When someone confesses to you, do you prefer to be direct or subtle?

Updated on amusement 2024-02-15
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When it comes to confession, I prefer to be more straightforward.

    First, love itself is a hazy thing, and subtlety can be misleading。The most direct purpose of the confession is to pierce the window paper between the two people, it's good to be generous, why twist and pinch, read it. A bunch of poems that are "like rain, like fog and like flowers", just don't say I love you.

    In the end, the two of them couldn't guess what the result was, and then the relationship between the two people really became like rain, fog and flowers. So there are a lot of disadvantages in expressing it implicitly in love. How many people implicitly miss the person they want to love in the end, Geng Geng Yuhuai is just a distance away from a sentence I love you, because of implicitly, Sudoku, and misunderstanding, the last two people have missed so many years in their lives.

    Confession itself is a courageous thing, you have already mustered up enough courage to confess, why not borrow a little more courage to be direct?

    Secondly, the implicit expression of love depends on the object itself。If the person you want to confess to is not on the same frequency as you, you have done a lot of things, you have written love poems, but the other party can't understand them at all, this completely loses the meaning of confession. You don't get the results you want, and the person you're confessing to is confused.

    Just like in "Little Beauty", Gu Weiyi confessed to Situ Mo, and the carefully prepared confession letter, Situ Mo couldn't understand it at all, how embarrassing. A simple "I like you" can solve all problems, so why go far?

    Above, I want to say, what I prefer is a straightforward confession, no twists and turns, no painstaking guesses, how many people end up separated because of implicit guesses, how many people implicitly end up missing each other, love is not a game of guessing each other, nor is it a show off that shows how romantic and emotional you are, love is simply I love you and you love me, and you don't need so much formalism.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'd like to be direct, I don't like the feelings of guessing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm a more reserved person, so when someone confesses to me, it's better to be subtle.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I feel that if it happens to be someone I like, I will be direct, and if it is someone I don't like, then I will reject it implicitly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If the person I like is single, I will not hesitate to confess to him if I am very clear about my feelings.

    1. Fate is hard-won, and opportunities are fleeting.

    There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to not know each other on the other side. Fate is a very subtle and ineffable existence, as the saying goes, fate is destined, and mortals can't figure it out.

    If God gives me a chance to meet someone I like, I will definitely be brave and take the initiative, maybe the slightest hesitation, I will lose it forever.

    Do you remember Kim Jung-hwan in "Please 1988"? He and Cheng Deshan are difficult to settle in the hearts of many people! It's because of his countless hesitations, missed countless opportunities, and in the end he can only watch the person he likes be with others.

    Second, I don't know which one will come first, the accident or tomorrow.

    More than 200 million people have been infected with the new crown pneumonia around the world, millions of refugees in Afghanistan have been displaced and the situation is precarious, and the torrential rains in Zhengzhou have killed more than 300 people and left dozens ...... missing

    Not to mention the war years of the past, a goodbye can be a farewell. Let's just say that in this era of peace, floods, **, tornadoes, car accidents, diseases, mudslides, people lose their lives every moment.

    Life is really fragile, what reason is there to hesitate there? Love should be said out loud, and don't become regretful.

    3. All greatness in the world stems from a brave beginning, and love is no exception.

    If you want a good love, you must have a brave confession. The confession is "1", all the sweetness is "0", without this "1", everything can only be fantasy.

    If you take this step and succeed, then reap a sweet love; If you are rejected, then you can choose to continue to work hard, or you can choose to let it go. But if you never dare to take this step, then your time will be wasted in the entanglement, and you may never get this feeling.

    There is a saying that confession is confession in the world, and I don't agree with this statement. If two people want to confirm the relationship, they must pierce this layer of window paper, otherwise they will either be unrequited all the time or be used as a spare tire. There is always someone who wants to confess first, how will you know if you are going both ways without action?

    There is a joke that when you meet someone you like, you must confess, it doesn't matter if you are ugly, in case he is blind.

