this world, if you all worry about them, how can you have a good mood!

The most important thing is that no matter how busy you are at work, make time to do what you love to do, such as listening to music, doing sports, etc.

Hope you are happy every day! Good mood every day.