In love, how to grasp the tightness?

It's like a handful of sand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will drain, and each other retains their own space, with their own circle of friends, and also the same circle of friends. It's tiring to be together every day. In fact, I think it doesn't matter how tight it is, it's important to have trust, seriousness, tolerance, pertinence, humility, rationality and single-mindedness in love.

The key is to have trust between you. You can make an agreement with her about what time to go home or not to be too close to other boys or anything, and communicate with her well and she will understand that you care about her. But this is only temporary, the key is to build trust between the two.

Trust her, trust her to love herself!

You can be as good as you think

You can learn things in a second-rate university The key is to see what kind of mentality you use to learn.

In fact, it's not about academic qualifications, it's mainly about ability.

I don't know what kind of plans you had before enrolling.

But a lot of things don't necessarily go the way you planned.

Planning and change are generally one after the other, and it's best before you do something.

Thinking about what's possible is going to be a mental preparation for dealing with things in this way.

Thinking of the worst is acceptable?

So that even if the worst happens, it's psychologically acceptable.

Now, now that you're enrolled in school, there's no way to change the status quo for the time being, so accept it.

Study with peace of mind. What you said about the fullness of time.

I think it's psychologically enriching.

College is much more leisurely than middle school, and you want to enrich yourself.

You can play your own interests.

For example, if you love the Internet, you have nothing to do with the Internet café, and it can also enrich you.

The premise is that you don't feel wasted because of the Internet, and you can be psychologically comfortable.

Prepare for the world after graduation.

If you like to study and want to take your studies to the next level, go to the library.

Your low mood and irritability are entirely due to not achieving your plans to have emotions.

Forget about the old plan, start from scratch, and implement it step by step.

If things do go as smoothly as you planned, then you're ripe.

When you are young you are confused ... Face it bravely.

1 Love should be serious and emotionally single-minded. Love is an affectionate relationship between two people of the opposite sex. This kind of relationship includes its own unique feelings and obligations, which can only exist between two people in love, and no third party is allowed to intervene.

Moreover, love is not child's play, both parties should treat each other sincerely, treat themselves realistically, and treat each other realistically. Countless facts have proved that it is not possible to be happy if you cheat love by deception. In addition, once the two parties have established a romantic relationship, they must be loyal and single-minded; You can't be half-hearted and think differently.

It is immoral for anyone to engage in a love triangle or polyamorous relationship.

2. Correctly handle the relationship between love, learning, business, and career. Love is beautiful, it is an important part of the content of life, but it is not the whole of life, it should be subordinated to the cause and promote the development of the cause. Only when a person succeeds in his studies and career will the flowers of his love bloom more brightly and fragrantly.

Therefore, put your studies and career in the first place, put the relationship between love and your studies and career, and don't spend all your precious time on falling in love and relaxing your studies and career. Love without studies and career is like sowing seeds in the desert, lacking a solid foundation and soil, and sooner or later it will wither. Only the combination of love and career, love can have a prosperous sedan chair and a lasting life disadvantages.

If the distance is too large, be cautious. For example, if your conditions are much better than the other party, you should seriously think about whether it is worth it. For example, if your conditions are much worse than those of the other party, you should think about whether the other party will take a fancy to you? Blade.

These are all very realistic and objective questions. We have to think.

This issue cannot be ignored. But some people just tend to ignore this. They believe that loving someone should not take these things into account.

In fact, if the gap is too large, the more problems there will be with each other. There are many things that cannot be surmounted.

And this gap will bring us a lot of unnecessary trouble. These things will affect our love. If you know that this is the result, why insist on it?

When it comes to falling in love, choice comes first. If you don't choose the right choice, your efforts will be in vain.

Therefore, both men and women must be self-aware in this regard.

Second question: How much time are you going to spend in this relationship?

In fact, many people know this and understand the truth. But when it comes to falling in love, it's often easy to overlook. Because he really wants to be with each other and wants to get good results.

But then we lose our own principles. When you lose yourself, a lot of things change. In this state, a new situation arises.

And the new situation is often beyond our grasp. In this case, it is easy for us to lose ourselves. Therefore, before falling in love, we should talk to ourselves seriously and set a time limit for our estimates.

In this way, even to the point of being out of control. We also know, what to do?

Not blaming yourself is essential for a good and respectful partner.

"Relaxation" is likely:

You won't be blamed for not wanting to cook and order takeout;

I won't be blamed for not wanting to get up and sleep on weekends, and for being lazy and not cooking dinner;

I won't be severely reprimanded for accidentally damaging something that the other party loves ......Little things like these are essential things in a relationship, not a plus

Too rigid and easy to break, too soft is beautiful.

Too fiery love is like an unbridled fire, too warm but easy to burn;

Too restrained love, like the intersection of silent planets, respectful but slightly cooler.

In love, you need to have a sense of proportion.

