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Don't be rough with your parents, maybe they are under no less psychological pressure than you, he may have reasons why he can't tell your children, you can try to communicate with your parents, try to understand them, don't put yourself on the opposite side of your parents, after all, they are the closest people, and this may be the main reason why you are sad. You think that your father looks down on you and dislikes you, and the best thing to do is for you to work hard to do your job well, so that success at work proves that you are not a worthless person.
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If you really can't adapt to this kind of life, then it is recommended that you pack up your simple outfit and do what you like!
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If you really can't bear it, you might as well come out and breathe by yourself first, and choose which city to choose.
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My father is not only mentally ill, but also lazy, not filial, every time I come home on vacation, I basically have to see my dad and my grandfather trouble, I feel that he is like a stranger to my grandfather, always feel that my grandfather is taking advantage of him, a whole is to let my grandfather give money, once also discounted my grandfather ribs, from the beginning of my memory, the family is endless quarrels, I went to junior high school, began to study hard, just want to be admitted to college, leave the family, every time I see my father's ugly face of course, I just wanted to pick up the knife. The situation at home has made me very pessimistic, my grandparents have been working hard to farm, and when they are old, they will be bullied by my father, my aunt said that my grandfather used to love my father the most, and as a result, now my father is like this to my grandfather. I am now studying at a university more than 2,000 kilometers away from my home, and it is only in school that I can escape for a short time.
Today, because of the watering in the ground, there was a fuss again, and I felt very uncomfortable and could only resort to words to vent.
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If you want to die, you have to have courage, I understand very well, I have a waste father, he scolds people every day, the whole family is unhappy, he lives quite depressed, he doesn't want to talk, he doesn't want to see people, he hates him very much, it's been the same for 20 years.
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Me too, all, your own way, you can only walk by yourself, those hardships arranged by God for you, one is indispensable, we can only grit our teeth and persevere, after this, you will harvest maturity, since we have come to this world, we have to live well, in this life, don't be sad if you can be happy.
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I feel the same way, my family too, I really want to commit suicide, and then I let myself be optimistic, cheerful, and comfort myself. But it's still very hard. I especially hate some people who don't have back pain when they stand and talk, thinking that they are very moral and filial, and say some nice things, but in fact, they don't do anything to their parents, and we take care of the sick every day, and we do say that it is our duty.
Therefore, there are some things that cannot be said, unless you say it very well, otherwise you will be criticized by others, and you can only bear your own suffering, and others are others, and they will not think about you.
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I also have a mentally ill father in my family, and I feel it as deeply as you do, but now it's very painful, no one to talk to, and if you talk too much, you will let onlookers say that you are not filial, and I really want someone to talk to me.
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My father was also mentally ill when I was a kid and I wanted to get out of here a lot of times. But there is no way that blood is thicker than water, and every time I talk nonsense at home, and now in other cities, only my grandmother is taking care of him at home. The first time I confessed to the situation at home, she came to me in her pajamas, and I cried so much that I didn't know what to do.
I thought about facing these difficulties with her in the future, but one day my father was without my grandmother's care, and I didn't know what to do. I don't want to involve the subject but I really can't think of any more way, and I feel broken when I think about it at night.
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The same fate My father has been extremely depressed for more than 30 years, and I am very angry now, and I hate my mother, why do you want to find this kind of person, and I always want to escape from everything I am facing.
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Empathize, my dad is also mentally ill, my mom died when I was nine years old, since I was fourteen years old when he went out to work, I took care of him every time he was sick, I was really tired, sometimes I really broke down, I felt like I was dead.
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It's the same as you, don't say much, it's too bitter.
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The Bodhisattva Mahasattva, the king of the South no Land, life is suffering, the most pitiful thing for people is that they have no good parents, and they are poor, their father gambles money and plays cards and often loses, people are stupid, relatives and friends want to play cards and cheat him out of money. He treats his wife and son as enemies, has no sense of responsibility, never takes care of his family, and relies on his wife to make money to support the family and pay tuition, and he has to ask his wife for money to gamble. For more than 20 years, the family situation is slightly better and will be destroyed by this stupid father, maybe it is karma, others are so stupid and mentally ill, amnesia, narcolepsy, how confused and confused.
