Is it because I m brutal that they just want to be friends with me, not with me?

Not necessarily, I'm sure you've watched "My Sassy Girlfriend", right? You see that the person in the movie is also savage, but she also has touching happiness, isn't it. I don't think there's any need to be in such a hurry about your boyfriend, the love that comes may not be long, maybe there will be your future partner in the future.

But it's good to change your personality to be more restrained, because you are you, there is no need to change, the 2nd floor is right, when you fall in love with someone, you will change, first of all, do you have a fancy? If you have to try to communicate with him, if not, even if someone chases you, it doesn't make sense, if you yourself feel that your personality is not good now, change your personality, if you think you are good now, there is no need to change, of course, it's best not to go too far, after all, it's not a girl. Haha, I hope you are happy

You say learn to say no to others! You're not afraid of losing with so many boys! How can you marry someone in the future without a little femininity!

Read more books when you're fine! How nice it is to be a fasting girl! Who would dare to fall in love with you with such a girl!

Even if you dare to say most of it, it's just for fun! You have to find your problem from the bottom of your heart, and I think there will be boys who understand you! The more spicy the girl is, the better it will be for his boyfriend!

You should have chosen him! He's yours! You have to learn to accept what you can accept, you have to learn to accept others, you know?

Good luck

Yes. Everyone's personality is different.

But I guess most men don't like sassy girlfriends.

However, when you meet someone who really likes you, he shouldn't mind.

The men above are all for you Don't tell the truth I can tell you Women just want to be gentle Give me 10,000 Li Yuchun I'm not rare Women have to learn to be coquettish You are suitable for finding someone you have never met to fall in love The first impression should give him a gentle feeling Understand? Be spoiled !! Let's go!

Your true love has not yet appeared.

However, when true love appears, be brave to love and take the initiative to fight for it.

No, I think you're cute, and I'd like to associate with you if you want.

When you really like a man, I guess you'll change.

There's nothing wrong with the eldest sister.

In fact, you have people around you who love you.

Hehe, everyone has their own personality, and everyone has their own favorite object!

Don't change it! Yours will come one day.

It's not worth it because of that.

Lie to you once and there will be a second time.

Less damage.

No, I hate people who cheat on me the most.

Multiple friends have multiple paths, friends and "friends" are not the same, there is no need to fall out.

It depends on what the problem is that the breakup is about. If one party is unfaithful to the other, then don't talk about any feelings, because I am afraid that they will do it again in the future. Other reasons such as family, finance, distance, job, etc., can be overcome.

Loyalty is the bottom line, and love is not an emotion that can be shared.

Hard. Friends who are constantly entangled do not make people comfortable.

It is difficult for two people who have truly loved each other to become friends again once they break up.

According to what you said, "she said that she couldn't reply to my messages many times, but she couldn't" I personally think that she doesn't have you in her heart, the first is that she may be reluctant to agree to you because she is reserved and embarrassed, and the second is that she deliberately said that to see if you are sincere to her, and whether your feelings for him can stand the test of time and space. The third is that she has her own grievances, maybe her family doesn't agree and so on. Since you don't want to give up on her, let's take it one step at a time, so don't push her too much now, you try to communicate with her more tactfully, find out the reason and then solve it.

The relationship between you is a childhood sweetheart, but this kind of love is destined to be just memories, very beautiful memories.

It's not like there is a saying that two people who are too familiar can only be friends and confidants forever, and it is impossible to become lovers.

How many first loves can become forever? What you can't let go of is the first time in your heart. Feelings are a matter of two people, and wishful thinking is painful and silly.

For girls, tears can't move love. For boys, waiting is impossible to get love. This is the law.

Being a friend can be a friend forever, but if you are a lover, you may become a stranger in the future. Asking for nothing, all she got was her bored expression and scars all over her body.

The advice for you is: 1. Keep waiting, but don't push her too hard, give her enough space, she may be testing you, maybe she really doesn't feel for you. If she has you in her heart, she will miss your good, but this is very painful and hard.

And, it doesn't always have the results you want. 2. Let go. Persuade yourself to look away, and liking does not mean love.

No one has to hang themselves from a tree. It's also good to be friends, isn't it? Miss the wind and you will reap the rain.

Even if you miss out on the most beautiful scenery in the world, there must be a girl waiting for you at the end.

Childhood sweethearts' love affair!

She doesn't want to give up because she hasn't found a boyfriend yet, making you desperate.

Let's work hard, do something to move her.

Good luck with you.

Some people are too familiar. On the contrary, there is no sense of mystery, and they are separated for a while. If each of you needs each other, you will achieve positive results.

When friends insist on being together, the result is that they have lost friends for more than 10 years, and they want to open up such a relationship is very good and beautiful, so why break it.

Well, feelings really can't be forced. While it is best to give up intellectually, I support you to continue. Also, what do you like about her?

You understand? Do everything you can and save yourself from regrets. If it's irreparable, give up like a man.

Alas....Those who are suffering from this pass by.

If you can't be a friend, he already hates you, and it's okay to be a friend on your behalf, but you can only be a friend, the kind that you usually contact.

Being friends after a breakup shows that they have never really loved each other. It's better not to be a friend or an enemy. Can only be a stranger.

Since the two have ever loved each other.

I didn't have that fate to go on.

It's better not to be friends.

Then you will be embarrassed to both sides.

If to be friends.

It shows that he still has a little affection for you.

But it's not a lover's kind of emotion.

More ordinary than the average friend.

Do you think you'll feel better about yourself?

Think about it yourself.

Now that they have broken up.

Why be nostalgic???

You can't be friends, he's just really tired of you.

