I m 25 years old, why is life confused and can t see hope for the future?

Updated on society 2024-02-20
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because you don't have a goal and don't know what you want to do, then explore, try, and find your direction in life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's quite normal. Our energy.

    There are two reasons that come to mind: disappointment in life (thinking that you can't get the life you want); I haven't found my dream for the time being (now there is a lot of pressure on all sides, and it's not easy to set up a dream).

    In fact, no matter how confused you are, you can't have the idea of suicide, you have to think more about the people you care about and the people who care about you, if you are gone, how sad they should be!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I feel the same way, bai

    There will always be a difficult time in a person's life, but it will always pass, and the time will prove it to you, maybe you.

    Edition doesn't believe me now.

    Power words, it doesn't matter, most people are frustrated at this time, anyway, sooner or later will pass, this is also a part of life, in short, you remember, everything will pass!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Such a topic cannot be understood in a few words. First of all, I am very confused about life, and I should think from the following aspects: first, there is no faith, lack of self-confidence and courage, what is faith? Faith is a person's cognition of society and belief in life.

    Lazy, inferior, not working hard, complaining, right and wrong, so there is no confidence and no hope in life, so I am very confused about life.

    Diligence, self-confidence, and hope are the driving force of life, and a person who is full of hope for life must be a person who is aggressive and hardworking, then he must also be full of confidence and hope for the reality and future life!

    If you are not blinded by the world, you can sail lightly in the sea of people!

    Diligence can make up for the clumsiness, and dripping water can be made into a tool!

    Establish a correct outlook on life, thousands of rivers and mountains are just waiting for leisure!

    I was born to be useful, why should I be inferior to believe in fate!

    It's normal to have such thoughts, don't worry too much, and it's right to be prepared for danger in times of peace in a comfortable environment.

    Living in the present, not many people can have no worries about their future, we ordinary people have different pressures every day, the so-called living in the present, is to cherish the present, thinking too far is not much meaning,.

    Sometimes I think that fate is really confusing, many years ago, no matter what, I would never have thought that I am in such a state today, such a job, such a state of mind, now think about it, as long as there is the right direction, there is a general goal, and hard work is enough, any kind of life or happiness that I want will not be too easy.

    When you encounter anything, you have to think for the better, but you must have the worst-case mentality to calmly deal with and face what happens. Coming to this dream-like world is the result of many lifetimes of creation, so you have to cherish it, live a wonderful life, live freely, and run hard if you want to live...

    May all those who have dreams and efforts be able to reach the other side, and their efforts and efforts will be rewarded accordingly...

    In this era of homeland loss, the hearts of the people of the global village Ah! Where to put it! Where to erect a monument!

    On Earth? In the universe? In the Milky Way?

    Or is it in the hearts of the ancients? [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears]

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Life is bitter a lot of the time, but we continue to work hard because of the sweetness of life. Bad life is waiting for you to change, so why not try to take a small step to change yourself. Without a degree, we can change the future by learning technology.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feeling confused about the future, then you should come up with the goal you want now, or you should want to achieve a certain height, once you have a goal in life, you have an ideal, then you should strive in this direction, during this period, you can enrich yourself with knowledge, you can also use self-discipline to regulate yourself, so that you can continue to be strong, and you will be closer to your goal. In addition, the best way is to start from the small things around you, go to bed early and get up early, quit smoking, quit drinking, quit games, set aside a period of time every day to read, exercise, and work hard, so that you will find that your life is very fulfilling, and you will be one step closer to your ideals. <>

    Many people will feel very confused about the future at a certain stage or in multiple stages, which is a very normal thing, because people's thinking is more complex, and there will be more external factors, which will affect your judgment and judgment, so it will naturally affect your life and your future. Once your mind appears, a certain amount of slackness or inability to change your current situation, then there is always some confusion about the future. In this case, you can stop and rest for a while, and then use this time to think about what you are pursuing or your own ideals, and after determining the direction, you must make a long-term plan and implement it in strict accordance with the plan you have made, so that you can achieve a very self-disciplined life and be closer to your ideals.

    Even if you don't meet the expectations you want in the later stages, you will find that your life will get better and better, and people say that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, so the plans you make and your strict self-discipline life are actually prepared for opportunities. <>

    There must be a lot of projects in your plan that need to be implemented, such as constantly enriching yourself, starting from two aspects, the first is to invest in knowledge, constantly learn new knowledge or skills, you can go to the certification, you can also use your spare time to learn some crafts. The second aspect is to keep your body in the best condition, go to bed early and get up early to exercise, and you must persevere for a long time, after a few months, or even a year, you will find that your body is a little different, and your spirit will be well improved. Of course, in addition to these two aspects, there is a third aspect, which is to cultivate your own hobbies, you must know that hobbies are what you are very willing to do, so often hobbies may become your main development direction in the future.

