Emotional, material, all general, no common language 50

It seems that you are a very rational person, you know what you want, life is always not perfect, the so-called willing, there will always be this and not that. Have you thought about it, maybe because he is not very strong in all aspects, so he is very good to you, if he is not very good in all aspects, and he is not good to you, then how can you be by his side. However, it is obvious that you are not satisfied with such a good, in fact, material, you are still young, you can accumulate and fight, it is difficult to be rich and expensive, but it should be possible to live a stable life, but you feel that 2 people do not have a common language, this problem is bigger, since you can no longer satisfy you, leave, otherwise you will only be resentful in the future, in fact, when you have such a mentality, you have hurt him, maybe he is just a person who lives a small life, you are not suitable for him, leaving is good for everyone.

But you have to weigh the other risks, will you find someone better than him? What if your next one might be worse than him? Or he has more money, but he spends less time with you, and treats you worse, people make up for each other and make progress together, you have to think about this.

It is human instinct to pursue a sense of security, and there is nothing wrong with wanting to live well. If you can't live a hard life with him, break up early.

Nowadays, people are more materialistic, love is not food, don't let the sweet love now let yourself be lost, and after marriage, you will understand how realistic life is.

1 You don't want to hurt him Just decide early, 2 how much he loves you will work hard.

3. What is created together will be more meaningful.

4 Whatever you choose is right, live for yourself.

Feelings arise through appreciation, and although there is no common language, if you appreciate each other in your heart, you will love each other.

A common language is simply understood as two people who have something to say together; Affection is the gratitude, touching, and gratitude that arises spontaneously from two people living together, as well as the resulting feelings, hearts, and emotional resonance.

In modern society, the standard of living is high, and the ideological consciousness of young people has shifted from the material life to the spiritual life, and the level has transitioned to a higher demand.

The best way is to slowly develop a common language at work, and then develop feelings, that is, love over time.

There are three types of feelings in each of our lives: family, love, and friendship.

1. Family affection includes: the love between parents and children, brotherhood, sisterhood, brother and sister, sister and brother. Their affection is gradually cultivated in the process of living together since childhood, and their common language is limited to the family, and the common language with others in study and work still needs to be cultivated in the process of common understanding.

2. Love is the feelings and common language of two people who love each other need to gradually produce in the process of acquaintance, getting along and understanding each other, and because of the growth of time together, the feelings are gradually enhanced.

Two men and women who have a common language are easy to have feelings at work and get along, and it can also be said that the common language is one of the reasons why they have feelings.

Third, friendship is a necessary and indispensable affection in everyone's life, "a hero three gangs", that is, a person's success, need the help of many friends, even if a person's ability is extraordinary, want to rely on a person's ability to make a difference, it is difficult to become famous.

Fourth, there is no common language, but also the phenomenon of being able to produce feelings appeared between husband and wife in the past, at that time, men and women did not kiss, did not know each other, did not understand, and were able to live together, relying on the orders of their parents and the words of matchmakers.

As long as the parents agree, the matchmaker is responsible for passing the message back and forth, telling the mother-in-law's request to the mother-in-law's family, and then telling the mother-in-law's reply to the woman's parents, so that the marriage between the two families can be successfully completed in this way.

5. Everything on the earth has its own "language" and feelings, and the wind, rain, thunder and lightning, and the cycle of the four seasons are the silent language of nature, which they use to tell us the cycle of the sun and the moon and the transformation of the four seasons; **, mudslides, sandstorms are the earth's "feelings", they use this brutal, cruel way, to remind us to cherish the environment, do not destroy nature, do not indiscriminately hunt and kill wild animals, once the balance of nature is broken, natural disasters will suddenly come to us, so that we can not prevent it, powerless, can only pay a more painful price.

Sixth, there is no common language, and if you want to have feelings, you can only cultivate them slowly together, so although it seems difficult, as long as both parties are not bored and hated, they will also fall in love for a long time.

If there is no common language, then you can only rely on the appearance of both parties to generate feelings, and there is always an advantage that the other party can feel.