What does the rural saying There are four items in the family, and the family will die ?

I believe that everyone wants to have a happy family, but many times it backfires. In fact, it is not difficult to have a happy home, as long as everyone in the family takes care of it, it will get better one day. Family decay is usually preceded by signs.

In this regard, there is a saying in the countryside that says: "There are four items in the family, and the family will die", which is very reasonable, so which are the four items?

First, the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious.

In society, husband and wife are the simplest and most basic family composition. Therefore, the relationship between husband and wife is very important for a family. For example, in a family of two, if the husband and wife do not get along, the family is in danger of disintegration at any time.

In a family of three, discord between husband and wife can also have a huge negative impact on the character of their children.

Second, children are not filial.

As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, and if a person can't treat his parents who raised him well, he can't be good to others. Such a person will not be popular in society, and it will be difficult for this person to be successful in the future. If the elderly in the family are not well cared for, and the children will not have any income in the future, the family will not prosper.

Third, the relationship between relatives is not good.

The relationship here is not only limited to the relationship between husband and wife, but also includes the relationship between siblings in the family or father-son, mother-daughter. We all know the phrase "family and everything prospers", and we have also heard of "harmony produces wealth".。Only harmony in the family will bring prosperity to the family.

Fourth. There are people in the family who gamble.

Needless to say, everyone knows this. Once a person is stuck to gambling, the person can be said to be finished. And it's not just a person, it's a family

Since ancient times, countless people have gone bankrupt because of gambling. There are even those who sell their wives and children. Can such a home still be considered a home?

Either husband and wife are addicted to gambling, their children are not filial, their husbands and wives are unfaithful to their feelings, and the relationship between relatives is not harmonious.

In society, husband and wife are the simplest and most basic family composition. Therefore, the relationship between husband and wife is for a family.

It means that if there is no happy family, the family will be down.

In society, husband and wife are the simplest and most basic family composition. But many times it backfires.

Relationships between relatives are not harmonious. Friends who live in rural areas will find that there are many families in rural areas.

That is, if some things are not handled well, it will lead to family disharmony and unhappy life.

The four items refer to the discord between husband and wife, the unfilial piety of children, the poor relationship between relatives and participation in gambling.

1. Either husband and wife are addicted to gambling.

Second, children are not filial.

3. The husband and wife are emotionally unfaithful.

Fourth, there is no harmony between relatives.

There is some connection between the disrespect of the old, the disrespect of the young, and the discord between the close relatives, so I put these two together. Respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and if we fail to do this, we will be spurned by the world. It is our responsibility to respect the elderly, to set an example for our children, to love the younger ones and to help them thrive.

Discord with close relatives, this is closely related to their own character and way of dealing with the world, in the countryside often said that a person, if he and his relatives are not getting along, who else can this person work with.

In a family, there are four situations: husband and wife are not harmonious, children are not filial to their parents, relatives are not in good relationship, and gambling. Families will fall and families will be ruined.

Contamination with gambling vices, discord between husband and wife, lax family education, and discord between siblings are difficult to maintain family harmony if there are these four bad problems.

There are four main characteristics of family decay. The first is that there is no harmony between husband and wife. The second is the lack of strict discipline over children. The third is that children are not diligent in their studies and are inquisitive. Fourth, there are people in the family who are tainted with bad habits.

1.There is no harmony between husband and wife

The relationship between husband and wife is the most fundamental relationship in a family. The family is the most basic unit of society. If there is no harmony between husband and wife, then the family will not be harmonious, and it will also have a certain impact on their own children.

If there is no harmony between husband and wife, this most basic social unit will not be united, and it will not be able to create a better life together, and the family will slowly decline.

2.Lack of strict discipline over children

Children are the future of a family, but also the future of the motherland. If the discipline of children is not strict, children may be contaminated with the bad atmosphere of society, and children may also take the wrong path. If you are strict with your child when he is young, he may be angry or unhappy, but he will definitely be grateful to you when he grows up, because only when you develop good living habits and study habits for him when he is a child, he will be able to walk on a better path by himself when he grows up, if not, the child will not embark on a better path.

3.Children are not diligent in their studies and are inquisitive

It is a big problem that children are not diligent and inquisitive. If a child is not diligent in learning and inquisitive, it means that he has no desire to explore the world, and he will not be able to create a better life and make his life full of fun, so such a family will also have some problems in the future.

4.The family is contaminated with bad habits

If the family members are not corrected in time if they are contaminated with bad habits, then the family will go into decay. There are many kinds of bad habits that family members have, such as taking money to gamble and gambling until the family goes bankrupt, and there are many, many people who have nothing. There are also many people who take out all their family savings to do some improper things, and repeatedly destroy their own families.

First, not being filial to one's parents. Second, brotherly discord. Third, the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious.

Fourth, they are involved in the vice of eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling. Therefore, as a parent, the greatest wealth left to their children is not the wealth of the family, but the establishment of correct values and outlook on life for them.

The decline of the family is first of all that the children in the family are not outstanding, and even that the children in the family are corrupt and cannot inherit the excellent property or culture left by the frontier, and there is also that they are incompatible with the surrounding families, and the family members do not want to make progress and do not want to restore the glorious achievements of their elders.

The first is related to gambling. Second, the relationship between husband and wife is not good. Third, the family education is not strict. Fourth, siblings are incompatible.

There are unfilial offspring in the family, brothers and sisters do not love each other, husbands and wives do not love each other, they are scattered, there are bad living habits such as gambling, and there are incidents of murder for money.

In rural areas, it is often said that "there are four items in the family, and the family will also die", what does this mean? Does it make sense now?