    If you can do all of these things, then your future will definitely not be confused, and if you stick to it, there will definitely be great changes, and the people around you will even envy you very much.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The confusion of the future consciousness of their own conditions may not be very good, the second is that there is no clear goal, now in the study of more skills to enrich yourself, improve your ability, slowly ponder what you are pursuing, and then move forward, the best, will always be waiting for you on the road.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's time to adjust your form, be hopeful and optimistic about the future. Determine your goals for the future, cheer up, for the sake of your future life, now you have to work hard, set good goals, make a good plan, and move towards your goals. There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of those who have a heart. Come on.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    At the moment, you are in a period of anxiety, and you need to relax your state and regain your self-confidence and goals, so that you will be motivated after having a plan and expectations.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personally, I think it's normal to feel lost about the future, and at this time, I must calm down and read more books to enrich myself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To be honest, I am not qualified for this question, because I am also in the stage of confusion about the future, but we must make a plan for the future, set a goal, and work hard to achieve it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Enrich yourself, now this society is very cruel, you don't have some particularly outstanding skills, it is difficult to gain a foothold in this society, while you are still young, hurry up to improve your ability, let your daily life become full.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can read more books and find solutions to problems from books, many of which are actually problems that you have not enlightened in your own mind.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm 37 and still confused, what are you afraid of? Thanks to this era, I am still hungry for the time being, and there is hope for a breath.

    People will have times when they are confused, and at this time you can let yourself relax appropriately, but the time can't last too long, and you must quickly determine the goal.

    Elevate yourself. Of course, just looking at it has no effect, you have to start to improve yourself in a planned way, and you have to take action, although there is no goal in life, but the goal of personal improvement is similar, that is, to become a better version of yourself.

    The purpose of asking questions is to gain a deep understanding of yourself.

    Only by understanding yourself can you understand what you can do and how to go in the future.

    Ask yourself questions about specific things or objects to look back at yourself.

    Ask questions by identifying problems with different attitudes towards the same thing between yourself and others. (i.e., finding the problem by comparison).

    Find out the most fundamental answer by analyzing the influence of past parents, family members, relatives, teachers, friends, colleagues, leaders, etc.

    When you have some insights, record them, and when you have them, review and analyze your past behaviors according to your own feelings.

    Confused is right, life is left and right, you must be facing a problem now, don't know how to choose, this process is confused, but make up your mind to choose one after that, of course, left and right are right, it depends on how you choose.

    The age group of 26 years old is a very special age group, just graduated from college, has a job, and is also a group with little income, maybe just talked about friends, although it is the age of marriage, want to get married, financially it is still a breath away, and there is no capital for a down payment to buy a house. Therefore, people of this age are very confused about the future, and it is difficult to have a way at their age, if they start from primitive accumulation, or to struggle and work hard, they may not be able to endure this hardship, or they do not have this social conditions (they can set up a stall to evade taxes).

    Now, these people have now chosen not to get married and be single, because he can't earn millions of dollars in housing prices in his life, which is a social problem worth thinking about, and it may be that they are more confused.

    There are also some serious problems, think about it, there is still no way, there is no good way to solve it, one is too expensive, two, the house price is too expensive, three is too much pressure, even ordinary expenses can not be afforded, no food if you don't go to work, no way to be confused.

    Therefore, it is necessary to introduce policies to encourage them to have jobs and positions, and give them the confidence to survive and live, except that there seems to be no way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What is the future of a person, no one can give an answer, if you are confused because of the past and present, frustration and confusion, it is not necessary, these are really too slim on the road of life, but if you have been bound by these things, then maybe in the coming days will be full of all kinds of negative energy, and the days will get worse and worse.

    Nowadays, the Internet is developing at an unimaginably fast speed, and because of this, we have been affected by too much on the Internet, causing ourselves to be anxious and doubt ourselves. I want to say, let go of these things that interfere with you, and think about how to improve yourself, not to mention that you are only in your early 20s now, and the road of life is still so long, who can predict the future.

    Don't mess up every day, as long as you're willing to work hard, as long as you're willing to make changes, it's never too late. Don't be sober and rotten, and before going to bed at night, say that you will study hard tomorrow, and the next day will be the same, so that day after day will really be wasted.

    Be sober, understand what you want, anyone can counterattack, don't think about the very distant future, focus on the present, and find a way to solve the uneasiness and concerns.

    You can set a small goal for yourself at each stage and achieve it little by little (for example, you must complete one thing a month, and you can reward yourself to do something you like or something, otherwise you can't touch anything in a month), and then you can set one or two big goals in a year (the goal should not be too ambitious, it should be realistic). Everything is difficult at the beginning, as long as you take the first step, it is a turning point. And most importantly, put down your phone, put down your phone, put down your phone!

    You can uninstall the short **app,I myself feel that I'm not as impetuous and anxious as before since I logged out these things.,Personally, I've turned off pyq now.,It's really useful.,You can come step by step.,Every day it's not necessary, you won't keep holding it.,But sometimes you can't put it down, but as long as you start to do it, you can) A lot of times it's really something on the Internet that subtly instills a lot of unhealthy things in us.。

    Put down your phone, read a book, go to the gym (I personally think that exercise can really make you feel brighter), chat with your parents and friends, you can also find what you like to do, don't hold a mobile phone every day, people will be wasted.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    With hard work, anything is possible.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Life is like a game, the sweetest laugh at the end, success or failure is often converted in an instant.

    Life needs to have a systematic planning, need to lay a solid foundation first, first learn to survive and then seek development, and gradually realize ideals and goals.

    If you really want to become a successful person and be invincible, you must not care about the gains and losses of the moment, you must have a long-term plan, and you can win a thousand miles by strategizing, and if you want to succeed, you need to have the following basic conditions: 1. A higher level of knowledge; 2. Solid material foundation; 3. Good personal quality; 4. Good interpersonal relationship; 5. Timely opportunities; 6. Have a series of long-term plans and short-term goals; 7. Good economic operation environment in the surrounding area; 8. Stable and harmonious family; 9. Indifferent mood, optimistic interest in life, open-mindedness, gratitude and other excellent qualities.

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