What is it like for a 25 year old single girl to be confused about the future?

When I was 20 years old, I was still a stupid girl, I was not interested in love and not envious, basically every day at three o'clock, classroom, cafeteria, library, dormitory, living in my own small world, watching **, eating some snacks, getting some scholarships, and not being single. When I was 21 years old, I met a senior from a neighboring school, hazy, and said that he liked me, so let's have a relationship, this is not the first love, I ate a few meals, his roommates were together, and then it ended up without a problem, and I can't remember what caused the result now. There is no sadness, and there is no joy of returning to singleness, and I am dumbfounded.

After graduating from college and working for two years, most of my classmates and friends are in pairs, only to feel lonely, and I also want to find a boyfriend to greet me, pick up and drop off to work, buy love breakfast, and then because of my introverted personality, influenced by my original family, I dare not let go of falling in love, afraid of being hurt, afraid of not being worthy of others, at that time I was more inferior, and the two who had a good impression did not make it and continued to be single. When I am 27 years old, I am older, and my family can't stand it anymore, and my relatives will ask if they have a boyfriend when they meet during the New Year's holiday, why don't you talk about a boyfriend? Or who has a good child, how much salary, what education, has a house and a car at home, and doesn't want to go home?

As you get older, this situation is getting worse and worse, and some of the obnoxious seven aunts and eight aunts will look at you with strange eyes, and you feel that you have a big problem; The back is even more outrageous, I was unmarried and childless, and I actually graduated from junior high school and graduated from junior high school, divorced with children, and the feeling at that time was that I was so low-level, and I wanted to cry without tears.

It's just a little skeptical about life, whether it's destined to be loved by no one or something, but then I reacted, people, you still have to love yourself, if you bloom butterflies, this is my experience.

It's not our fault that we are single, we also want to have a long-term love, and we also hope to have someone who understands me, loves me, and loves me by my side, but for various reasons, we have to be single for 20 years, or 30 years longer. The middle reasons, some of which are their own, are young and frivolous, conceited, high or low, or have been deeply hurt by a former relationship, "choking and wasted food", and since then they have hidden their feelings and never fell in love again.

The advantage of being single is that you are free and unconcerned. One person is full, and the whole family is not hungry, which is the true portrayal of singleness. I like to be imaginative, not too constrained, and not very used to being managed.

Sometimes, when you come to a walk-and-go trip, you can wander the world without worrying about it, and go to see the most beautiful scenery in the world.

Being single is often chic, and a person can also have a free time with the little sisters, but most people also hope to be able to have a warm embrace of their own when they are helpless.

When I was in junior high school, I also had a table mate who had a good relationship with me, was very handsome, and played basketball very well, and at that time he was the most popular boy in the school, and being her tablemate should be the reason why many girls are jealous. At that time, I really liked him, and I would pretend to secretly hit him by mistake, and I would quietly write a diary to say every heart-warming moment. But I, as a woman of ordinary appearance, really didn't have the courage to say to him

I like you. Then I was single until now.

It is recommended that you find your interests, such as what you like, what you want, and what your goals are.

Start by setting yourself a short-term goal, which can be written on a piece of paper and list your goals, from near to far. Then mark the time limit at the back, and Qi Zao Lao gives himself a lock, so that he has a sense of purpose and tension, in order to achieve these goals, you will have the motivation to live and work.

This is similar to the fact that people who are seriously ill do not have the belief to live, most of them will worship Jesus, give themselves a belief and sustenance, create a motivation for themselves, and let themselves struggle, I think it is precisely because it is very difficult to get ahead in the context of the external environment, so we must give ourselves confidence and motivation. Regardless of whether you can achieve your dreams or not, you must have the resilience to be young and not afraid to rush forward.

No goal will invisibly let you waste a good time in your youth, I really hope you can give yourself a coordinate, reasonable planning of your life goals. Give yourself a short-term and long-term consideration, rock brigade so that you will feel motivated, and from now on to work hard towards the specified goal!

May your people be born meaningfully

Think about what you want to do, whether it's a normal life or what goals you want to achieve.