Relaxation refers to the comfort of each other, and the degree of advance and retreat.

Leave each other with the space to know and burn Hedang, let the distance produce beauty, let the proximity condense love, and make love more fresh.

Love that does not know how to manage will eventually dissipate with the passage of time, and the blazing tends to be dull, and the insipidity gives birth to contradictions, and the contradictions bring quarrels.

In the end, everything will disappear, and they may become a pair of resentful couples, losing each other.

The longevity of love not only requires the heartbeat of the first encounter, but also requires sincere dedication, and it also needs to be properly understood.

And the way to love someone is to be relaxed.

Grasp the distance of socks, pay attention to the scale, tacit understanding with each other, and be natural in order to last for a long time.

Falling in love is a process of mutual communication and understanding between two people, and it requires attention to detail and careful management. What are the details we should care about in a relationship? Let me share my opinion.

Communicate the details. Communication is a very important part of love, and one of the details in love is to communicate details. When two people are communicating, they should pay attention to details such as tone, expression, and eyes, which can convey emotions and information.

If we express ourselves in a tone that is too tough or impatient, it can make the other person feel uncomfortable. Therefore, in a relationship, we should try to maintain a gentle tone so that the other person can feel our love and respect.

Always pay attention to the needs of the other person.

In a relationship, we should always pay attention to the needs of the other person. This includes not only material needs, but also emotional and spiritual needs. We need to pay attention to the emotional state of the other person, pay attention to the other person's feelings and psychological needs, and try to meet them.

This can make the other person feel noticed and loved, enhancing the relationship between two people.

Know how to show love.

In love, an important detail is knowing how to express love. We can show our love through words, actions, and gifts. Sometimes, even small gestures, such as pouring a glass of water for the other person or hugging the other person, can make the other person feel our love.

These details can enhance the sense of intimacy and emotional connection between two people.

Respect each other's differences.

Everyone has their own personalities, hobbies, habits, etc., so we should respect each other's differences in love. When we understand each other's hobbies and preferences, we can consider and change in certain details to better suit each other. However, we should also respect each other's individuality and differences, and not try to change each other or force each other to accept our ideas.

Protect your promises and commitments.

In love, we should guard the promises and commitments between each other. Promises and promises are based on trust, and if we fail to protect them, it will destroy the trust relationship between two people, which in turn will affect the quality of the relationship. Therefore, we need to remind ourselves to keep our promises and agreements at all times in love, and ensure that what we say and do can be fulfilled, so as to enhance the trust and affection between us.

Chain suspicion nucleus. Attention to detail. The details of a relationship also include small things, such as remembering each other's birthdays, important anniversaries, and date times, among others. These details can make the other person feel noticed and loved, and can also enhance the relationship between two people.

In addition, in a relationship, you should also pay attention to the details of your personal image, such as dressing neatly, speaking civilly, and so on. These details can add to our charm and make the other person appreciate and respect us more.

In short, in a relationship, we need to always pay attention to various details and try to meet each other's needs and ideas. Through small details, we can get to know each other better, enhance the relationship and trust between each other, and then promote the stability and longevity of the relationship.

The emotional value in love is very important, and the relationship between two people is accumulated bit by bit. The so-called relaxation in love is actually to give the other party space or freedom moderately, don't be tense all the time, or love you, you can't do without each other, emotional stability can add a lot of points in love.

People who are emotionally stable and have a backbone are really rare! The sense of relaxation in love is really important.

There will always be times when people are lost and do wrong things, and when the other party expresses their uneasiness and anxiety, instead of cynicism and blame, comfort is what is most needed at the moment! I'm a person who is anxious and in a hurry when something happens, but fortunately, Miao Miao is my backbone, when I am in a hurry and in a hurry. Miao Miao will be very calm to solve the problem.

There are many things to go through when two people are together, and if the partner is emotionally stable, it will greatly reduce the anxiety of both parties. The sense of relaxation in love is really important. Be relaxed with others, don't be too sensitive and anxious yourself, and you will find that life is still beautiful.

If we don't pursue a perfect score of love, we can't do it ourselves, after all, human nature is there.

Everyone was attracted to each other at first, why did it take a lot of effort to maintain it later, no one wants to do that.

Don't let the other party constantly compromise and change for us, and don't let yourself always be in the mood of gaining and losing.

We should establish a balance of light and comfortable comfort, so that each shining point will always exist, rather than gradually becoming less like ourselves.

If you can't achieve this balance, then separate, and there is no need to make the experience so boring.

More important than your partner's emotional stability is your own emotional stability.

I don't know how many times I have encountered my partner's emotional excitement, and the only thing to do is to be stable so that there will not be too many problems.

A stable partner can make it easier for you to talk about money, but in general, self-cultivation is more important to you.

Through this emotional experience, we can make ourselves more stable and relaxed, which is the most important truth in our lives.

The most important thing for others to change is their own stability.