And I was born into this kind of family, and I was harmed by this kind of father. It can be seen that even parents are unjust creditors. What's more, others, whenever they meet, there is fate, there are few good fates, and there are many bad fates, this is life.
Even if you are reincarnated in the next life, it will be a flash in the pan, and you may be reincarnated and suffer again.
It's better to go back, recite the Buddha to survive in the world of bliss, don't engage in reincarnation again, resentment in three lifetimes of life, cultivation of blessings in the previous life for good, reincarnation in this life, and being the children of the rich and noble, but not hearing the Tao, enjoying the blessings, doing many evils, and falling and suffering, and suffering in life and life.
I hope that people who are destined can listen to the Tao and practice, and recite the Buddha to live in bliss. Life is reincarnated and suffering, don't be addicted. Let you be rich and rich, or you will create bad karma, and you will receive evil retribution, and you will be poor in the next life.
Or fall into three ways. Thousands of calamities suffer, and the world engages in reincarnation. I don't know what life it is.
Only when you have the fortune to hear the Dharma can you get rid of the sea of suffering. Why don't you cultivate now? Return to Elysium.
Reincarnation is too bitter, even if you become an emperor and become Li Ka-shing's son, you will inevitably suffer from reincarnation. I don't know which life you will be reincarnated as the child of the wicked, I don't know which life you will be reincarnated as the child of the kind of person you hate most, and I don't know which life you will be the child of a fool. I don't know which life, you are poor again.
And because you are poor, you will do bad karma, even if you are rich. Let's look at the rich second generation. Is this kind of reincarnation fun?
It's better to go back. Amitabha.
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I'm the same.,My father at home is shameless.,I don't dare to engage in the object now.,I don't want to involve her.,My father still scolds my grandmother.,I don't know how to understand people who can't do anything by themselves.,I know that I eat and drink well.,Just know that you're good.,Everything is fine.,I don't know what to do.,I also thought about death.,But I'm really cowardly.,The knife is next to my neck.,I don't dare to move.,Now I don't know what to do.,I don't even have the qualifications to be loved by others.。。
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My father's illness was caused by a traumatic brain injury, and he was also very sick, noisy all day long, and now he has difficulty walking, but I don't feel ashamed! It's God who is honing me, and it has nothing to do with my father! There would be nothing else to do without a father.
Most of the neighbors understand very well, but the doorman discriminates against our family and speaks in a weird way, so I will hide it! Life is like this, there will always be such and such things, don't always feel how unfortunate you are! My family left the best house, the best food, and the best food to my father!
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This matter is really tricky, to be honest, I can't even accept the fact that his parents are sick all the year round, because if I get married, I have to earn money to support myself, my children, and the elderly to see a doctor, anyway, I can't stand having such parents at home, not to mention that there is a mentally ill person at home, and it is not good to quarrel with his daughter-in-law, scold, and be angry, who can stand such a thing! But you should be able to send your dad to a nursing home. There will be someone over there, just give money regularly!
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I really look down on you, I took my mentally ill father to a hospital in another place when I was 13 years old. The pillow was soaked countless times, and he hated him during the rebellious period.
He's your father, and you're really hardened.
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Me too, and now that the community has asked me to move out and live here, I can't hold on anymore.
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May your family be in harmony forever.
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Talk to your dad, don't tell your mom about it, tell your dad not to have a next time, if there is, you will never recognize him as a dad.
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Don't say anything, everything will pass, and your dad must be more sad than you are.
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People are not saints, practice is not faulty? Advise your dad not to have a next time.
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Investigate secretly and find out the truth. The camera acts.
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He suddenly couldn't believe that he had lived in a world without Aki for 17 years......On a Sunday in 1987, 17-year-old Sakuro (Takayuki Yamada), a sophomore in high school, went to his teacher's funeral and became a classmate Hiroshi.
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Have a good talk with your dad...Try to get him to correct it.
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Definitely wrong! And it's a big mistake!
It's just that the family doesn't want to give up, and they don't want to give up nuclear annihilation!
You must know that the current society has not changed and the culture is a hail that cannot survive!
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Have you thought about your parents' feelings, your parents are right, there is no right or wrong for you to run out, I think you will go back if you relax.
