Is there a mother in law and daughter in law who does not have a confinement feud?

No! The enmity of the confinement is not shared!

I am very grateful to my mother-in-law because my mother-in-law did her best to take care of my confinement, so that later my mother-in-law also did many excessive things, but I was angry, but I was still able to do it to my mother-in-law like my own relatives, and I would think about my mother-in-law in everything!

My mother-in-law and I don't have a confinement enmity, my mother-in-law is very good to me, she cares for me when I am confined, and she is as considerate as a daughter, and I feel that my mother-in-law is really good at that time.

No, when I needed my mother-in-law the most, I didn't take care of it for various reasons, and no one was comfortable, and after giving birth to a child, I was weak and had to feed the child, so I couldn't be busy at all.

There are many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who do not have confinement feuds, as long as they maintain family harmony in daily life and actively communicate and resolve conflicts when they arise, then there will be no confinement feud.

Hardly. All the hatred between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in confinement cannot be resolved at all. And this hatred will intensify.

Passed down from generation to generation, the woman has just gotten married and her mother-in-law has all kinds of flattery, because she has no children, she is afraid of offending her daughter-in-law and getting divorced, but she is not convinced by a hundred in her heart, it is still the old tradition, thinking that her daughter-in-law will do housework to make money to support the family, but it will be different when she has a child, and the cooked duck will not fly.

It is a bit inappropriate to use the word "hatred" to describe family conflicts. A woman's confinement period is a special period, more sensitive, the same thing, the same thing, their mother said that they may not feel what happened, and their mother-in-law said that they may think more, which is easy to lead to small frictions, small resentments, small contradictions, in fact, they are all trivial things, but they are most likely to lead to a long time in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to disharmony.

Because the confinement is the most vulnerable time for the daughter-in-law, and it is also the time when she needs help the most, if the mother-in-law treats the daughter-in-law badly during the confinement, the daughter-in-law will definitely remember it for a lifetime.

If the mother-in-law does not take care of herself at this time, many daughters-in-law will remember the confinement hatred, and they will not take care of the mother-in-law when they are old.

I think the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, only a small part of it is a feud formed during the confinement, most of them are accumulated over time, not caused by a short period of time, and there is no reliable middleman to reconcile.

That's because girls are very fragile and very lost during confinement, and if they are not taken care of, it may affect them for the rest of their lives.

Yes, because the daughter-in-law needs someone to help with the confinement and take care of the child during the confinement period, at this time, if the mother-in-law does not help or always blames the daughter-in-law for loving her grandson too much, then it is easy to cause the daughter-in-law to be dissatisfied with the mother-in-law. In addition, when the daughter-in-law is dissatisfied with the mother-in-law's behavior, she will have a quarrel with her, so that the relationship between the two people will deteriorate from then on.

Because you can see clearly what kind of character your mother-in-law is during the confinement, the mother-in-law does not take good care of her daughter-in-law during the confinement, or she is not good to her daughter-in-law, which will make the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a grudge.

Because during the confinement, the mother's mood will be particularly bad, and the body will be very weak, if she is not well cared for, there will be conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Because during this period, a woman's psychological state will be very sensitive, so she may be very concerned about some small details.

Because in confinement, the daughter-in-law is exactly when she needs someone to take care of her, that is, when it can better reflect whether the interpersonal relationship is good or not.

When a woman gives birth to a child and is confined, it is the most vulnerable and weak time in a woman's life, and if she is bullied by her mother-in-law at this time, she will definitely be buried in her heart.

Personally, I think that during such a sensitive period of confinement, if conditions permit, it is best to avoid the care of your mother-in-law. If the conditions don't allow it, you can only tolerate each other more.

Just because these contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have not been well resolved, they have accumulated more and more, resulting in irresolvable enmity between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. And the cousin was also very embarrassed in the middle, saying that the daughter-in-law was wrong, and that his mother felt even more unfilial, so the daughter-in-law did not show up when her mother-in-law was sick and needed to be taken care of.

Of course, it has been described by the daughter-in-law that during the confinement, the mother-in-law disliked that the daughter-in-law gave birth to a daughter, so she did not take care of the daughter-in-law. When the mother-in-law is old, the daughter-in-law is reluctant to take care of the mother-in-law.

No, the average daughter-in-law respects her mother-in-law more, and because she has her husband, it is impossible to completely ignore her mother-in-law.

I have such an example around me, my best friend is like this, after getting married, I don't care about my mother-in-law at all, I feel that the two people have nothing in common together, I have also persuaded my best friend, but there is no way to change it.

Yes, my cousin is, she directly instigated her cousin-in-law to buy a house in the county where she was born, and completely ignored her mother-in-law.