He still has a little affection for you.

So let's just say don't start a relationship lightly.

Tell her that you hope that you have a career first, so that you can make your parents' lives better, don't talk about emotional matters. You could say that you don't think about anything right now, and you don't have the energy. Time will solve everything, trust me.

The recommended answers are basically self-soothing types that are detached from social reality, and if you deal with them according to the recommended answers, you will not be far from tragedy, and I am a typical example!! My point of view is the same as that of several people upstairs, which is to cut it off with him and be thorough. You may not be able to bear it, but you can't help it, and that's the way it is.

You're always looking for a boyfriend, and if you get close to him, what will your boyfriend think? Even if your boyfriend understands you, what do your boyfriend's family and friends think of your boyfriend, and can your boyfriend withstand this pressure? It's even more terrible after getting married, I'm not good at expressing it, can you understand what I mean when I say so much?

Why not accept it? Have you ever thought about transforming it into love?,If you can, you might be happy.。。 If you can't do it, you can only say it directly, if he cares about you, he will not leave you, and will continue to be friends with you, come on! Wishing you happiness.

Tactfully rejected him....But to say that good people are good friends....He will definitely respect your decision....

This kind of thing is very common, if you want to do it without hurting the other party, find a time to talk about it, pay attention to the tone to be tactful, so that he understands that you treat him, just like a sister to a brother.

Let's put it bluntly, moving is not heartbeat, if you go down for a long time, he will think that he has a chance, and it will be more troublesome at that time.

Cold treatment, even if it is confessed, it must be frankly refused. And said that he has always regarded him as an elder brother! The more this kind of thing is concealed, the more it hurts!

It's very simple, you tell him that I treat you as a brother, and then say that lovers, lovers, and lovers will eventually become relatives. Some may not become relatives but become enemies, so let's go directly past the three people in front of us, and I will directly treat you as a relative.

Watch more TV, the more you can learn... = =

Yes, but it's hard, and if you can't, don't ask for it.

It's good to be friends, but there are few, I said that I became friends after I broke up with him, but in reality, they are friends, but in fact, it is difficult to date as friends.

There is no pure friendship from lover to friend.

If you become friends, you will eventually become a pure relationship between men and women.

I don't think there is a real friendship between men and women, and after the breakup, I still have some thoughts in my heart: I want to be together, the long pain is better than the short pain, and after the breakup, I don't have a friend so that I will get used to not being together for a few days, and I will get used to being strangers, and I won't be happy even if I am a friend. When you become a friend, you will start to fantasize about becoming a lover again, which is not very good, and it is not very realistic, really, I have experienced it firsthand

Yes. But only if you don't feel any feelings for her or for you.

No, since they are two people who have loved each other, how can you bear him being with someone else, and endure him giving his feelings for you to another person. In many cases, it is easy for former lovers to do things that you do not agree with intellectually, and it is easy to regret them. Parting is a new beginning, and don't let yourself dwell on the past.

Totally possible! As long as they love each other in the true sense of the word, they don't subconsciously possess each other. Of course, both parties must have a deep understanding of the reasons for the breakup. After all, the deep development of love will evolve into true family affection.

Most of the breakups are because they know each other too well, if you can get to know her and accompany her as a friend at one time, why not? But you have to make sure if you're just trying to be friends with her.

Yes! Because"Still friends"!

Personal preference: Some people can, some people can't.

It's better not to.

Very few past lovers can truly become friends.

No, I think if you can still be friends, it means that you don't love deeply enough!

No, it will be embarrassing, and once the old relationship is **, it will cause serious consequences.

I don't feel like I've hurt each other.

It may be that you want to re-evaluate your relationship, calm down for a while before making plans, you have to be vigilant and don't let people take advantage of it.

There is a third party, you have to be vigilant.

Yes, feelings are not something that can be forgotten if you want to, and you will be a stranger when you break up.

Maybe, I've just broken up, and I can't be friends for the time being.

It's better not to, if you really love, it will only make you sadder, or forget.

Psyche will have a shadow, right? Generally speaking, it is unlikely to be possible?? If it's divided, why are you thinking about it, so why are you killing brain cells?

Forget it, think about tomorrow, right?

Forget it about being friends!

Didn't you say don't see each other after a breakup?

Being able to be friends means that there is still a relationship between you, and after a breakup, you know who or whose arms the other party has entered, think about the taste of heartache!

It's better not to!

It would be nice if she went to a place far away and couldn't be reached! Just bless her in your heart! If you can, it's best not to even think about it!

Don't think about him anymore, don't love him anymore.

Let time fly quietly and erase the memories of both of you.

His name will never be mentioned again.

Don't let sorrow take over your heart.

Let it go with the wind, let it be traceless.

All happiness and sorrow, all the past, are thrown away.

It will no longer be him who thinks and longs and hopes for.

I don't want to bear it anymore, I want to forget him.

You will wipe away the tears you accidentally shed.

And pretend that everything doesn't matter.

Smash all his and your love to pieces.

And then drive it all out of your wounded heart.

A way to forget the gentleness of him:

You don't think about him anymore, you don't love him anymore.

I won't mention it again, there is no other person in your life!!

Love is the easiest thing to resurrect under the right conditions, so if you don't want you to still have love, don't be friends anymore, or what if it happens someday? It may affect your new life.

Broken up, you want to be friends because you still love him. If he still loves you, you won't break up. Don't let him hurt you anymore.

can't be lovers but become friends, the change between them is from love to friendship, so if there is no emotion is incomplete, it is that this relationship is based on friendship. If you can do it, that's probably a good thing. The main thing is whether the individual's psychology can open the mind.