    I wish a lover a family member.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    will confess, but also hope that the two of them can come together, no matter what the final outcome is, and I don't want to leave regrets, so I will try.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course, I will confess to the person I like, because if I don't confess, if I get separated, then I will never be found again, and I must know my love for him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I will, it's a beautiful thing to have someone I like, I will confess to him, show my heart, and don't let myself have regrets.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Definitely. If the person you like doesn't know that you like him, then he will definitely not accept you, so we must be brave to confess to the person we like, and be brave enough to tell him that you like him and you love him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It won't be because liking someone is from the heart, involuntarily approaching, there is no need for a special confession, and those confessions that play routines are untrue.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm a girl, and I won't take the initiative to confess to the other party, because I'm afraid that the other party doesn't care about me, and he will confess to me if he likes me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Absolutely. If you don't confess, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Those who dare to take responsibility will definitely take the initiative to confess and will not retreat, so that they can get happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course, I will confess, because I think it is not easy to meet someone you like, so you should take the initiative when you meet someone you like.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, I will confess to the person I love and the person who loves me, and the most beautiful thing in the world is such a friendship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, I personally think I will confess what I like, but the person who first says love often pays the most.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course I confess to someone I like, but I prefer to confess when I'm sure. For example, if the other party has a good impression of me, I will confess it as a matter of course, because because the other party has no good impression of me, I may have a crush and will not confess.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    As long as I have the opportunity, I will confess to the person I like, but how to seize this opportunity? I still need you to pay more attention to his dynamics, once I find out that his recent performance, or his recent dynamics are more negative, then I may take the initiative to confess, I think my confession can bring him some positive energy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Ah, actually, it's normal to want to confess with your favorite, because if you want to confess with your favorite you are the most excited, because if you're with you, you're still together, no matter what you do, you're very happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's definitely going to happen

    If it's someone you like, then you should still confess, otherwise how will the other party know that he likes you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course, I will confess to the person I like that I need to fight for my happiness so as not to miss it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I will confess to the person I like, if I don't confess, my heart will definitely be very sad, and it will be very sad, so I will tell my feelings to the person I like.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Some people will confess, but some people will not, because he is afraid that what will happen if he is rejected will be very embarrassing, and then he will not even be able to make friends. So I'll be in a relationship to a certain extent.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course I will confess to the person I like, because it takes courage to like someone, and then if you don't confess, how can you be together? .

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The person you like has to be confessed. It's rare to meet someone you like, so you have to do what you like, and you feel very happy to confess success.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If I meet someone I like, I will definitely find time to confess to him, I feel that if I love someone or like someone, I have to confess and say the truest words in my heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I am an extroverted person, I can't hide things in my heart, if I like someone, I will definitely confess to him, because my character is the kind of fiery character, okay is not good, is parallel, give a good time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Then of course I will confess to the person I like, otherwise, should I confess to the person I hate?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Definitely, if you like someone, you definitely want to be with him, if you don't confess, how uncomfortable it is.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If this person I really like, like and like very much, even if the chance of success is very small, I will try (maybe the other party also likes you a little but does not show it) emotional things, there must be someone who takes the initiative, since I already like it, then do it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There's a girl who confesses to you that you like her too, and you must accept it in this case, The girls have confessed, you still like others, you should actively cooperate, take the initiative to accept, and behave well in the future, so that you can carry out your love sweetly.

    The relationship between the two of you has lasted for two years, the other party has confessed to you many times, you have rejected each other, and you have not given up, and have been pursuing you, at this time you accept it and don't give up on each other again. There is a girl who likes you to pursue you, you should be the happiest man, dad saves his happiness, don't regret it when you lose it.

    How much courage does it take for a girl to confess to you, to overcome the humiliation of failure. must have struggled for a long time in her heart, in order to be with you, she let go of the reserve that a girl should have, in the face of love, her thinking is very simple, as long as they are together, it doesn't matter who takes the initiative. When a woman can move a man, he will come to you even if she is standing still, and when a man can move a woman, even if he takes a step back, she will take 101 steps forward.