Yes, my mother-in-law didn't go when my colleague gave birth, and when the moon was full, I was afraid of being told by others, so I never came again after coming once. I don't take care of the confinement child, now my mother-in-law is old, my colleagues haven't come home for many years, and now they don't get along with each other. Of course, there are also daughters-in-law who are generous, don't care about their mother-in-law, and take care of her when they are old.

Anyway, I can't be generous.

It's not that you don't report it, the time has not come. Don't have expectations, there will be no harm, whoever takes care of the parents, no one owes anyone.

Confinement is the rarest time for a womanIf you don't take care of it well, you may have a lot of problems in the body in the future, and this time is also the most difficult time for girls, there are injuries on the body, and you have to feed the child, and the frequency of eating is also very high, at this time the mother is not resting well, so at this time it is likely that because of the mother-in-law's words, which will have a great impact on the psychology of women, and hold a grudge in the heart, which will cause the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be very tense

Because during confinement, the daughter-in-law has a big temper and needs to be taken care of by the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are easy to quarrel.

Because the confinement period is the weakest time for pregnant women, they also need to be cared for and loved, if the mother-in-law treats the daughter-in-law badly during the confinement period, the daughter-in-law will psychologically feel that the mother-in-law is not good to her at all, and after the confinement, she will always keep the mother-in-law bad for her in mind during this time.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good during the confinement period, mainly because the daughter-in-law is weaker during the confinement. The bad side is all shown, and the mother-in-law will not be able to stand the daughter-in-law.

It is because during the confinement period, you can see the nature of your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law clearly, so it is said that confinement is the most serious stage of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Yes, once the mother does not take care of her daughter's confinement or refuses to take care of her, the daughter will definitely remember it for a lifetime, unforgettable, and can't be herself!

I think so, because when a girl is in confinement, she is often the most vulnerable, and if someone treats her badly at this time, she will remember this hatred very deeply.

It must be like this, especially during confinement, if your mother doesn't care about herself, she will definitely feel unhappy in her heart, and she will also feel very unhappy.

The confinement feud between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to unravel, and I think both parties need to be considerate of each other, so that they can live in harmony.

1. Women are inherently sensual species. Grievances and hatreds are clear, and revenge will be avenged. During confinement, a woman's mood swings are very large, and it is easy to hold a grudge against her mother-in-law if she does not take care of her.

2, in fact, the key is not how the confinement feud is. When a woman is at her weakest, her mother-in-law has such a face, and it is hard to imagine what her mother-in-law is in ordinary life. Over time, anger accumulates and cannot be resolved.

3, the daughter-in-law is very good to the mother-in-law, but the mother-in-law is good to the daughter-in-law, and if she can't see it, she blames the daughter-in-law, whether it is a man or a woman, he will be angry, okay, this kind of hatred cannot be solved.

It's definitely hard to unravel, think about it, when you need someone to take care of you the most, if your mother-in-law doesn't care about herself, and doesn't even look at it, then who will be good to your mother-in-law in the future?

The confinement feud between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually difficult to unravel, especially when confinement suffers so many crimes, so after the confinement, I am in good health, and I must have a great opinion on my mother-in-law, and I will hold a grudge in my heart.

I think the key is to communicate effectively between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, express their thoughts and opinions, put their own mentality, don't interfere too much, and reserve a certain amount of space for both parties to reduce conflicts.

During confinement, you should talk to your husband more and prepare your mother-in-law psychologically, because the mood during confinement is capricious. I hope my mother-in-law can understand herself.

If we all take a step back, it will be the sea and the sky. Mother-in-law should feel sorry for the daughter-in-law just after giving birth, the daughter-in-law should also be considerate of the mother-in-law to serve the confinement, confinement is more critical for women, the confinement will not do well will fall a lifetime of disease, since it is a family, we should be considerate of each other, tolerate each other, understand each other, the family will be happy.

During the confinement period of the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law should take care of her and never lose her elders' temper. During the confinement period, the daughter-in-law should have a good attitude, don't lose her temper, and pay attention to respecting her elders.

If you want to sit comfortably in confinement, you can invite a confinement lady if you can, or go to the confinement center for confinement, if the economic pressure is high, you can confinement yourself, let the mother-in-law help cook, and the baby will bring it by himself, which can reduce a lot of contradictions.

Before giving birth to a baby, you can take the initiative to communicate with your mother-in-law to popularize more parenting knowledge, or you can take your mother-in-law to a professional institution to learn parenting experience courses.

During the confinement period, the mother-in-law must help by the daughter-in-law's side. If the mother-in-law does not want to serve or is worried that she will not serve well, she should explain to her daughter-in-law in advance and send her to the confinement center. A daughter-in-law should also be considerate of her mother-in-law.