How can you not care about those who hate you?

When they are turnips, a group of large turnips.

Maybe Xi Murong's words can help you, After looking back, I realized that all the efforts in my life were just for the people around me to be satisfied with me, and in order to win the praise and smile of others, I trembled and put myself into all the modes and all the shackles. On the way, I suddenly realized that I was left with a vague face and a road from which there was no turning back.

In front of the annoying person, you don't have to be too emotional at all. It is yourself who is controlled by emotions and hurts.

Instead of turning your face and ruining the face of both parties, it is better to stay calm and learn not to show your face.

When dealing with people you hate, you should always put on a calm appearance, so that he can't catch you.

Use calmness to suppress inner dissatisfaction, and hide your dislike for others with silence, not only will you not hurt others, but you will also appear to be very cultivated and have high emotional intelligence.

Keep the distance between the leaky shirts and ignore them.

Since you hate a person very much, don't always appear in front of him, and learn to keep your distance from him, which is the best way to deal with it.

As the saying goes, "out of sight is clean", try to keep a certain distance from him to avoid intersection, so that he will not affect your emotions.

If you really can't do it without any intersection, then it's best not to deal with him. No matter how much he jumps in front of you, you choose to turn a blind eye and turn a deaf ear.

If you argue with him every time and let everyone know that you hate him, you will be the one who will be affected in the end.

Others will think that you are too calculating, too stingy, and over time, few people will be willing to deal with you.

Learning to keep your distance from the people you hate and being unreasonable can not only make you feel at peace in front of you, but also show your high emotional intelligence, so why not?

Strengthen yourself, suppress strength

In the face of the person you hate, you need to settle an account: is it cost-effective to spend your time on him, or is it cost-effective to spend it on yourself?

Presumably no one would choose the former, because spending time on someone you hate is just wasting your own life.

In the face of the person you hate, the best thing to do is to strengthen yourself and use your strength to suppress him. Only by making yourself strong first can you truly be fearless.

1.Avoid contact: If you can avoid contact with that annoying person, you can reduce the emotional burden on the potato waiter. If you have to make contact, you can control your emotions and try to be polite and calm.

2.Don't dwell on the details: Don't overthink or analyze that person's actions and words, which will only annoy yourself more. Learn to let go of details and focus on something more positive.

3.Find supporters: Find people you can trust and support and share your feelings and worries with them. This can help you reduce your psychological burden and get more support and advice.

4.Pay attention to your emotions: When you meet someone who makes you uncomfortable, you should learn to pay attention to your emotions and relieve your emotions through some ways, such as exercising, listening, writing a diary, etc.

5.Learn to be tolerant and understanding: Learn to be tolerant and understanding despite hating that person. Understand that everyone has flaws and mistakes, and maybe that person's actions are not directed at you personally. Try to understand their behaviour and learn to tolerate their shortcomings.

Most importantly, keep a positive mindset and don't let someone you don't like affect your mood and life.

Hello, I understand your feelings very well! In our lives, we will inevitably meet people who hate liquids, so we must learn to deal with it correctly, otherwise we will be very troubled by our mood.

1.Ignore the other person and avoid communication as much as possible, focus on your own things, as long as there is not too much intersection, it will not affect your emotions too much.

2.Adjusting your mentality and ignoring each other is actually the best response, let him do all kinds of things, you turn a blind eye, and live your own life is the most powerful counterattack.

3.Stay away from each other. When you feel like you can't ignore the other person, you can only try to stay away.

In short, when you hate someone, the best way is not to quarrel, but to avoid quarrels and stay away, so that you can avoid your mood being affected to the greatest extent!

I hope you keep your mood happy and happy every day!