The distress that has plagued me for years, the things that have always plagued me

Low self-confidence.

To say that it is serious is inferiority.

Three years after I graduated, I have come to realize that this state of mind is completely useless for my own development.

For the sake of yourself, for the sake of your family, you have to change, if you can use the help of others to achieve the goal of success, after success, will you still think that you used to ask for help from others when you were very faceless? ?

No, you will be moved with pride and will be grateful for the help you have been given.

Cheer up, work hard, and when you succeed and look back, you'll know that it's actually a sign of maturity.

Don't hide under your own theories and wait for that dignity alone.

We men are there to prove ourselves by conquering the world.

The poor have to save face and suffer sin.

You have to work your own, and you have to grasp a good life by yourself. In fact, you can get better hands-on exercise opportunities in small units, as long as you have the ability.

You can go to the big unit, not with a relationship that makes you ashamed, but with your pride from the bone.

Leo's? It's a bit like my personality! Most of a person's success depends on their own efforts, and a certain amount of assistance from the outside world can only make us a little closer to success, and the help of others can not make us really successful, but sometimes there will be a kind of dependence!

The person who can really help you is yourself. Being too square, not conducive to social interaction, appropriate tactfulness is still needed, although the heart is very resistant, but the surface work still has to be done... Hehe!

I also have a similar experience, no matter how rich relatives are, not very comfortable, but it doesn't matter, if they are willing to help you, it means that they love you as a junior, this is not called asking, relatives help each other, in the normal, as long as it is not too demanding, it is reasonable, it is not necessary for you to pay self-esteem, because you have the prerequisite of family affection.

Don't be so unconfident, the working class is the majority after all, and it's not interesting to rely on asking people to achieve great things.

You just take it one step at a time, and it's always a good thing to strive for the top.

It's a good thing that you don't want to ask for someone, as long as you have the perseverance, you can not ask for someone for the rest of your life, this is definitely not a psychological problem, please rest assured, but you don't want to look at people with colored glasses, your relatives may be just a little stranger to you like you.

Your question has actually been felt by many people. It's better not to work with relatives, it's right to do a good job, and it's hard for you to explain if you don't do a good job, and you constantly owe favors to others.

Working in this environment is a great burden of thought, not understanding the outside world, having no future, and not being a Fortune 500 company worth talking about. After a long time, I was stupid, and the young man finally came out to make a living on his own, which was a training for himself. To put it mildly, your parents have left you (died), who do you rely on?

So, you have to fight for your breath. The sooner you leave, the better.

You're a man of backbone.

It's better to ask for others than for yourself, man. Take a long-term view. Before the age of 30, it can withstand the toss. Because you haven't qualitatively yet. Have you ever seen a few people who bought a car and a house on their own before the age of 30?

The most important thing at the moment is not to make money, but to accumulate experience and learn skills...

Sharpen the knife and don't mistake the woodcutter. If you have the ability, you are afraid that you will not be able to make money???

My next-door neighbor is almost 40. Last year, I failed to do business, lost more than 4 million, and owed more than 2 million, and all the savings of more than 10 years were lost.

Therefore, men should have a long-term vision, and temporary success or failure cannot determine victory or loss. What's more, you're still very young, and there's still a long way to go.

You don't have to rely on others. If you are angry and strong, it won't take a few years for those relatives to look at you differently!

There's no way, find your own way out.

Go to that person's place, if the family really doesn't want to go, you can go by yourself, bring some gifts or something, and say more nice things.

There's no way, it's ...... to beg someone to do somethingOf course, the premise is that the landlord really wants that job.

The general opening line of a conversation is to reminisce about the old days first, whether it is a friend or a relative, and the Lala relationship is always conducive to talking

The situation you mentioned, every unit has it. Based on your educational background, maybe you graduated from junior high school? Others think that all these things are yours.

Since that's the case, you should do it willingly, and don't get along with yourself. After working for a long time, everyone can't do without you, and your position is stable.

Learning to say no is a skill to improve yourself

Of course, don't be emotional, it's very formal, and you can easily make a request, such as: I need to sign but I can't do something today

Learning to say no doesn't mean not cooperating, and don't be embarrassed and blame yourself. You are the greatest in the world, love yourself!

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In fact, not everyone's life is smooth sailing, parents want their children to live well no matter what, but sometimes their views are not necessarily correct.

In real life, there are many things that can't do both, sometimes, in order to pursue their own happiness, it is inevitable that there will be deviations from the views of their parents, I think, if they oppose it, you can work both sides, if your parents still disagree, and you feel that person is your lifelong dependence, then you will boldly pursue your happiness. After all, you will live with him in the future, not by your parents' side for the rest of your life.

It's so tangled, you first have to determine whether love is coming, maybe your parents are strict, you shouldn't look for family affection in other people of the opposite sex, and take the so-called father's love as love, I think you still have to think about it,

Young people should go out and venture out, and as for the ideological work of their parents, they should be persuaded with a little patience, and I don't think your parents want you to achieve nothing. If you make a name for yourself outside, I'm sure your parents won't be like that in the future.

As for what you said is him, I personally think that you just take the fatherly love that you have been missing for many years as love.