    Women's dignity for love is not so important.

    In fact, it is better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves you, especially when a woman chases you, the relationship can be cultivated slowly. You also like her, I hope you can treat her well and find you happy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There is a girl who confesses to you, you like her, and she will accept it. Everyone likes each other, and it just so happens that she confesses again, and she will definitely accept it happily.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Although liking does not mean that it is love, the basis of love is to like each other. Since they like each other, one party takes the initiative to confess, and usually accepts it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In fact, chasing girls should also pay attention to some skills, you can't chase stupidly, first of all, you must know what kind of person you like, don't be too demanding according to your own conditions. Then you want to be a sincere place, meet what you like to take the initiative to send your love and sincerity, if you like her, you will have more contact with her, more contact, you will be patient to communicate with her! Use your own heart to do more touching things for her That girl is sensible, you'd better be as sensible as her Whenever she's unhappy, you make her happy When she's happy, rejoice with her When she's in trouble, you show up at the first moment to help her, as long as you are loving, you like her, and give everything in front of her for her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Accept it, now there are not many people who want each other, and it is fate that the world is so big that you can meet people who both like you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Since you like her too, why reject her? I think if it's been going on for two years, then this girl must be serious about liking you, so if you also like her After careful consideration, let's be together, don't miss the person you like, sometimes if you miss it, you will never meet again.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If a girl confesses to you, and you like him, they must agree, if you don't agree, if you miss this time, it's very likely that you will be wrong in this life.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Listen to your description, you also like her, and you have been together for two years, it is better to accept it, try to get along in the way of lovers, it is really not suitable, and then separate, the girl will die.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's very puzzling that since you also like her, why do you refuse, and she has been chasing you for two years if she has been rejecting for two years, and I like her too, so I will definitely accept it.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    See if you really like her, if you really want to be with her, since you also like her, why don't you take the initiative to confess, now that other girls have taken the initiative to confess, you are hesitant to accept her confession.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Accept it, it's too hard to find someone you like and she likes you right now.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Since we both like each other, why not accept it!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Wouldn't it be nice to like each other, if only I would have accepted it?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Let's do it and cherish it, in this era of fast food love, it's not easy to have such a girl, and if you miss it, it's too late to regret it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    This may be the annoyance of homosexuality, which requires the tools of fertility to accept.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Since I like it myself. Why not?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Rejected countless times, you are not afraid to play overboard, do it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    In fact, a crush is an idea that many of us will have, but there are many people who dare not confess. After all, he doesn't know what the consequences will be after saying it, if this person doesn't accept him, then he may not even have to be a friend. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is a kind of inferiority complex that is causing trouble, I don't know if I can be accepted by others, and I am also afraid of the feeling of rejection, so I can only put this like silently in my heart, and dare not say it out loud.

    But I think one of the most beautiful things in the world is when your crush suddenly confesses to you and she tells you that she likes you too, and I think that's really a happier thing than winning the lottery. I think when the person I love tells me about it, I feel very, very happy, and I think all my efforts are worth it, and it's a very good ending for us.

    And I think it's going to be a really shocking feeling, and it's hard to be confident that it's going to happen to me. And this is also a thing that many girls or boys look forward to, and it will directly make our hearts have a very perfect ending, and it will also be a new beginning for our relationship, because you love me and I love you, then we will definitely choose to be together.

    To be able to encounter this kind of thing, it is really very lucky, after all, not all people can have such a lucky, the person who is thinking of their hearts, they are also thinking about you, this situation is for us, we can remember it for a lifetime, even if we are not together in the future, then this experience is not comparable. It was also the most precious and happiest episode in our lives. If you can encounter such an opportunity, you must firmly grasp it, you must not give up on him, come on.

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