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Let's go back!! You can run to **!! Go home and talk to your parents.
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No, it's right to think about your parents.
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Homesickness is human nature, homesickness shows that you have a sense of home, heavy feelings, if you are really homesick, often go home to see, this is the most useful.
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Prove that you are a very filial person.
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Little sister, life has just begun, no matter how you can't think of dying, forget this step, he gave birth to you and raised you, you have to learn from you, don't worry if you don't manage it right, you are a girl, and you don't have to be with him for a generation, you have to get married, he looks down on you, the more you have to insist, and when the time comes, show him some results! Wait for the ability to seep into the sky by renting a small place by yourself, although there is confusion in the future, but there are always infinite possibilities waiting for you. Send you a word, it's all personal!
If you're not happy with your father's words, don't worry about him, it's usually sloppy"Dad"Go back to the room as soon as you go, and go outside, it seems that you can endure hardships, meet strangers or messy people are afraid or have no confidence, I send you experience, anyway, I eat mixed rice, for life, no matter who you are, as long as I have money in my eyes, I won't look back after earning your money, I don't bother to pay attention to you, work is for yourself, not for others, it's the same person! Who is afraid of whom, the strongest communication ability is that people scold you, and you laugh!Thinking of a money word in my heart!
How can a person be angry with a scolding dog haha Afterwards, there was a piece of sky, and he understood it when he met him without looking at him in the future.
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That is to say that you want to go out for a walk when you grow up, and you know that life is not so easy when you go out, but I still support it, because you don't experience the warmth of the family at all, and you can experience it well when you go out, which will be very helpful for your future life.
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...No matter how affectionate it is, it will break their hearts, it is not easy to raise children, you should be considerate of them, and you will know when you go out, which is not as good as home.
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Dear Mom and Dad, Your dear son is going to go to the rivers and lakes I hope that my parents will sponsor some funds When I play a piece of the world, I will come back Probably that's what it means.
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Communicate with your parents, it is best to get their support, how to use running will break your parents' hearts, will make them worry about death, wait until you become a parent.
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It doesn't make sense to love someone.
There is no need for a reason.
There is nothing wrong with love.
Love is love. Dare to love. Love.
True love. Strive for it.
Never give up.
Nothing is a problem.
As long as two people stick to their commitment to each other.
Insist on believing in each other and pursuing your true love.
There are solutions to some problems.
If you work hard, you will have a chance.
Bless you. We will succeed!
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I think you lost faith in yourself in the first place. If you really love each other, then why do you think so much, I know that loving someone, if that person doesn't love themselves is a very painful thing, now you have a "lover", and the two love each other, why not be together, if you love her, you have to fight more, you have seen, your girlfriend doesn't love the kid who mentioned the kiss, and the kid doesn't give up, I think he is a passionate person about his love, until the end, he doesn't give up, and you are afraid, In the end, I'm afraid that if I just give that kid the person you want to love, it will be too late. I feel like you're lacking in assertiveness about yourself!
If you can't do such a small thing, then how can you achieve a great cause in the future? You should think about your own future, your future is your own decision, not your parents, let alone anyone else.
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Hey, the political class must be asleep, the law clearly stipulates that parents can't arrange marriages, early marriages, engagements, etc., and they have to return the gift money, if it doesn't work, let the court mediate, happy children, read more laws, see if there is any that can get some compensation, try to remove the scum, and use it as a future wedding expense.
It's not easy for her to love you all the time.
Law, law, law, law
Something like charity doesn't just start in our homes, but also in our daily lives. We must cultivate the habit of charity in our daily life, so that no matter what you do, you will become very perfect, and your quality will be very high.
Dividing and harmony is a common thing in love, don't be sad anymore.
I am very optimistic, because at present, due to the abuse of NBA players, the NBA is not optimistic about the entire Chinese market, which is also an opportunity for the CBA.
The family does not need any formalities, and the detention center will give the expired person a good release certificate, and send the expired person to the last gate of the detention center, and open the door to obtain the long-lost freedom!
First of all: I think the recognition of sadness itself has meaning and value, but don't let the person concerned feel that sadness itself is very hurtful, and losing a person's natural emotions is also a kind of protection for themselves. >>>More