Men just want to play with you and really like your men s performance?

The starting point for a guy who just wants to play with you is to make himself happy, such as only talking to you when he is bored; When I talk to you, I only talk about the topics I am interested in, and I am not curious about your affairs; Appointments to meet you are always temporary, and there will be no special time reserved for you to make arrangements; Once your behavior makes him feel unsatisfied, he will disappear or give you a look; The act of pursuing you is passionate, but it doesn't last long......

Boys who really like you will appear cowardly and cautious: when they ask you out, they will plan long in advance and carefully ask for your opinion; The meeting will be very gentlemanly, and will not say some inappropriate love words at every turn; Will remember the little things you say casually and try to satisfy your ...... as much as possible

In short, people who really like you are more affectionate and clumsy.

If a man just wants to play with you and doesn't treat you as a thing, then he will only perfunctory you no matter what he is doing or in words, and will not really care about you, thinking that there are rhetoric to antique you, but if a man really likes you, he will take you to heart, listen to your words and try it, always show that he likes you, and always act to warm you and make you feel his sure for you

One of the questions that many girls who come to me for counseling often ask is, is he sincere to me?

The reason why girls value this issue is because in ancient times, if a woman chose the wrong man, the woman could starve to death, and the survival of herself and her children would be gone.

However, most of the girls are wrong, they mistakenly think that by extending the observation time, they can see whether the other party is sincere to them.

Indeed, extending the observation time can filter out a part of the **operation**.

But it will also filter out some people who really like you and test you.

As we said before, when a man likes a woman, part of it is perseverance, and the comprehensive value of this part of the person is mostly lower than yours.

But there are most men with similar comprehensive value, who will not invest too much at first at once, at most they will be tempting, and then observe the girls' feedback on themselves, and then consider whether to invest further; If the feedback from the girls is not good, most of them have other options and will not hang themselves from a tree.

Therefore, it is a mistake to pursue an early extension of observation time to judge whether a man is sincere about you.

Because boys know that girls want to see their sincerity before agreeing to be their girlfriends, they will definitely disguise and boast to a certain extent, and even conversation, interests, preferences and outlook on life may be just a show, which is not difficult to understand, after all, others are pursuing you, and they will naturally want to show the good side and persuade you.

Since it is a performance, since he is excessively good to you, and it is not his usual appearance, then it is inevitable that this state will not last.

Here, there is also a love misunderstanding, girls are easy to compare the stability period and the pursuit period in the relationship, and the answer is, you don't love me anymore.

Men in the pursuit period regard you as the center of their lives, and everything revolves around you, which is love.

But after the relationship enters a stable period, he has to work, he has to maintain interpersonal relationships, this is life.

Love is only a part of life, but the biggest mistake most women make is to equate love with life.

Therefore, it depends on whether this man is working hard for your common future, and only at this time can you see whether this man is sincere to you.

So, when a man is just courting you, you can't tell if the man is sincere about you.

You have to enter the deep water of the relationship to see if this man is sincere to you.

During the pursuit period, you can only judge whether the man has enough investment, time, mind and money to chase you.

A man just wants to play with you, which is manifested in the fact that you are his tool to pass the time, and he will not worry about missing you in his heart, and he will not spend too much money on you, he has not thought about having a future with you, and the person who really likes you is just the opposite.

Just playing is not caring about you, as long as he is happy, but he who really likes you will care about you very warmly and treat you as his own relatives.

A man who just wants to play with you will spend you some money and will satisfy your vanity and romance, but will not accompany you, and only those who really like you will appear when you need it and pamper it within the bottom line.

I'm just a boy, let me tell you, if a guy really likes you, he won't do too much to you, if he doesn't love you just for his needs, and always calls you to do that, then he definitely doesn't love you, and he will break up with you in a short time, if he loves you, he will respect your choice, even if you are not together.

No, there is no specific characterization, if there were, there would not be so many injuries.

If a man really likes you, the economic aspect is not the main thing, the real main thing is to be willing to spend time with you, and the guy who is willing to spend time with you must like you, if a person just blindly gives you money, it means that the man is just having fun!

Those who really like you will care about you.

If I don't like you, I usually just perfunctory you and don't care about you at all.

Responsible. Have a heart, respect you, and take you as the master. aqui te amo。

Not necessarily, but it must have an idea for you.

When a man treats you well on the surface and just wants to have fun in his heart, he will have these 4 performances.

This doesn't mean anything, the so-called time can see people's hearts. It takes time for the relationship between two people to grind.

A man who really likes you may make you feel too gentlemanly.

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to be consistent.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Fourth, learn to be understanding others, which is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And if you forget what you have said or heard in your anger one day earlier, and forgive each other or yourself one day earlier, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.

Let's just put it this way. You're going to get married to him right now. Then after a while, they will get married directly.

If he doesn't agree to marry right away. It's basically just playing. Of course.

Just in love, this kind of little young man is not counted in it. Because they're just impulsive.

If you start talking sweetly and doing your hands and feet, it's probably just playing.

When he lies to you and does wrong things, he behaves very unnaturally; likes to have an affair with you and will not confirm the relationship; I like to play disappearing.,This next person will always think about accompanying him.。

Ignores you, doesn't take you to heart, is very perfunctory to you, doesn't spend money on you, doesn't give you gifts, doesn't help you introduce you to his friends.

I don't take the initiative to contact you, there are a lot of ambiguous objects around me, I don't disclose your relationship, I always want to see you alone, and I will be gentle when I use you, etc.