What should parents do when they are in opposition to their dreams?

Uh-debate, the path of life is our own choice, we only have one life, our parents can't finish life for us, our dreams are the meaning of our existence, in order to prove the value of existence, is the recognition of self. People can not have dreams, no dreams are equal to no hope, and the dream that cannot be adhered to is the saddest, in any case, if we identify a dream, then even if the failure is the success we will bear by ourselves, at the same time, we hope that our parents will give us a chance to choose the path, so that our youth has no regrets ......

Although parents have a high level of social experience, they have lost their hope and are content with the status quo.

It is important to know that only those who work hard can succeed.

Find the person your parents trust and respect the most, that is, a third party, find him, ask him to help, and things will be very simple

The superfluous is all nonsense

People born in the 70s will choose to face the debate directly, the post-80s will be more serious, and the post-90s should be better at leveraging strength, are you a post-90s?

OK Find a third party

First, the idea. 1. The first paragraph puts forward a point.

2. The second paragraph illustrates the situation.

3. Write the reason in the third paragraph.

4. Summary of the fourth paragraph.

Second, the hand-rolled discussion.

You should follow some of your parents' arrangements, or at least discuss them with them.

Whether we should obey the mother's arrangement or not, we can't generalize. First, it depends on the parents' cultural level, social experience, and cognitive ability level; second, it depends on whether the arrangement of the parents is suitable for you; Third, we should look at our own education level, cognitive level and judgment ability; Fourth, it depends on the degree of dependence on parents; Fifth, it is necessary to look at the current situation of communication and exchange between the two sides and the degree of mutual harmony.

If you have the ability to live and work independently, if your parents' arrangements do not meet your wishes, if your parents' cognitive ability and taste level are not high enough, you can certainly not listen to your parents' arrangements. But don't be hard, don't be too straight, you should find a way to move forward in a roundabout way, take the kind of way that your parents can accept, you must know that your parents' life is not easy, you must understand your parents' good intentions, and don't go against your parents' wishes casually.

The age of the students is very young, and only a small number of them have mature values, worldview and outlook on life, so when encountering a lot of life and social things, listen more to the advice of their parents, you can avoid many detours and grow up as soon as possible. How to take the road in the future can suit yourself and take into account the feelings of your parents, and you can't just decide everything based on your own preferences or immature ideas.